This poor girl, her column each week is like "why are men awful when I allow obviously awful men to consistently and repeatedly disrespect me?" hope she discovers FDS soon

divination__ · 2020-10-16T19:47:59+00:00

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NoThisIs-Patrick · 2020-10-16T20:02:34+00:00

I thought I was giving nothing this time, but still a man manages to give less.

She writes, like it's a surprise lmao

A man that doesn't put in effort with women will always give less and take more. It doesn't matter what the arrangement is.

mrCNeverSleeping · 2020-10-16T19:17:07+00:00

That was painful to read. I hope she finds her way.

sahu_ · 2020-10-16T21:22:59+00:00

What did I just read. And this stuff is in Vogue? What.

LevelTurbulent · 2020-10-16T21:31:36+00:00

That's some of the saddest shit I've ever read. It's hard for me to believe there are women who live like that. I know they exist and it happens but it's just so hard to understand why.

blerty567 · 2020-10-17T02:21:24+00:00

““I might actually just go to sleep,” he texts me five minutes later, and I just say, “No worries,” because how can you get annoyed at someone you’re not supposed to rely on? But then he says: “If you send me a nude, I might change my mind.” I take a selfie of me with my top open so you can see my boobs, another with the camera balancing on the radiator with me bent down in front of it. “Damn,” he said. “I’ll let you know what I’m doing in a bit.”

WHAT THE FUCK? I’m screaming men actually do this ?! And get away with it? I would’ve blocked him as soon as he said that shit about going to sleep lmao

thenotoriousaep · 2020-10-16T20:28:47+00:00

Good god

ms-anthrope · 2020-10-16T22:37:53+00:00

Wow I could not even finish that.

Street_Narwhal_3361 · 2020-10-17T01:34:05+00:00

I think.....I think if I’d behaved like this I’d take that secret to my grave.

klausolas · 2020-10-17T01:24:56+00:00

Is that what she went to school for? To be so casually disrespected and then make it publicly known? That's a shame.

no_i_am_gonnal_eave · 2020-10-17T06:59:27+00:00

There is no way in hell she's having good sex with a postman named TOMMY. And that's the least horrible thing about this article.

N2Gen · 2020-10-17T06:46:07+00:00

Dude, even at my most pick me, I didn’t try this hard. Jfc

pipeuptopipedown · 2020-10-17T09:34:33+00:00

Cautionary tales. Perfect examples of what not to do.

jelilikins · 2020-10-18T08:42:45+00:00

"Men seem to think women are bad at casual sex, that they catch feelings when they shouldn’t, that they always go “crazy”. But I disagree – it’s men who are bad at it. You ask for the minimal amount of respect and somehow they still manage to go lower. That’s what so often makes it an unfeasible arrangement."

This, at least, is correct.

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