Hello, QUEENS!
After sifting through literally ton loads of trash on Hinge since joining 1 month ago, I feel I've finally perfected my Hinge profile.
Since updating my profile, I have a small, but manageable rotation of high-status men asking for my number, not wasting my time at all, and calling me for dinner dates that are convenient for me. These are CEO's and other successful men who of course, only meet my tight criteria.
While it doesn't 100% discourage LVM from accessing me, it does an excellent job of reducing inbox clutter.
Matches message me and say "I'm sorry but I don't meet your requirements" after reading my prompt. Score!
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PHOTOS
Avoid Casual/Bar/Party/Going Out Photos
You at a party, in a big group, or out drinking is a "no". Men don't associate this with a HVW. They'll ask you for drinks, too.
Avoid looking too casual or chill, too. I see this a lot on Hinge.
If you look like a "cool girl" (on the lake, chilling, super casual clothing).... best believe you will get asked to hang out, too.
Upload classy, smiling photos, that show how high-value you are.
Examples.... You at work. Or giving a speech or presentation. -Doing a HV or expensive activity - volunteering, at church, traveling, or in a class. -Selfies are OK, as long as they aren't filtered to the 9's. Avoid many, or any, filters.
AT LEAST ONE OF YOUR PHOTOS SHOULD BE DIRECT SMILING or you'll get leeches and LVM.
VIDEO*\*
Hinge allows you to upload Video - USE IT.
Upload a quick, 15-second video of you talking directly to the camera. Make this your 1st or 2nd upload. This will repel losers, like no tomorrow. Watch your inbox get WAY more intentional. Matches will see your classy self and hear from you in words, before they even dare make a move.
"Hi, this is Sarah and just wanted to say welcome to my profile. Read a little bit about me and I hope you have a great day!"
That's it; sweet and short.
PROMPTS*\*
You get 3 prompts to use on Hinge. CHOOSE CAREFULLY. Men really read these prompts to look for openers.
These are my 3 prompts.
Only 1 of your prompts should be funny or casual.
PROMPT 1
I want someone who-
Be very detailed here. Fill the ENTIRE SPACE.
I want someone who is a strong partner - he is quality 1, quality 2 and quality 3. He wants to X, but is also XX. He is X and X.
PROMPT 2
Fact about me that surprises people-
Put something impressive, specific, and high-value about you. Do not be shy.
For me, it's that I have a podcast.
"I was valedictorian of my high school class."
"I have my masters in horticulture. I'm a research scientist with the National Forestry Organization."
"I own 2 rental properties. I just turned one into an AirBNB!"
LOW VALUE MEN WILL DISAPPEAR IN DROVES.
PROMPT 3
Give me travel tips for -
Put your preferred luxury travel destination here. Don't be cheap and get specific.
Think Maldives, Mendoza Provence, Parma.
Hope this helps you QUEENS :)
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