It annoys me to no end when the issue of sexual harassment/assault, rape, domestic violence and abuse, etc. comes up and it focuses solely on male on female instances of it with female on male almost never being brought up, and you mention that there's many FOM instances of these crimes and feminists shut you down by saying it's the equivalent of saying "all lives matter." This is annoying, infuriating and downright insulting to no end. I think any kind of violence, abuse, rape or sexual harassment/assault is bad regardless of who's the victim or perpetraitor, and FOM instances of it happening are always swept under the rug and ignored, and we hear the usual feminist spiel about how MOF instances of it are disporportionately bigger and is a serious societal problem, and I've even seen some have the nerve to say that women's violence against men isn't a problem. So basically saying male victims don't matter.

I'm so tired of feminists making victimhood into a contest. I care about both male and female victims equally, and abhor male and female offenders equally as well. It's about time for male victims to be acknowledged, recognized and helped just as much as female ones, and for female offenders to get the same harsh and deserved punishments as their male counterparts. Male victims for too long have been overlooked and outright ignored, and it doesn't help how there's so few shelters and clinics to help male victims in contrast to the countless ones for women and that instances of FOM violence and such still gets counted as MOF under the VAWA and not treated individually. Not to mention the numerous male victims afraid to report out of fear their female aggressor can play the victim and say she was harmed first and thus turn the tables on her victim. Which is exactly what the "believe women" rhetoric has enabled.

It's not an "all lives matter" response at all to bring up that male victims of these crimes exist and there's women who commit them as well. Too often when we hear about domestic violence and abuse, rape, sexual harassment/assault, etc. it's much too one-sided only focusing on MOF incidents when there's also numerous FOM incidents and many that have gone unreported. Both need to be equally recognized. Feminists as usual want to make it a women-only thing when it's not. Never forget that there's also many innocent women and girls who've been victims of terrible women as well, and the notion of women needing "safe spaces from men" is horribly offensive and ignorant since it not only vilifies men as a whole but also ignores that women can harm other women as well, making innocent ones more vulnerable.

Some ghastly incidents of women-on-women violence that come to mind are the Daphne Wright case (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TUjzZaoEI5E) and the Shanda Sharer murder, which you can read about on the Wikipedia page, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Shanda_Sharer but please heed fair warning that it's absolutely horrific and stomach-churning to read. My heart and soul aches for this girl who fell victim to the four monsters who took her life at such a young age, all four of whom by the way are now walking free and not rotting in a prison cell like they should. No doubt due to the far more lenient sentences female offenders tend to get (thank feminist "activists" for that) these four devils are walking freely to re-offend again.

I said before about the Johnny Depp case how I'm glad FOM instances of these crimes is getting much more attention and recognition, as male victims deserve just as much help and justice as female ones do. What's "all lives matter" about wanting male victims to also get justice and FOM crimes to be recognized and punished just as accordingly as MOF? We're not trying to silence female victims or take attention away from them at all, we just simply want male victims to be recognized and helped as much and also for female offenders to be acknowledged just as much as men who commit these crimes and to be punished just as harshly and deservedly.