LV and HV, is there ever a MVM/NVM?

CoolMelonade · 2020-01-15T15:05:15+00:00

Yes, we have terms for them:

NVM - Negative Value Male (makes your life worse)

ZVM - Zero Value Male (deadweight)

munakhtyler · 2020-01-15T14:46:13+00:00

NVM is "negative value man". Instead of just being low value and simply not adding value to your life, he's BEYOND low value to the point where he actively depreciates value from your life. Lol.

And yeah I mean, medium value men exist I guess. But they'd still fall under the category of low value. Low value just means someone who isn't relationship material. There are only 2 types of men - relationship material and not relationship material.

penelopekitty · 2020-01-15T15:00:19+00:00

Never date someone for your idea of their potential unless you are under 21. Grown up men who are dateable already need to be living at their full potential and it's not our job to help them or push them to achieve that.

pencilmeinpls · 2020-01-15T13:28:37+00:00

I personally see a spectrum, yeah. I don’t consider dating the ones that are mid-value though. At that point I’d simply be dating for potential and that has literally never worked out for me.

shecreatedherdream · 2020-01-15T14:14:00+00:00

N is Negative for me.

Negative value, the one that messes life up.

blackopium777 · 2020-01-15T15:43:03+00:00

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soxychamp · 2020-01-16T09:27:17+00:00

Unpopular opinion, LV and HV is a false dichotomy. Makes for good rhetoric to preach about LV and HV, but in practice, people are a spectrum of moods, emotions, and behaviors.

2020-01-15T18:59:45+00:00

Normal value males, or whatever we want to call them, are fine for practice dating to boost your confidence but cut them pretty fast.

I made the mistake of sleeping with one back in December and oh boy was I revolted with myself the next day. Even normal guys are brain washed by porn and my god did that guy say some cringy things. Nuked my attraction to him from orbit. Ended up breaking it off with text on new years day.

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quaintlyspoken · 2020-01-15T17:08:24+00:00

For me there is a spectrum, but by and large I think that LVM and HVM are more than adequate considering the disparity of difference. I have had experiences with MVM also.

The broad spectrum for me looks like this:

LVM < MVM < HVM < DMI

Low Value Male: The dusty, predator, violently insecure, impotent, juvenile, woman hating, purposeless, directionless, devil masculine incarnate. They come in all shapes and sizes, look average and degrees of brokeness and depravity. It is not your job to fix them. You are not to blame for them taking advantage of you.

Medium Value Male: A good man who treats you well and with respect but who does not commit to you because you are not the woman for him despite how much growth and happiness you bring to each other's lives. You are not compatible in the sense that this relationship will never grow or prosper because it is not meant to be. It is only a placeholder in your life, a stepping stone for healing, etc. A very good intimate friendship (FWB) falls into this category.

High Value Male: A good man who treats you right and with respect. He is committed to you and takes on his masculine role as a provider so that you may operate in your femininity. You are very compatible. Enough that you both could happily and safely live the rest of your lives together and safely prevail in the difficult times. He is not your Divinely appointed male however and should you meet any one of your DMI you will leave the HVM for him instinctively.

Divine Male Incarnate: A HVM who is spiritually advanced which is the backbone of his intelligence, emotional intelligence, devotion, values, morals, character and personality. He is heavily connected to the Divine: both Mother and Father in whose image we all are made, masculine and feminine.

He is among the number of the men who have the highest compatibility across all levels and nuances with you. You are cut from the same cloth, like as to twins, and because of that you share quite literally and metaphorically a psychic bond together. Soulmate; the sum of your shared relationship experience and connection is too good to not be true, proven at every point, throughout all time, only ever getter better and better without end.

This male considers his life to be a crash course in achieving maximum personal development and puts it into practice. He puts himself in a position to do the maximum good in the world which is his calling and his woman's happiness is his duty and purpose above all else. Above his job, his family, everything except God and even then he may follow her down a dark path because he loves her.

He believes in the Divine but is not a slave to religious dogma and actively eskews any concept of spirituality that separates itself from the Divine standard. He intuitively knows and can discern with his spirit and intelligence right from wrong very clearly. He will always align himself to be in favornof the Divine.

It is not uncommon for these men to never have seen a woman as anything other than a human being from the beginning of his life cycle, despite his environment or to have completely changed their actions towaeds women upon their awakening. If you ever meet one of your DMI you will experience a love like no other. You will have a fairytale love.

These men are angels among men and have likely had more than one reincarnation cycle on this earth. Those who haven't are in the current life cycle where they operate HVM until their awakening at qhich point they continue on as DMI. They are men of greatness and renown. It shows even when they don't mean it to.

Jesus was a DMI for example. Though humanity has degraded his original message that is now so far removed from the Divine truth. The Bible as the religious know it has been tainted, butchered, and deliberately diluted to give evil men the opportunity to occupy positions of religious authority. After which they go on to do evil in the world with the power of religion backing them. They have no power in or connection to the Divine. Some of Jesus' writtings and lessens still exist outside of mainstream Christianity and these are what I study at this time in my spiritual journey.

Title	LV and HV, is there ever a MVM/NVM?
Author	noavocadoshere
Upvotes	19
Comments	20
Date	January 15, 2020 1:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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