hi fellow queens— i'm new here & looking for some advice about rekindling (couldn't find it in the handbook).

basically I just graduated college and every summer when I was home I would hook up with this guy (he's a little bit older and has been out of college for a couple years now). never turned into anything serious because I was not looking for a relationship in the past but I'll soon be moving to the city he lives in & staying there for my foreseeable life post-grad! In the past, when I was just home for the summer he definitely made it clear that he liked me (i acted in a high value way, never needy or initiating anything wooo) but like I said, i didn't want anything real. but now that I'm about to be in the real world, I'm reconsidering a relationship. he's already reached out a bunch about hanging out once I move into the city but my question for you queens is: if / when I do see him, does it matter if I hook up with him right away since we've done it in the past? or should i try to "reset the clock" and make him earn it again??

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thank you so much for any advice! mwah