I really hope she gets picked

ivory_727 · 2020-06-21T19:08:59+00:00

Masturbation DOES NOT equal porn. Sad that society conflates the two.

KTaeH · 2020-06-21T19:18:50+00:00

Well, masturbating is not cheating. But since when has « cheating » become the only thing women are allowed to be mad about ? It does not have to be cheating to be a deal breaker.

Also yeah, you can’t control someone who’s addicted to porn. You just ditch them. Women are not rehabilitation centers.

BasieSkanks · 2020-06-21T19:57:09+00:00

The thing is, these men are choosing to be in relationships with women who don’t like them watching porn. If they want to enjoy their porn in peace, why don’t they just leave? If anyone is being manipulated, it’s women since we have been conditioned to believe that porn use in relationships should not only be accepted, but embraced.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-06-21T19:54:27+00:00

It's not abuse OR control. It's called having boundaries and standards. If they don't like it, they can bounce. That's the entire point.

Lostandconfused333 · 2020-06-21T20:10:19+00:00

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Erocitnam · 2020-06-21T21:08:27+00:00

"Being against porn is totally ok as long as it's only for show and doesn't actually affect your decisions or standards" lmao

weird_waving · 2020-06-21T19:04:11+00:00

You hate to see it

outside-perception · 2020-06-21T22:10:02+00:00

We never said masturbation = porn addiction. Masturbation is totally healthy and pornography has been proven time and time again to literally ruin your brain and cause erectile dysfunction.

AyemHerself · 2020-06-21T23:28:26+00:00

It's only considered controlling and manipulative because men think a woman's standards for a partner are rules and loopholes to take are of. They see a woman who hates porn and think they can hide and gaslight their way into bed with her. They're the manipulative ones and protecting hard-core.

What I don't understand is if pornfree women are so evil and controlling, why do men insist on gaming us instead of going for pickmes like this one who have bought into the bullshit. You get to do what you want, the "controlling bitch" isn't bothering you, it's win win.

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-06-22T01:18:11+00:00

Abusive? He can watch all the porn he wants, just not with me in his life. That's all.

HornetKick · 2020-06-21T20:28:17+00:00

How is not watching porn considered abuse?

I believe that is a misuse of the word abuse.

LadyGrimes · 2020-06-22T02:39:12+00:00

A lot of those women are being abused and gaslighted and this pickmeisha has to side with the real abusers because she can't live without dick. SMH I hope she gets picked and cheated on, though she will be in denial and then later whining about her lack of lovelife on dead bedrooms.

confatulations · 2020-06-22T02:15:15+00:00

That username though lmao

minty-coral · 2020-06-22T05:45:23+00:00

Lol? Porn is what's abusive. I'm almost embarrassed for her.

Title	I really hope she gets picked
Author	Trillian_42_
Upvotes	156
Comments	20
Date	June 21, 2020 6:59 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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