"If he doesn't pay on the first date....."

I can't stand watching these women who claim to want equality, but still expect a man to pay on the first date, or most dates or all dates.

I can't help but laugh when I see women say, "if he doesn't pay on the first date, then he won't get a second date."

I think what gets at me the most is that it automatically assumes that the man will want a second date. It comes across as just by the mere fact that she's a woman, and she's graciously allowed you to spend time with her, that you will without a doubt, want to see her again.

Does it ever strike women that maybe the guy has ZERO interest in seeing her again?