MGTOW has ruined me...

gravelheart · 2018-02-18T06:55:16+00:00

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801735 · 2018-02-18T06:14:58+00:00

The word you're looking for is 'repaired'. Re-paired with your true self.

2018-02-18T08:01:33+00:00

It opened my eyes that all women play the same game. Reel you in with sex so they can extract your time and resources. Never marry or cohabitate because whatever they do to you they did the same thing to another man for free.

watain218 · 2018-02-18T07:58:42+00:00

You chose the red pill. That is what it means to be MGTOW. To know that you own yourself and to have the self respect not to put up with women's bullshit.

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself"

kayfab · 2018-02-18T10:00:37+00:00

It does get easier at 45 when i sit down and think about all my past relationships, i remember being very miserable when having a girlfriend, we have nothing in common women are boring.

I been single for 6 years i used to go nuts thinking that i needed a women to be happy in my life, the ones i met where no different then the ones i dated before, they are all the same....

At my age most of them if not all are single mothers, i am active i love to move a lot, go for walks and so on, most of them i spoke to have knee issues or pains and are mostly couch potatoes.

Honestly after finding MGTOW and reading the book the rational male there was no going back, women are worthless and must be used as object of pleasure other then that....

I lost 2 houses due to separation, i got cheated on and more, i live alone with my 3 cats and i am happy finally happy, got my ps4 my movies and i train everyday..... keep fit....

My attitude as changed toward society too i am less social, and i could care less about dirty humans hahahah

carjackerwilly · 2018-02-18T07:08:15+00:00

You spelt “freed” wrong.

BooDoug · 2018-02-18T07:25:19+00:00

now go wake up others...

TheMarvelousSchmuck · 2018-02-18T11:04:43+00:00

It was definitely a weird feeling when I first experienced this. The day that I stopped giving a single fuck about women and trying to impress them was like being a character in Fallout and stepping out of the vault for the first time. I was able to look around at the real world, this wasteland of men worshiping stinking crevices, and it was both depressing and liberating.

The one negative to this new freedom, though, is that I can no longer be around women for prolonged periods of time without getting extremely annoyed. Listening to them talk is like inserting power drills into each ear. I overheard some chick trying to show off her incredible "smarts" the other day and get everyone's attention, and I wanted to go head-butt a fucking coat-hanger after five minutes of this shit. I love when you can hear them talking from the other side of the goddamn university library, fucking love it...

Yasai101 · 2018-02-18T08:54:12+00:00

Yah I agree with you, I am someone that really hates playing this stupid thing that people do, game of Life. Wherever you see people interacting you can smell this fake aura about them. Be it politics or your day to day interactions, it is very hard to find a genuine opinion. And when you give one, they look at you like your crazy. Especially when it comes to women, IDK... Just ranting.

NiceIce · 2018-02-18T06:52:43+00:00

From ruin comes a new sense of renewal. Enjoy!

gods_bones · 2018-02-18T07:47:51+00:00

There are so many more things in the world to occupy your attention more than these basic bitches can.

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2018-02-18T06:35:06+00:00

You’re RUINED!

cleats4u · 2018-02-18T12:11:56+00:00

It's a sick game they play. It leads to your utter destruction. Even if they don't want to do it to you. They will be talked into it by everything and everyone around them. Misery really does love company. Welcome to not being miserable anymore.

gunguy2020 · 2018-02-18T15:36:34+00:00

Peace > Pussy

king_of_the_sting · 2018-02-18T10:25:00+00:00

It reminds me of the ending scene in Shutter Island....

