It’s a wrap!!!!

yanyanfan · 2020-09-08T11:29:29+00:00

Good job!!! Now enjoy your journey of good mental health, peace, and prosperity 😌🧘‍♀️🌅

2020-09-08T12:21:43+00:00

SNATCH 👏🏼 IT 👏🏼 BACK 👏🏼

0kfornow · 2020-09-08T12:18:07+00:00

Good for YOU 👏🏻👏🏻

howdoilogoutt · 2020-09-08T13:07:36+00:00

Good for you. Concentrate on yourself, and build positive female relationships with those around you.

AliceInDatingland · 2020-09-08T14:56:32+00:00

Someone told me that a relationship partner should inspire me to be a better person while also being supportive. It made me realize that most of my female friendships fit that bill...but none of my romantic relationship partners have. Good for you realizing this so early on! Excited to see you level up.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-08T12:43:54+00:00

Good for you!

jayohday · 2020-09-08T13:34:29+00:00

I just ditched my own fuccboi of almost 2 years. And letting go of the parts of myself that allowed him in. This is what is best for us and we deserve better!

NotLolita4 · 2020-09-08T12:55:01+00:00

Hell yes!!! My college friends mean so much more to me than any of the guys I cried to them about. Working on setting boundaries now :)

TerryTerrorCO · 2020-09-08T14:03:14+00:00

Yes Queen! Know your worth, you absolutely don’t have to date, focus on your own energy and build yourself up. Don’t them them exploit your kindness 🤛

Chobyo · 2020-09-08T14:36:37+00:00

Own it Queen! Every person should learn to focus on themselves, it doesnt make sense to date when you cant even survive on your own, dont see your experience as wasted time, that experience was necessary so you could get to this exact point and decide to take things into your own hand. Learning from past mistakes is whats important.

basicgirl2022 · 2020-09-08T16:51:57+00:00

I really like this mentality. It’s like how some people do keto to lose weight. If you tell yourself no carbs ( or men) until you lose weight ( rebuild yourself) you won’t even be tempted when LVMs come in your face because no carbs means no carbs. If he’s a HVM and truly likes you, it’ll take some time to build up the relationship so no rush.

2020-09-08T13:31:56+00:00

Amen sister!

hail_galaxar · 2020-09-08T18:07:39+00:00

It gets better the older You get, I promise. They do eventually realize that they don’t want to be alone forever. I even talked to a date that said he had to fake climax because it got so old. But you are correct in working on yourself so that you can raise yourself to a man with good character. Work on your boundaries and your career so that a man can be an enhancement to your life, not a constant fight to be seen as an equal.

NottodayScrote · 2020-09-08T13:18:32+00:00

Right I see the majority of men give their time, love and attention to women who abuse and cheat on them. Makes me want to say fk it. I can do boundaries and self love etc. But if having some overly dramatic banshee screaming about what a useless nub you are is what you seek go join the frkn military. Rather not bring that toxicity to my life

Btw I'm not a "nice girl" by any means but ya gotta draw the line somewhere

suspended_animation_ · 2020-09-08T17:42:02+00:00

Good thinking. To hell with them

basicgirl2022 · 2020-09-08T23:25:22+00:00

The best quote "focus on your dreams. Not on men." Straightforward, seems obvious, but truly fantastic once in practice. Sometimes in the mirror even, as a small example, thinking "oh I look sexy [subconsciously thinking "for men"]" vs "oh I am sexy [because I love me, and I am no matter what I do or what I wear]"

Torchlover · 2020-09-08T20:43:28+00:00

Not throwing anything on you but try a woman and never tell anyone 🤫

Title	It’s a wrap!!!!
Author	basicgirl2022
Upvotes	295
Comments	28
Date	September 8, 2020 10:01 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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