She openly mocked and told a woman that she was asking a "loaded question" towards her husband and should "chill out" cause she asked if she should believe her husband won't cheat on her in the future after he told her he wouldn't cheat on her "now." She said "Nobody knows what they are going to feel or do in 50 years, let alone be in a happy relationship..." like what? I would say the fact that he had to literally say the words "I won't cheat on you now" is so telling. She asked the question for a reason... he basically said he might but conveniently left out when. This just goes to show how misogynistic the world has become. Lol if someone doesn't know from the get go that they won't cheat, they shouldn't be in a relationship with a loyal honest woman period. Breakups exist for a reason, and this so called professional literally just justified the dude cheating later down the line without first breaking up saying "Well, he said he wont cheat now, and now is all we can know, so stop worrying about it." Women need to have this talk. There are quack therapists, and the ones that go proclaiming themselves all over the internet for upvotes are usually of that variety. Especially when they push down the already beaten down self esteems of emotionally abused women. I mean come on, she didn't even try to say it in a nice tone. Just condescension all the way... gee, where have we seen this before?

Red flags are red flags, and anyone mocking you for not wanting to be with a guy exhibiting them clear as day whilst saying "deal with it" is clearly not there for you, no matter whether they are women or not. Most modern therapists just pander to men and set the bar low for them out of pity, attention, or comfort. PLEASE Don't fall victim to it. You know what you deserve, please don't expect or allow anything less just because these people tell you you are "crazy." The truth is, the world is crazy right now, not you. Definitely not you with your healthy boundaries, straight forwardness, and will to act on and be acted on appropriately in a relationship. You define the boundaries and what you are comfortable with. If someone wants excuses to do something else without discussing and then claim to be with you, they aren't worth it. These men do not need our pity, they need to figure what they want out themselves to gain respect, and give respect in return.

However, a shining light of hope was witnessed when about 100 people dropped the chat as she said that. We aren't the only ones out there deserving of respect. Keep your heads high ladies, we will change the world with the help of knowing the reality around us.