Is it red flag when a guy doesn’t get mad at you or blame you ?

2340000 · 2020-03-17T20:41:25+00:00

More context needed.

glittersparklesglitz · 2020-03-17T20:49:01+00:00

I feel like that's the opposite of a red flag? Could you elaborate?

level_up_always · 2020-03-17T20:58:15+00:00

are you saying he's indifferent to your feelings? and doesn't have any of his own? or do you mean he doesn't react and lash out and you're not used to it from being in abusive situations in the past? i agree with the others more context needed please post an example of what you mean

balladwilds · 2020-03-17T22:03:51+00:00

a guy staying calm during an argument /confrontation is the opposite of a red flag but him being apathetic, not apologising and talking to you less after the disagreement isn't good.. you don't need this energy in your life

pissed_af · 2020-03-17T20:37:32+00:00

Regarding what?

cannedboelyn · 2020-03-17T21:37:34+00:00

Need more context, but from what you told me so far it sounds like apathy and he no longer cares about you, or he never cared to begin with.

Sometimes we project our own expectations on guys we really like

More obvious signs would be him blocking you on social media. Also if he’s talking to you less that means he’s not interested

ironymaiden87 · 2020-03-17T22:13:00+00:00

I'm very confused by this post but regardless my advice is Dump His Ass.

nucmedstudent · 2020-03-18T10:25:33+00:00

Judge him based on his actions. Did his behavior change?

mariyapapulus · 2020-03-17T22:20:50+00:00

Pls add more info so we can help. Maybe he’s not the confrontational type?

Ms_Tilly · 2020-03-19T19:54:45+00:00

Maybe he's avoidant. These aren't good men to date. They avoid any confrontation and that's not healthy. You should be able to talk things out with your partner.

Title	Is it red flag when a guy doesn’t get mad at you or blame you ?
Author	redfarmmmmm
Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	March 17, 2020 8:36 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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