too true

_mooness · 2021-08-30T03:52:44+00:00

Let’s stop building men up, and start dropping them off at the nearest dump where trash belongs 🚮

Scene2178 · 2021-08-30T00:57:06+00:00

This is why vetting is so important. A guy that puts you down as a "joke" in the beginning, goes on to makes you doubt yourself, interferes with your goals, sabotages your success, etc. Gotta catch this nonsense early, before it affects you negatively.

papanezismysaviour · 2021-08-29T20:59:29+00:00

I don't like this quote. A man that is hurtful to women will always be trash. But a woman that was hurt by a man can learn to avoid making the same mistakes and level up.

Frogspocket · 2021-08-29T22:45:21+00:00

It's true, but it's temporary and deceiving. With time (without maintanance) the house of cards that was built for that men collapses. Meanwhile, with enough time, that "damage" that women suffer from does heals and turns into a glow up.

feelgoodlost_ · 2021-08-30T04:21:49+00:00

The life changes you helped are temporary, they lack the ability to do anything themselves. They want the easy way to do it but they can’t cus they’re fools. You will always come out on top because you want to be better and have integrity. No woman wants some other tired chick’s former build a bear. They expect you to be mommy and look like Barbie. Lol

spicyspa · 2021-08-29T22:44:24+00:00

So true. And it's not just actually building him ( getting him to go to college, save, get a job, hell, wash himself), you'll look like a damn fool trying to justify why you're with him. For many of us on FDS, we live in countries where we can pick our own men. You wouldn't buy a crap taco at a restaurant that failed the health code, why get a man who's crap?

When I went on OLD ( for block and delete practice), I faltered and almost went out with a man I wasn't attracted to.

After finally coming to my senses and blocking him without warning, I really tried to break down the scenario.

If I went out with him and continued to see him I would be justifying to everyone why I'm with a guy who runs a barely functioning business who looks like he put his face in a toaster oven. I'd say this that and the other thing to fluff him up. I thought of the cringy face my daughter would make if she were to meet him. Block.I didn't embarrass myself. Whew. Getting there but I still need to build muscle memory.

throwawayastrogirl · 2021-08-30T13:34:34+00:00

Never help men become better versions of himself. Men are not projects.

like_onomatopoeia · 2021-08-30T00:27:25+00:00

It is so so important to know when to walk your fine ass away from a men.

FrowzyCosmogyral · 2021-08-31T03:14:22+00:00

This is why we have to build ourselves up. Self first.

Title	too true
Author	khaleesiqwn
Upvotes	1307
Comments	19
Date	August 29, 2021 8:51 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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