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Reminder: Korean men spend more time and effort on their appearance and are generally more polite, but they are no different from men in other countries. My (Korean) fiancé sent this to me this morning and said, "I'm embarrassed to call myself a Korean man if this is how men here are acting."

wondertarget

September 21, 2021
352 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

https://observers.france24.com/en/asia-pacific/20210914-the-south-korean-men-waging-a-vulgar-and-violent-war-against-feminists

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Title Reminder: Korean men spend more time and effort on their appearance and are generally more polite, but they are no different from men in other countries. My (Korean) fiancé sent this to me this morning and said, "I'm embarrassed to call myself a Korean man if this is how men here are acting."
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Date September 21, 2021 2:30 AM UTC
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Comments

[–]McccyFDS Disciple 204 points205 points206 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Also many Korean men seem to have a madona/whore complex when it comes to foreigner women.

When I was at Korea visiting my friends men would talk sexually about me in the middle of the freaking day. It was the first time this was happening to me in such an obvious way (I was 17) and I was terrified. Many think foreigner women sleep around alot and only want to date them but then marry a 'Madrona' from their place..

[–]wondertargetFDS Newbie[S] 97 points98 points99 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm so sorry you had to go through that, and at such a young age, too.

Oh yeah, I totally agree with the madonna-whore complex thing. They want a "pure" ultra "feminine" submissive Korean wife, but mess around with "open-minded" expats. Funny thing is, a lot of Korean men get married to their own only to cheat on them with foreigner women weeks/months into their marriage. Many of them want to "date and marry out", but can't due to stupid family expectations. This breeds a lot of unhappy marriages and relationships.

[–]Some-Air9442FDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Naive expat women need to be careful of being used by these losers as well.

[–]throwaway-fdsFDS Newbie 56 points57 points58 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Dressed as the JOKER? This is some...Man..How are these ladies not just whooping his clown ass? 💀 Get on his level and dress as batgirl.

[–]wondertargetFDS Newbie[S] 37 points38 points39 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

It doesn't help that if a man attacks you and you hit him back in self defense, it could mean jail time and fines for the victim. Absolutely depressing.

[–]DrpyroxeneFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Counter strike - a water gun with cat pee in it 😆

[–]wondertargetFDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–]Peak_TreeFDS Newbie 56 points57 points58 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Korean scrotes seem to be something else (I'll NEVER get over them wanting a double gold olympic winner to have her medals stripped away because she was "suspicious of feminism" for having short hair). Otoh Korean feminists are quite something too. Those are some hardcore feminists that really don't pander to libfem BS.

Lately I've been thinking if Korean goverment ( among many others) will try to force them to have kids as their birth rates are at something like 0.85 kids per woman.

[–]wondertargetFDS Newbie[S] 41 points42 points43 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, they are. Most of the men here try dictating what their wives/gfs wear, and only like the hyper girly "pure" image. Imagine the stares I get walking down the street looking like Lydia from Bettlejuice by my fiancés side (he wears all black but still dresses pretty "Korean"). I've had exes complain that I'm not feminine enough and buy me clothes they preferred me to wear (went straight into the garbage, lol). So controlling.

I really hope not! They've been offering financial compensation and prizes for couples that get married + have kids, but it's not working as well as they thought it would though, lol. I have no problem with marriage (obviously), but I can 100% see why a native Korean women wouldn't want to marry into a traditional Korean family. Luckily my guys' family rejects the cultural norms and are wonderful.

[–]DrpyroxeneFDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Omg Lydia from Beetlejuice, amazing. I wear a lot of men's clothes but started wearing men's shorts now too and huge baggy shirts (sensory shit) and boy do people give me looks. I'm like, yep, I AM dressed comfortably, care to join me? Lol

[–]wondertargetFDS Newbie[S] 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Men's clothing is so comfortable compared to women's clothing (I wonder why). I totally get the sensory thing. I can't wear black jeans (fabric+dye gives me like, leg prickles???), and tight pants or leggings make my legs feel like they're being teased with a feather (the only way I can explain it lol). Wear your baggy shirts and shorts. You are wonderful, gorgeous, and badass.

[–]Peak_TreeFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And cheaper and better made in general (also they have REAL POCKETS!!! ). I'm as tall as the average man of my country and I've used it to my advantage by buying men's clothing that fits me just as well or better than women's clothing (specially hoodies but some shorts and pants fit me too) many times.

