Does anyone else find themselves losing physical attraction towards women?

Pips_233 · 2019-01-30T16:18:13+00:00

You have evolved to monk level

TheObelisk · 2019-01-30T16:28:00+00:00

Close, but not quite. I find them absolutely beautiful and i feel lust for them. But what has changed is my reaction to that beauty. I feel the biological tug, the attraction, the lust for them. Then, in response, i feel repulsion. The fact that just seeing them does this to me annoys and repulses me. I do not like them. They aren't interesting. The world would be better off without them. So yes i feel the attraction, but it's always followed by a feeling of repulsion.

Disbursed-operant · 2019-01-30T20:50:47+00:00

It's a natural effect of going mgtow.

Heres why:

As a blue pill you would find a woman attractive and be moved to try and attain her favor so you could mate. Just how it goes. In doing so you would overlook a lot of things that would otherwise be turn offs, but the dopamine testosterone, and oxytocin in your brain were telling your cognitive thought to shut the fuck up and do whatever it takes to get that pussy.

Now, after you have realized how healthy and good for you mgtow is, you have the testosterone going, but your cognitive self is able to say "yeah but that's a waste of time and energy, we're focused on other things that provide the oxytocin and dopamine fix for you". So you can see clearly the things that are already there in her that are unattractive.

Love is blind, mgtow is 20/20 vision.

JMD173 · 2019-01-30T16:45:29+00:00

Most women are masculine af, and act like they are queens. But, some rare women are feminine, even though I know AWALT. It's still intoxicating to be around an actually feminine women.

Astral-Projector · 2019-01-30T23:02:14+00:00

For every beautiful chick i see now these things always pops up in my head:

- Some guy is tired of fucking her

- Some guy is tired of her nagging

- Some guy is tired of her games

- Lots of guy has fucked the living shit out of her and left a cumbucket wide open

- Lot of guys have put their dicks in her mouth

Thanks, but no thanks.

Funny.. I used to basically be a manwhore and fuck everything with a vagina. Monkmode never felt better now.

Sir_manalot · 2019-01-30T16:54:14+00:00

Depends on the kind of man you are.

If you are more into relationships and emotional connections over just raw selfish pleasure, the red pill will make women much less attractive.

Atleast it did for me, even porn lost if luster really.

r1chten · 2019-01-30T16:19:54+00:00

I am jaded and just wanna pump and dump them. In the old days mladies had to be wooed now I'm luck fuk yo feelings.

kaczan3 · 2019-01-30T21:16:57+00:00

Yes. It's like when you see how your favorite unhealthy food is made and you lose appetite for it.

Cuck-WTF · 2019-01-30T23:35:48+00:00

This is what I believe is responsible for most erectile dysfunction. The man's increasing inability to ignore a woman's disgusting nature.

adamrockblackandblue · 2019-01-30T20:20:38+00:00

No, but I don't really talk to them a lot anymore. The hot ones are single moms or have too many orbiters to be really seen as trustworthy and the less attractive ones are holding out for those magical millionaires that every so often fall onto people's front doorsteps.

Blissbynature · 2019-01-31T00:58:28+00:00

Same.

Women don't have to be ugly on the inside. The potential to be a beautiful woman inside and out is there. I think men know this and it's what makes them keep looking. But women don't cultivate that potential within themselves anymore. What passes for women nowadays, I just plain old don't want.

Fantoche_Dreemurr · 2019-01-30T21:56:24+00:00

Yeah very much so. When you look at a woman after MGTOW you think "Is she something besides sex? No? Meh"

Lord-Aether · 2019-01-30T22:14:43+00:00

Exact same feeling I’m experiencing!!

I can’t even watch porn anymore?? It’s like I’m suddenly feeling increasingly drawn to high aspirations..

I have goals that I need to reach, but besides those I have no idea where my brain wants to take me. I just know I’m suddenly disgusted by women and porn??

I don’t hate them.. but now they are literally insignificant objects to me. Is it my age? Hormones? I’m 27 for reference..

d3ds1r · 2019-01-30T21:51:06+00:00

Congratulations! You're Asexual now!

TruthSeekingPerson · 2019-01-31T00:10:43+00:00

First of all, stop watching porn. It's not healthy.

Second of all, once you realize how much makeup they put on in the morning to trick men into giving them shit it's hard to feel attracted to them. This is actually a good thing, I don't like it when I have moments of weakness towards them.

2MetresAbove · 2019-01-30T21:51:51+00:00

I can recognize beauty in woman, but I know better, than to engage in any interaction with them. I do not even turn my head after some hot women any more.

m4d_scientist · 2019-01-30T22:08:41+00:00

Well I never fap to porn nowadays, onyl hentai so that's that.

cncdanb · 2019-01-30T22:39:56+00:00

I’d have to agree. I have no interest in looking at women, porn or whatever. Just bores me now.

weag5l · 2019-01-30T22:46:39+00:00

No. But then I listen to them talk and I'm instantly cured.

