Timing is everything...

Averyhvw · 2020-03-19T15:53:50+00:00

I did this years ago and suddenly my ex wanted to get together for dinner. He even apologized for being physically abusive (minimized it because he “forgot” everything he did). He even paid for dinner even though he complained about paying for me when we were dating (never asked him to of course). Then when I brought up a tv show he had the audacity to say, “Ohh, you should give me your Netflix password” with a shit eating grin on his face. I couldn’t even respond just looked at him and changed the subject. Ladies, he had a decent paying job and an apartment paid for by his dad. I was living at home working minimum wage. He ate out everyday. He had ten dollars a month to spare for his own account! Nice for what indeed!?

ms_monquis · 2020-03-19T16:59:55+00:00

I asked a guy I was seeing for a while about his previous relationship.

He moaned to me about how he really tried to stay friends with this ex but she didn't want to. His eyes widened, he looked at me dead in my face and said "and one day she just changed her netflix password". Like as if it was the worst thing in the world.

This was after he dumped her after their 8 year relationship because of her low sex drive and was on tinder 2 weeks later.

This was the first major red flag. Unfortunately I was an idiot at the time and continued to see him. That situation taught me so much though and brought me here, so learning curve?

ms_monquis · 2020-03-19T21:25:20+00:00

This is one of the legitimately funniest dynamics in modern relationships. “Yes he fucked my sister...and my brother, but blocking him on FB/changing my Netflix password would be MEAN!”

It’s one of the FIRST THINGS I’d do the DAY we split up. Assuming I gave it to him to begin with. 😂😂😂

2020-03-19T20:16:06+00:00

Incoming "hey" messages LMAO

DelicateDream · 2020-03-19T20:06:04+00:00

Don’t share it to begin with. If you get married then you can start merging stuff like that.

May26th · 2020-03-20T01:34:22+00:00

Cos you know he doesn't have any books lying around (crusty old Playboy's don't count).

LuckyCharmsLass · 2020-03-19T23:40:52+00:00

I like the way this girl thinks. Hold yer fire till it really hurts em. hahaha

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-03-20T02:13:57+00:00

Brutal!!! 🤣

grand_tiremaster · 2020-03-20T06:32:52+00:00

I share accounts with my SO, is that bad? My exes who wouldn’t share theirs with me, I always considered them to be cheap bastards ._.

Title	Timing is everything...
Author	CuriousCatNYC777
Upvotes	2089
Comments	20
Date	March 19, 2020 3:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/flbruw/timing_is_everything/
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