Like for good. I don’t wanna be open with another person and leave myself vulnerable with my heart (or even mental health) in someone else’s hands. I don’t want to have to rely on someone to make me happy or to feel fulfilled in life. Guys approach me a lot more now, and I turn them all down cause I just get skeeved out now and just want nothing to do with entertaining the idea of going on a date or being in a relationship.

I’ve been mentally and emotionally abused, manipulated and straight up fucked with. And I’m over it all and want nothing to do with it. I used to constantly need attention to value myself. Ive grown into myself a lot being single and shit. I’m truly cool being on my own. I almost feel this way about friends too, tho. I’m not sure if that’s a problem, but I’m way more protective over myself, head and heart now more than ever.

I see a lot of my friends who are in relationships need attention from men that aren’t their significant others and it’s wild. Like... you can be good on your own, honey!! I promise!

Just thought I’d share. Stay well and safe!