2019-01-30T16:35:23+00:00

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Dmapguy · 2019-01-30T17:19:56+00:00

No. I just realize attraction to them is all in my head.

buff_minorcan · 2019-01-30T21:14:57+00:00

Nope. Have lost all desire to talk to them tho.

adobogopnik · 2019-01-31T07:12:02+00:00

Get your T levels checked...just in case.

I can honestly say that I'm much picker the older I get, and I know it's for 2 reasons:

First, I'm just getting older. That's how it goes. I don't have the same libido I did when I was 20, and that's fine. At that age, a pussy shaped hole in a tree stump would've gotten me hard. Now I hardly notice most women.

The second is experience. I've fucked hogs, and solid 9's. I've had shitty girlfriends and some that weren't trainwrecks. In the end, I know what I'm worth and if someone can't meet that standard, I'm really not interested -- even if it's just to get my dick wet. It's just as I get older, my standards continue to get higher, but as a MGTOW, there's no downside to that.

justanotherdude112 · 2019-01-31T00:10:23+00:00

Sorta. I’ve lost attraction to real women. Still watch porn occasionally but then get the post nut clarity and think fucking disgusting. And half the time I just do it cus I need the post nut clarity. But yeah women just aren’t attractive anymore.

CiceroVoltaire · 2019-01-30T22:28:43+00:00

No, but I'm finding fewer and fewer attractive than I did in the past, and I'm not getting any younger.

Even ones I initially find physically attractive will say, do, act or wear something that ruins the illusion.

There are exceptions, but increasingly rare.

I still can't unsee the 200 lbs ass jiggling nightmare Hutt animated on her first picture on tinder 🤮

NoBadThotsToday · 2019-01-31T00:21:50+00:00

Yep, I'm much more weary around them than I used to be. I do ballroom dancing, and most of the attraction I once felt has been replaced by fear and caution XD.

tdh792 · 2019-01-31T00:39:10+00:00

I'm exactly the same. The though of a woman even sitting next to me will make me leave.

The though if a date or even paying for dinner is unbelievable. I actually used to do that. How crazy.

As for men, if they are my friends and good hearted and honourable, I have no problem treating him to a steak and beer

shammylamby · 2019-01-31T03:50:44+00:00

These women have as about as much appeal as shopping for underwear in a salvation army store. Very dirty and disgusting for sure. I'll go commando which also includes relationships.

notyetcosmonaut · 2019-01-31T08:30:01+00:00

I still can find the good looking ones attractive and that’s it. Even then I often find them repulsive in some way. Plenty attracted to physical beauty. Some sexedolls look amazing.

tw-1234a · 2019-01-31T13:29:56+00:00

You fantasize about women far less than you use to. That helps a lot.

Caloxanthus · 2019-01-31T21:55:11+00:00

Yeah. I'm definitely straight but my attraction is very low most of the time so I can relate quite well. Relationships are also probably not worth it so I'm going monk mode, at least preliminarily.
Unlike some people on this sub I really don't have anything against women however - but I still think MGTOW is a well reasoned and good position regardless.

MarkAurelios · 2019-01-30T19:53:22+00:00

I lost alot of interest in the opposite sex when I realized how stupid it was to chase pussy. Especially once you get it through your head that fucking chicks doesn't make you any more of a man or "more cool".

And porn doesn't interest me because most girls that do porn are at most a 5/10 plastered to the high heavens in fake up. You look at their face and realize you're dealing with a proverbial monkey hiding it's ugliness so you can get a boner.

And in the rare instance you see a good looking girl, just the realization she's probably had 100+ loads of cum sloshed in all her holes by 50+ men before she's even 20 makes you lose interest altogether

Atton_Risk · 2019-01-31T04:06:43+00:00

The same thing happened to me after I started reading the law.

vwolf800 · 2019-01-31T12:18:43+00:00

No, I'm still very much attracted to femininity, to female beauty and sexiness. But recently I notice more and more that it doesn't really exists in real world. It's a lie, a trap, a frail hallucination, that can be easily shattered at a slightest touch.

laptopdragon · 2019-01-31T02:57:46+00:00

There are about 1% women that are hot imo. However I don't have any interest in pursuing them.

They need perfect posture, full/long hair, slender body, eloquent when speaking, and sharp eyes. I used to like blondes but 99% are fake, among all the other fake crap that ruins it all.

Even when I was young, I rarely pursued them. If and when I did approach and ask fist, if I got any king of negative response I would completely ghost them.

I never understood my friends who would ask the same thot out repeatedly. It worked for them sometimes, but (obviously) never for long. If she wasn't ecstatic off the bat, then I moved on.

No time for bullshit.

Title	Does anyone else find themselves losing physical attraction towards women?
Author	ShaolinPandas
Upvotes	89
Comments	45
Date	January 30, 2019 4:16 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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