pretty much

extraacct1234 · 2019-12-27T19:47:06+00:00

All of this and:

Women lose more social standing for having consensual sex than men do for raping us.

Aeshaunua · 2019-12-27T18:57:47+00:00

Yes! This is like the 8 commandments of why we shouldn't have sex without a commitment!

Where is this from? I need to follow them

greensciencegeek · 2019-12-27T19:31:58+00:00

Women were seen as resources, placed among food, gold, land and jewels. We are living things that improve a man's life. Always were and will be.

Ms_Tilly · 2019-12-27T20:00:56+00:00

4a is the straight up truth. The worst scenario is the guy doesn't see his ED as a problem and expects women to be okay without sex, not even foreplay. They would rather we bend over backwards to work around and help with their ED instead of just going to the damn doctor or getting some kind of therapy for it. It's completely uneven because if it was us they'd be crying in deadbeadrooms and either cheating or contemplating it. I had it happen to me while on bedrest during my pregnancy.

LurkForYourLives · 2019-12-28T00:39:50+00:00

They kinda glossed over the fact that women can get pregnant and DIE, whether from pregnancy or childbirth.

2019-12-27T21:44:38+00:00

7 and 7a are so true it hurts and yet men want more. They want to be able to ditch a kid with no child support required when it suits them or take a kid away from their mother just to punish the mother for leaving the relationship. All while trying to take reproductive rights away from women. They want complete and total control of women.

lunadelsol00 · 2019-12-27T22:06:32+00:00

Numbers 4. and 4a are so fucking true. Only at age 31 and after about 15 sexual partners I finally found a guy who actually gives a shit about my pleasure during sex and makes me crave even more. That's too damn sad.

notaflan · 2019-12-28T01:05:48+00:00

In my country abortions are still illegal so you can imagine how that puts the burden even more on women than in other places.

2019-12-27T19:08:37+00:00

yeah and no. Being "sex positive" is more approved than anything else nowadays. It's pushed by both libfem and leftists, and both call women who don't follow porn norms as prudes, it's like a reversal of the prude/whore dichotomy, except that this time, any type of boundary is labeled as prudish and irrational. We really live in a different era.

I wouldn't call it "sexual labour" either, as labour/work (same reason I don't use the concept "sex work" either) means is the opposite of , something you do because you enjoy.

But yeah, who wants a recycled dick full of STDs from dudes who can't do any type of effort and are just useless? Sexuality is political, and having sex with fuckboys is validating them and the unfair social dynamics they create.

ceramicunicorn · 2019-12-28T01:25:30+00:00

Be perfect if she’d added the increased symptomatic STD risks.

dearie909 · 2019-12-28T23:59:12+00:00

I’m only 27, but damn y’all.... I’m not entirely convinced men even DESERVE women!!

amanda_b_ · 2019-12-27T23:25:32+00:00

Birth control is free in the UK (think abortions are as well but never had reason to look) but otherwise - hell yeah!

mememe88888 · 2019-12-27T23:48:54+00:00

I really wish I realized this earlier in life. 😓😓😓

throwawayz187y · 2019-12-27T18:58:17+00:00

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Title	pretty much
Author	talaxia
Upvotes	160
Comments	23
Date	December 27, 2019 6:27 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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