Just the lack of stress, sis. The moment you denounce pickmeism and embrace your inner queen, you will see how you gradually start glowing. Stress is the most aging factor along UV, drinking, drugs and smoking, it destroys your skin, it makes you gain weight, it ruins your sleep quality, it can literally make you sick. You just have to look at these overwhelmed, overworked, both physically and emotionally, pickme women in the long run and their whole vibe is one of exhaustion and desperation.

Eating healthy, working out, skin routine, meditating these are all important, of course, but they have to come from a solid foundantion of self love. When you're just done and no longer tolerate any male bullshit, including misogynistic cultural norms, you will feel such relief, like you can finally breath out and focus on yourself and see clearly, it's honestly almost like breaking out from the matrix.

I've gotten to a point where I'm just too into cherishing and pampering myself to even entertain the thought of men anymore. I realised this when this quite good lucking guy was hitting on me, high enough income, intelligent, basically he was holding all the cards for a potential HVM. But surprinsgly, my reaction was something along the lines of 'I just don't feel having any man in my life, even if he could be HVM. I want to keep doing me'. My friend was telling me how it was such a missed opportunity and maybe it was, maybe he could have been a serious prospect, but right now I'm having just too much of a good time focusing on myself. It's so peaceful and relaxing, I don't feel like going through the vetting process, dating or dedicating any time to men. Ironically enough, I look better than ever, all thanks to FDS.