Thought I met someone I really liked, but recently he's ignoring me. Last night, I mourned my loss. I deleted his number so I wouldn't be tempted to reach out to him. Then I came to this sub to remind myself that I made the right choice. Thank you all for being my rock 💓

Angeli_33 · 2021-12-03T21:14:12+00:00

I hate that shit, honestly. I hate it especially when you don't see it coming. It seems like the two of you are really hitting it off. There are no signs that he's not interested and then one day the slow fade begins.

It's really disrespectful. I kept track of how often I do that to others. I never do that to others. I always give men a reason for why things wouldn't work between us. I always express when I don't agree with them or even what I don't like about their behavior before ceasing contact. Now some of them accept that, but a large portion of men will take it as a challenge to chase even harder and then I just fade out until they get the message.

In my whole life, I have never gotten any sort of closure from any man ever. Honestly, they are incapable of communication. I've never gotten a proper breakup or a hint of why things may not work out between us. I think they just want you there as a spare tire, just waiting for them. I dunno. But it's disrespectful as hell and blocking and deleting is the proper measure of action.

top_of_the_stairs · 2021-12-03T21:29:44+00:00

Inconsistent communication (especially when it's exacerbated to the point where you straight-up feel ignored) is soooooooooo fucking inconsiderate. And deliberate. And immature as all-Hell.

....He's either not interested in you anymore (and too cowardly to tell you like a grownass adult), or he's interested but willfully choosing to play some dumbass, self-serving game with your head & your heart. Fuck. That. Noise.

..........Good for you for protecting yourself from any future nonsense from that guy. Blocking & deleting guys who don't treat us well should be easy to do, but we all know that a lot of the time...it sure ain't lol 🙄🤦‍♀️😂

❤️ Proud of you sis ❤️

Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-12-03T21:12:05+00:00

All part of tge vetting process

Glass-Trade8008 · 2021-12-03T21:42:54+00:00

Good for you! Do not forget to block him though.
Not only to prevent temptation to answer, but also because if he doesn't call it will bother you, the silence will hurt, and if he calls you will be tempted to answer so remember to block

toothfairyyx · 2021-12-03T21:56:17+00:00

Honestly it’s his loss. YOU are the prize and he’s missing out. You snooze you lose.

preppykat3 · 2021-12-03T21:26:49+00:00

♥️

InternalEmu1477 · 2021-12-03T20:58:07+00:00

You've made the right choice.

Positive-Mine-1377 · 2021-12-03T21:02:09+00:00

Me too

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