Something I’ve been recently thinking about. Whenever I meet one of my boyfriends friends who are male (or any male really), 9/10 they go in for a hug greeting, when they literally just shook my boyfriend’s (THEIR friend’s) hand. Every time I try dodge it and turn it into a hand shake and every time I get told “oh ok a handshake... that’s kinda weird”. I never fail to ask them why, and the only real response I get is “that most girls don’t do that”. It irks me like why do you think you’re entitled to a hug when I don’t even know you, I could get past it if they were a “hugger” by nature but I know they aren’t cos they don’t hug my boyfriend. Anyways wanted to vent about that because I just don’t get it. Ugh.