Facts

PostbioticFibre · 2021-08-25T21:03:50+00:00

If it has red flags but you still love it, let it go. If it comes back, that means no one else wanted it either and you should let it go again.

herbivorouscarnivore · 2021-08-25T18:15:53+00:00

And sisters, when a man tells you something, take it at face value. Don’t go asking your friends and family bs questions like, “What does a man really mean when he says he doesn’t want to be in a relationship?”

lolmemberberries · 2021-08-25T23:05:57+00:00

I knew I was leveling up when I found myself turned all the way off by men who showed signs of being emotionally unavailable.

Middle_Ad2224 · 2021-08-25T18:42:10+00:00

A lot of pick me’s do this I think because they want to feel special. I know in my pick me days I liked the idea of being the one special person that could fix him. If I lowered my standards enough and put up with bad treamtment enough and was “cool” enough then I would earn his affection which apparently transforms him into an amazing and loving man? The logic doesn’t make sense to me now but that was definitely how I used to think.

ComprehensiveAmoeba9 · 2021-08-25T19:17:22+00:00

I’m no longer wasting my time with a man who is emotionally unavailable. If they cannot have a conversation with you about the relationship or you don’t feel like you can come to them about any issues, expect to feel miserable and lonely because they lack basic aspects of emotional intelligence. I used to be attracted to those types of men because I found them “mysterious” and thought I could figure them out and solve their problems. Now it’s such a turn off to me after I started gaining confidence and implementing higher standards.

A LVM I used to date had such a hard time communicating and expressing his feelings, he couldn’t even tell me he wasn’t fully moved on from a previous relationship and he strung me along, claiming he didn’t want to hurt my feelings so he didn’t tell me. One of his male friends kept making excuses for him such as “a lot of men are like that” and “that’s just how he is” when he didn’t get me anything for my birthday or bother to celebrate it when I got him something for his🤡

miwamus · 2021-08-25T20:06:33+00:00

I agree, but I also want to put it in men's court to get their emotionally unavailable a**es of the market. Or, if he recognizes that she is emotionally available and he is not, then he should have the balls to let her find an emotionally available man.

Title	Facts
Author	blueboobs-
Upvotes	691
Comments	12
Date	August 25, 2021 5:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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