I’d love to hear everyone’s skills. What’s worked for me....

  • updating tinder pics & bio. They’ll know you’re active
  • being hella busy. “I might be able to swing that” “I’ve got plans that night, what about Sat”
  • talk about your dates but say “my friend”
  • expect them to pay but be really cheerful and say thank you like you didn’t expect it
  • have your own interests and hobbies
  • be creative with dates
  • put read receipts on and let them sit for a few hours or days. Even if you’re sitting on the couch “oh sorry I was busy”
  • be active and fit. You don’t have to look like a model. This is more for your mental health and self esteem, but everyone likes a fit person.