Datson_Horrenbrand · 2018-02-18T12:33:46+00:00

yes have this too. this is the grim reality. btw, its their fault. women's fault. the fact that I have closed myself for being easily 'opened' to love. i've been hurt by them too many times. why? because I was too vulnerable by being open and loving them with all my heart. thats why

and thats what its called growing as a man. unfortunately and dont get me wrong. I like pussy. who doesnt? men are biologically wired that way but I love peace of mind even more

and men who ''love'' women for everything else and want to spend time with them not just to get sex [just as 'a friend' or 'romantically'] are just pussy-weak mangina beta boys and women know that. they use them and they dont respect them.

hey do respect alphas tho. and u know whats worst? so called 'top betas'. because they think they mean something in the hierarchy. but in reality they are the worst, they will back stab you with the first opportunity and talk behind your back.

but in front of you, they are shitting their pants, are afraid of you and pretend to be your friends. alpha men dont fight each other. we respect each other because we know we would fight to the death. beta men dont even know the meaning of that word.

but they will be first to go and defend women from themselves and women itself.

I mean how many times you will get scalded by 'love' and 'women' to learn to not touch them?

the main point is this: if you feel you NEED women then youre lacking something in yourself. if you feel relationship will give you happiness, meaning , love blablablabla it means you are lacking those qualities in yourself. thats why youre searching for them outside of you. BUT if you learn and realize how to find those things within you, then why would you need to search for them outside? you wont. hence why Im single for last 5 years. I really dont miss relationship drama. any meeting with any couples out there and looking at their childish power plays and how the men is tamed [thinking he has some 'intimacy with her] reminds me why Im single and how good it is :D

watain218 · 2018-02-18T12:51:11+00:00

I've seen the opposite. Women seem more interested in me because I'm MGTOW, probably because I do adventurous things and don't give a shit about them.

watain218 · 2018-02-18T06:34:49+00:00

Check out No-Fap.

DJDickJob · 2018-02-18T07:44:41+00:00

Dude I'm in the same stage of this as you, but what you have to realize is we didn't want it to be this way, but we did want the truth, and now we've got it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VNQ4H0XWA_w

Roastedchickpeas · 2018-02-18T07:49:14+00:00

I don't think that word means what you think it means

2018-02-18T13:17:43+00:00

You have to let a part of you die so you can use its decomposing corpse to grow something new:D

subversive_wingman · 2018-02-18T13:46:21+00:00

Same here. I've actually still been willing to have a relationship with a woman for quite some time. However, they scram as soon as they find out I'm not a doormat. Funny how that happens. Really makes you think, you know?

realChebz · 2018-02-18T09:32:12+00:00

haha same here man, i just don't give a shit anymore. I can't be bothered to waste any effort on women.

ctlaltcmd · 2018-02-18T10:57:42+00:00

It's growth, not ruin.

Griever114 · 2018-02-18T13:11:31+00:00

Welcome to the desert of the real brother.

It gets better. You have your whole life ahead of you and will not be bogged down by bullshit anymore.

This is the first day of the rest of your life.

Buzz_a_Tower · 2018-02-18T18:17:15+00:00

I'm now just so unwilling to tolerate any shit anymore

So much this. This is the main thing that I'm grateful for. It's like no longer being a slave and tolerating bullshit.

stavrosg · 2018-02-18T14:27:45+00:00

I never heard of Mgtow until 6 weeks ago. Read into it, I scored level 4. It's been 4 years and I didn't even notice it happening. There is a meme with Jim Carey about solitude. Check it out. Anyway things are soo much calmer, and I have a lot more time and money.

robowriter · 2018-02-18T14:41:00+00:00

Walk it off concentrate on making money and mastering some personal pursuit and the world will turn.

jaycee9 · 2018-02-18T16:28:00+00:00

Avoid eye contact with women. Cross the street when you see a herd of women walking your way. Don't speak to them.

WhistlingAlong · 2018-02-18T16:29:52+00:00

Same, sucks at times but I care about me more and I'm very selfish.

redditsuksballs · 2018-02-18T17:48:23+00:00

What can a woman do for you that you can't do for yourself?

Don't want to cook?---restaurants

Don't want to clean your house?....maids

Want a loyal companion?.....pets

Want a son? ---surrogate

vag(no substitute)....escorts

Ignore women, acquire currency, and still get what you want while being free and happy.

