Delete/Block Tactic

EuphoricOnesieHugs · 2019-10-19T14:59:04+00:00

Fuck no. I'm not wasting a single second on these grown men who can't figure out how to get a clue. Let other women fall into that potential trap while I move on to finding better men.

There is no freer feeling than just ghosting these guys and not feeling the need to explain your choices or help them better themselves. Men don't give a shit about you bettering yourself in the next relationship and would block, then be fucking another girl an hour later if they could.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2019-10-19T17:40:46+00:00

I'd like to add that you should at tell them why. Deleting/blocking is fine, but in the end most MOIDS will just pin the problem on you saying you're crazy. I'd tell them why then delete/block. Personally, I don't delete or block. A male friend said men don't like confrontation from a woman which makes confronting men all the more enjoyable. If we expect men to be better, tell them why. It's really not that much effort.

First of all. It is not your job or place to teach a man how to behave and treat a girl. It is NOT your problem that he's failing at the basics of courtship, is emotionally unintelligent, has poor handling of social cues, and doesn't bother to google it or something. It is NOT your job to "teach" or "fix anyone". You don't owe him SHIT. You don't owe him socialization lessons, you don't owe him nurturing or patience, or anything. If you allow yourself to put up with it, you'll be entertaining male bullshit.

You can tell him the reason why he's being blocked all you want, but you don't owe him shit. You're NOT expected to be his mother and allow for his man-childness.

rftw2013 · 2019-10-19T14:39:52+00:00

Agree. I will say something like, "I'm not available for you booty-calling me," and then block him.

Don't get emotional about it. "I find (insert bad behavior) disrespectful, and I'm blocking you." Be very matter-of-fact, zero emotion.

Other phrases: I'm not available for (bad behavior.) I'm blocking you. High quality women like me dislike/won't tolerate (bad behavior). I'm blocking you. I expect better than (bad behavior), I'm blocking you. I deserve better than (bad behavior); I'm blocking you.

Don't give them a second chance, and don't apologise. They're seeing how far they can push; try that shit with someone else.

lilsaihah · 2019-10-20T08:10:46+00:00

It's not really your job. If you want to give them advice, sure, they might take it well but a lot of the time they'll take it pretty poorly. They might take it as "i'm not interested in you now but if you fix xyz come back!" you don't want that.

If they want someone to give them dating advice they're probably going to be better off talking to their friends. If you have male friends and they ask for dating advice, don't be shy about giving it, but people you're immediately breaking up with? Nah.

Also personally I wouldn't give up ghosting for anything.

2019-10-20T15:34:18+00:00

I happen to agree with you. I live in an area where people know each other, either through mutual friends or co-workers. I never know when I might run into that person again or perhaps need them in a professional or networking capacity. Unless there has been abuse/harassment, I think it’s better to not burn bridges.

CSQUITO · 2019-10-20T22:34:32+00:00

Yes I always tell them why. Then delete

Title	Delete/Block Tactic
Author	JuddHerpatow
Upvotes	21
Comments	48
Date	October 19, 2019 2:03 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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