Don't put up cameras and don't internalize it as "your own insecurities." If the person you're dating doesn't want to honor your requests on a dealbreaker issue, then you leave. Don't even waste your time wondering if they have an addiction. Put yourself first and just go.

LadyGrimes · 2020-09-21T22:48:05+00:00

I really HATE these types of women. They make the porn addicts out to be the fucking victims every goddamn time. Oh you don't want your boyfriend/husband imagining hes fucking other girls? YOU ARE CONTROLLING!/s

The only way to fight this shit is to let these pickmes have the porn sick men. The rest of us steer clear of them and dump them at the drop of a hat.

ello-motto · 2020-09-21T23:12:04+00:00

Look, it's not about the addiction.

It's the disrespect.

It's a red hot blaring signal that shows he is happy to "ogle" at women and treat their existence as a wank tool.

It shows he has poor self-control, that he lacks discipline.

These are all LVM traits. These men cannot be relied on.

Can't believe this idiot is trying to gaslight us women by saying we gaslight men for their misogynistic and dehumanising acts.

bye-raspberry · 2020-09-22T01:23:28+00:00

"OH JEEZ it's been 15 seconds since I've told everyone that I'm not like other girls, better make a new post"

yokoonoyes · 2020-09-21T21:58:32+00:00

Hope she gets picked 💁🏻‍♀️💅🏼

C_Haggy · 2020-09-21T23:23:46+00:00

They always start making wild, unnecessary distinctions between a 'regular' porn habit and porn addiction.

I don't care if he's addicted or not. I don't want to date a man who supports the porn industry, not once a day, not once a month - never.

I'm pretty sure porn addiction isn't a recognized psychological condition, anyway. It's safe to assume that 'porn addiction' is just a scrotastical excuse for choosing to engage in inexcusable behavior.

2020-09-22T08:17:52+00:00

Oh honey. So this woman is saying that your partner should not care that he is hurting your feelings and making you insecure bc he is watching porn and he shouldn't stop bc its not an addiction! So basically fuck what your gf is feeling, ignore her feelings of insecurity and sadness, do not respect her boundaries and let the guy jack off to women on the internet. Wow thats so healthy sis. Shes in for a wild ride.

lunatigre · 2020-09-21T23:56:57+00:00

There's no comparison between a consumer of violence against women, human trafficking, and child rape and wanting to hang out with guy friends or using social media. None.

textbasedpanda · 2020-09-22T07:13:11+00:00

I had a fight with many dudes who thought that "but I'm an addicts so it's not my fault" was a good argument.

Women feel like trash when they date pornsick males and a relationship is not supposed to make you feel like that. Period.

Also who wants a man who can't even control himself???? That an unsafe space for a woman

textbasedpanda · 2020-09-22T08:57:59+00:00

I'm sorry but he literally has either an addiction or no respect for you if he can't give up wanting to other women getting fucked 😂😂😂😂

Muffcakelord · 2020-09-22T10:19:13+00:00

If browsing instagram madw my partner mentally retarded, asexual towards me and a more depressed person, i would indeed tell them to either stop browsing it or let me go.

Porn addiction is a real thing because we see people dying from it either literally or practically. This guy would 100% tell you to leave a woman if she either never had sex with you or always made you go fown on her and then left you unsatisfied, which is basically what happens to be the attitude of male porn addicts.

How do they fail to admit this? Why the fuck does anyone think it's ok to stop being a partner alltogether and expect affection?

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