Solstus22 · 2018-02-18T19:11:57+00:00

Don't feel bad, better to be the cynic than be the fool. :D

Welcome to the club, we got jackets for you.

JackWithTheHammer · 2018-02-18T20:31:10+00:00

Women are like lounge furniture in my eyes. A completely uninteresting part of the backdrop. Sometimes it can be nice to lie down on one of them, but most of them are old and used up by thousands of visitors, so I don’t want to own one. Usually they are just in my way and something to stub my toe against.

BurntFoot · 2018-02-19T09:30:08+00:00

Dude, I just flat out tell women I'm sexist. Unfortunately, it makes them more intrigued.

Moon_Driver · 2018-02-18T18:43:20+00:00

Title should be 'freed me' not ruined me

ZcytheP · 2018-02-19T04:32:40+00:00

What do you mean ruined? You have reached a state of accention, a state where no push-up bra or high heels can phase you, you have reached the ultimate level. The level of kings.

gods_bones · 2018-02-18T07:51:52+00:00

Would you like a distraction from women? Focus your attention on brainpower on this instead:

Video 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3l8idr9QFE

Video 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iw-YiEnHJ4s

FluffyMarsianin · 2018-02-18T14:26:15+00:00

So what's the problem? Why do you care so much of women?

Fabianstrategy1 · 2018-02-18T16:42:39+00:00

I treat every woman I involve myself with as a case study for AWALT. admittedly I am weird, but being aware of the principles, it’s made things so predictable now that I’m actually close to developing models based on the women I’ve dated or have had close interaction with.

NukaColaReaper · 2018-02-18T16:43:08+00:00

Me too thanks.

campa56la · 2018-02-18T16:45:42+00:00

I feel you brother. It’s ok. They are opponents in a game. Get a dog or other pet if you need companionship.

randarrow · 2018-02-18T16:48:24+00:00

Sound like you're still emotionally invested. If you didn't care, it wouldn't be grueling. Is it grueling to talk to strangers? Is it grueling to talk to sales clerks? Shouldn't be so, sounds like you really not yet don't care.

feelsboii · 2018-02-18T18:46:40+00:00

Mr. Anderson...

TheSaintMan · 2018-02-19T07:59:37+00:00

Why is it a problem?

mount_of_jack_squat · 2018-03-15T10:11:35+00:00

Congratulations of that's ruined then I wanna be ruined

danieltetreault · 2018-03-19T09:10:58+00:00

I'm not sure how to take this reddit. Firstly, it sounds like MGTOW has been a positive outlet for you, giving you a self-determination mind-frame. Sounds like you found your inner masculine voice, standing up for your beliefs and desires and not making any apologies for it. Good for you. Don't accept shit from women. Why should we? You state that you have found the freedom of your own male life, interests, money, and that's good. The only advice that I can see is one minor incongruity that I see; that is, you state having a great life but note there are some moments of boredom/weakness. Why? Blue pill conditioning that easily regress and rear its ugly head into our lives again. Take charge and hold those thoughts captive, under your assertive control and direction. Meaning and purpose should come inward, from a realization and expression of who we are. Sounds like you need to recenter your red pill manifestation. Your motivation should come from everything that you are previously talking about: interests, money, and peace, etc. Maybe you never really left the plantation? Maybe a little cuck still exists? Just a therapeutic thought, not meant to hurt or demean you but rather a point to ponder for self-reflection and redirection.

Dan

Original_Username7 · 2018-04-23T20:09:44+00:00

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El---Rey · 2018-02-18T23:45:01+00:00

We're all free!

Scantraxx12 · 2018-02-18T10:27:49+00:00

Just go purple pill.......

Title	MGTOW has ruined me...
Author	Original_Username7
Upvotes	332
Comments	131
Date	February 18, 2018 6:13 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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