Remember this when you catch him cheating, etc. and he apologizes profusely

pinkyberries · 2019-12-07T20:32:09+00:00

I was in a 2 year LTR and in the last 2 months of the relationship he was always on his phone texting someone, i was surprised because he was never on his phone before. At first he said he was texting his mom and i gave him the benefit of the doubt when i knew deep in my heart that it is not his mom, he never texted his mom. He would call her. One day i got sick of it and snatched his phone from his hand, he was texting a girl that hated me and he let her speak badly of me. I exit the chat and see chats with 2 other girls...he quickly deleted the other 2 chats so i didn't get to look at them. He cried and apologized and sent this girl a "I don't want you in my life anymore" text, i still left him.

2 weeks after we broke up i found out from a mutual friend that the girl sent him a screenshot (to the mutual friend) and that my ex boyfriend sent her a text after we broke up saying i was the one who texted her the "I don't want you in my life anymore" text. No wonder all his female friends hated me, he probably made me seem crazy when i actually liked them (at first)...

viper8472 · 2019-12-08T01:10:55+00:00

Cheaters gonna cheat! If you're not married to them you have an easier way out. Otherwise statisticaly, you will get cheated on again eventually. Cheating is not normal.

Scotsburd · 2019-12-07T19:30:20+00:00

Just this. He's not really sorry when he gets caught, either. Sorry for himself? Yes. Truly sorry for what he did? Rare.

ScientistinRednkland · 2019-12-08T00:40:19+00:00

He wasn't sorry when you were unaware, and he wasn't sorry when he ran straight to her the SECOND you did not accept his apology.

extraacct1234 · 2019-12-07T22:20:09+00:00

He will only ever tell you what you want to hear to get you to stay. Do not give men like this the chance the crawl inside your ear and speak bullshit.

Witchyko · 2019-12-08T13:16:20+00:00

He cried when you found out. He cried because know he had to take care of washing his clothes, cooking food and cleaning the house now by himself. Poor guy. All the work he had to do. :-(

DundiesAllStar · 2019-12-07T20:26:04+00:00

That’s so true! I hope everyone who needs to see this, sees it.

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2019-12-08T01:03:30+00:00

The number one manipulation tactic that men use is WORDS. Bullshit BLUFF, Bullshit BLUFF, Bullshit BLUFF

They call it SPELLing for a reason! Indeed words can cast a spell if you’re not careful.

Loiacono3137 · 2019-12-07T19:27:48+00:00

Don’t be quick to forgive!

supadupamuaks · 2019-12-08T05:19:45+00:00

This is so true.

Mud-covered-dog · 2019-12-10T03:01:41+00:00

Oh god this hits me right in the feels.

aqualily6 · 2019-12-08T09:32:26+00:00

Having recently found myself as the other woman, he was definitely sorry and devastated with what he had done. He wasn’t getting much back from his wife, emotionally or sexually but he still loved her. Men want sex. They want to feel valued and attractive.

2019-12-07T23:02:34+00:00

I keep thinking maybe he was, just not enough to stop?

Title	Remember this when you catch him cheating, etc. and he apologizes profusely
Author	Loiacono3137
Upvotes	1355
Comments	30
Date	December 7, 2019 7:27 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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