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Top 2 Ways to Prevent Men from Wasting Your Time!

butterfree_zhuangzi

May 2, 2020

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Title	Top 2 Ways to Prevent Men from Wasting Your Time!
Author	butterfree_zhuangzi
Upvotes	82
Comments	22
Date	May 2, 2020 5:07 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/gc0ue5/top_2_ways_to_prevent_men_from_wasting_your_time/
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Agreed. This a lesson learned when I was in my 20s dating. I thought I was being upfront and clear, and weeding out LVM by articulating my dealbreakers early on and expressing what I value and look for in a man. I realized after some bad experiences that I was giving them a playbook and what to hide/lie about to stay in my good graces, or at least secure a few more dates. Beware of a man with whom you've just begun talking to and he already is asking for a list of dealbreakers! He's only wanting to know what to keep secret from you.

Ladies, this is where the Dumb Fox method is exceptionally handy in the first few months of dating. As was pointed out in the video, you should appear very casual and let the guy reveal himself to you over time (by actions, not by words). You should simply sit back, take notes, and watch.

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