[–]Some-Air9442FDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep, it’s hilarious that governments and scrotes blame feminism for low birth rates. Highly patriarchal Japan, Italy, South Korea, etc. are very patriarchal and also have very low birth rates.

[–]xfelugirlxFDS Newbie 179 points180 points181 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They are men, i don’t get girls that romantize them just for kpop or k dramas, this is the real life and they are like this

[–]wondertargetFDS Newbie[S] 124 points125 points126 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed. I really wish the obsession with both would just go away already. I've seen so many young expat women come over here chasing Korean men only to end up 1. pregnant and alone, 2. married and abused, 3. in a situationship that last years (with future faking), while the Korean man has a fiancé or girlfriend on the side that he "breaks up" with her for only to marry days after the break-up.

There's a reason why more Korean women are opting out of marriage and kids these days.

[–]986434567654FDS Newbie 79 points80 points81 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We have to organize

[–]986434567654FDS Newbie 59 points60 points61 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is happening to our sisters NOW and is coming to your neighborhood next

[–]bookworm1896FDS Newbie 82 points83 points84 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There are so many men who passionately hate women. It's so scary.

[–]DrpyroxeneFDS Newbie 58 points59 points60 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Idk if this counts for anything, my my abusive narc ex is part Korean (I'm located in the US). Looking at him there's no doubt he is Korean even though he is mixed, those genes are just more prominent. He thinks that the very real and very dangerous problems that women have are "little women issues that men don't care about" and told me he was voting for, eh, you know who back in 2016. It's crazy how he treated me and abused me in every form, yet thought the problems women face from men were basically bullshit, when he was one of the ones perpetuating it!! 🤯 I'm sad to say that I was with him for three years and he nearly killed me several times, and would have if I would have stayed, but the voting thing is what made me be like dude I can't be with this dude. I mean, at least SOMETHING clicked but still...I feel sorry for my past self. Anyway, other things he said during our relationship that made we want to post this here was he was SO wrapped up in what women thought about him, or, in other words, he wanted to show any woman who would look that he did NOT have a "tiny Asian man dick" 🤦 I wish I was making this up but numerous times he would show it to women at bars, he was go to sex clubs, literally hook up with anyone who could fog a mirror just to prove he didn't have a small dick just because he was Asian. I found this all out at the end of our relationship (or whatever he decided it was 🙄), and I was at first shocked at the depravity and hurt that he was so careless with my health, but then, applying what I had learned to the way he was to me, yeah, it made sense. I still feel dirty and terrified. He would also openly complain to me about how "Americanized" Asian women wanted nothing to do with him, that when he tried to talk to them they would snap at him and say "I only date white guys." I was like...are you seriously complaining to me about this? I brushed it off assuming he was referring to his past, before he met me, but no, turns out he was brash enough to complain to me, his, "everything but the label", about being butthurt because asian american women didn't want him and everyone thinks he has a small dick because he's asian. Imagine being so obsessed with a part of your body, a part that only you see on a normal basis, and obsessing about what people ~might~ think about it! What's worse is his obsession probably started when he was in school and BOYS picked on him about being asian, yet as an adult he turned that anger toward women even though we had nothing to do with his schoolyard bully shit (this is speculation but let's be realistic, kids are assholes). Anyway, sorry if this is too far off subject but this is where my mind went when I read this.

[–]redpeithosFDS Apprentice 35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Jesus Christ, I'm so glad you left him 😬😬😬

[–]DrpyroxeneFDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I know, me too. At points I felt sorry for him but he's beyond hope. He'll never change his mind about women, especially "asian american women are stuck up bitches and white women are whores/sluts." He even said at some point that he was thinking about moving to Korea for a few years. I later realized it was both a cop out to commiting to me, and also so he could get a "real" asian woman (in his mind I'm assuming; subservient, among other things), provided he could actually make the move and everything happen. Ugh. I'll never understand how men can hate us so much but also want us, like, what??

[–]redpeithosFDS Apprentice 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

These are men who want to be treated like kings without having the weight of their country and subjects on their shoulders. They are not used to seeing women be greater than them, seeing women for who we truly are...And this scares them. We will win, but they desperately cling onto the last remainders of what once was - by seeking out a subservient woman as a partner, for example.

They want pussy, but not the powerful woman that pussy belongs to.

[–]staywiththecrownFDS Newbie 39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How horrible. Thanks for posting

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