So this is an interesting topic but some women have said that "spark" is a red flag and to go the other way if you feel it and then others say "spark" is important?

I always thought it was fairly important. I've always thought that if there isn't no spark there, then I'm really attracted to the guy or interested in him. I feel like, when I'm dating a guy, especially a new guy, if the spark isn't there then I'm not interested. I feel like I need that 'im so excited to see you' when I see the guy I'm dating or else it's just not going to work.

When I dated the last guy I was with, something just wasn't clicking and I realised it was because I wasn't really attracted to him and I wasn't excited to see him, aka there was no initial spark. I ended up leaving him because I realised there was no attraction. Looking back he wasn't that much of a great guy anyway.

What does spark mean to you and do you feel it's important?