Never be vocal about MGTOW

YaBasta93 · 2017-03-23T20:50:40+00:00

Don't be vocal. People don't want to deal with reality. You won't stop them from messing up their lives. Let them walk off the cliff. You reap the fruit of knowledge and they reap the fruit of willfull stupidity. Things continue as they always have.

gods_bones · 2017-03-23T20:04:14+00:00

I highly disagree. Its good to be vocal about MGTOW. Dont express rage or mouth off to the wrong people or the wrong gender, but amongst small group of men why not? It's also very advantageous to conversations with women.

I had an aunt ask when I planned to get married, and instead of dodging the question or falling for the bait, I simply asked "What would the benefit of that be?" And that question, sent her off tangent from being a feminazi declaring women are necessary for men to be happy, she instead sputtered off a list of reasons tempting and practically begging me to see value in women. It was easy to shrug her off once I pointed out that most of a females duties in the home have been replaced by machines you press a button on.

Wraith29 · 2017-03-23T21:27:17+00:00

I dissimulate all day. Keep your interactions with 99% of people you meet concise and offer little more than short, minimal replies, reveal nothing, divulge nothing, make no justifications, don't explain your rationale, don't apologize for anything, don't make excuses.

By doing this and truly not giving a damn, people respect you and won't try to screw with you, or they won't respect you (this goes back to not giving a damn, the cycle is complete now) and probably still won't try to screw with you. Being a nice guy and trying to make everybody happy just invites conflict. As long as you're on top of your craft and killing it at your job and basic responsibilities, people will be decent with you, they don't need more than that, nor do they deserve more than that.

MemeSoSick · 2017-03-23T22:26:13+00:00

I say don't be vocal about MGTOW at work. Shit will get you fired.

RetiredTimeHo · 2017-03-23T22:29:41+00:00

48 Laws of Power: Law 38

Think as you like but behave like others.

801735 · 2017-03-23T19:02:56+00:00

About what?!?!

EconomistMagazine · 2017-03-24T01:48:33+00:00

Don't dox yourself. Ever. Don't share your online profiles name, and don't share your truth with people that don't want to hear it or aren't ready.

If people ask about your life you don't have to lie but never mention and concepts by name. Make sure to speak in platitudes. You just haven't met the right girl. Government marriage is too much paperwork for you. You just don't want kids right now.

Don't ever talk about "red pill", hypergamy, male vulnerability, or solipsism. Putting a name on it means they can label you. Defy tht label and you can play it safe in the gray middle zone.

enlightenedmgtow · 2017-03-23T21:40:59+00:00

I talk about MGTOW with my friends, even ones with girlfriends. I don't project as WOMEN SUCK AWALT DIVORCE RAPE like on this sub. I'm less subtle about it, as in "yeah dude, women take up too much of my time. I don't have time to deal with their shenanigans, I have a business to run and I want to experience life while I'm still young. No point settling at my age."

BlueRaspberry · 2017-03-24T01:09:15+00:00

Whenever someone at work complains about their spouse, I turn to the younger unmarried guys and say, "See, this is why I'll never get married. Don't get married, guys. Just don't do it." Humor helps a lot.

KingreX32 · 2017-03-23T22:27:15+00:00

With mgtow I follow the rules of fight Club.

nigelh · 2017-03-23T21:28:00+00:00

Use your head. Never set yourself up as a target. We only speak of MGTOW to those that are going to be receptive.

SgtMGTOW · 2017-03-23T22:57:13+00:00

Once your guy friends start getting married or are in LTR you won't even have to bring it up. They will on the leash of their woman, and they will hate it. And when they hang out with you they will let you know how much it sucks.

YaBasta93 · 2017-03-23T20:50:46+00:00

Don't be vocal. People don't want to deal with reality. You won't stop them from messing up their lives. Let them walk off the cliff. You reap the fruit of knowledge and they reap the fruit of willfull stupidity. Things continue as they always have.

witofnit · 2017-03-23T21:29:30+00:00

I will talk about it but I don't shove it down people's throats. If the situation presents itself I will speak calmly and unemotionally. If they try to antagonize me I'll just end the conversation peacefully. I'll say something like "Well, we just have different priorities." Or "I understand your reasoning but you haven't convinced me to change my views." By being calm and confident in what you do and say people will know not to try their bs shaming tactics on you.

goadsaid · 2017-03-24T00:08:40+00:00

I'm always conflicted about this. On the one hand, there's some guys I know moreso professionally who could REALLY use this stuff. Divorce-raped, alienated from their children, hard working honest type of guys. On the other hand, I will likely bring a shit storm if I open my mouth about mgtow. So, I figure they are older and know how to use the internet, if it's meant to be, they'l find it.

TakeYourDailyDose · 2017-03-24T01:20:22+00:00

While it's important we keep our messages available, it's also important to remember that we DO live in a gynocentric society. I've gotten burned myself forgetting that. If you even so much as question gynocentric tradition, the left and right wing parties alike will hang you out to dry. It doesn't have to be something as obvious as questioning feminism. Even doubting a woman's word today is enough for you to lose your job.

Now if a good friend of yours is consistently getting fucked in relationshits and asks you about your life, you can allude to it. Tell him how much you enjoy your happiness and freedom, that you have no desire to settle down- but don't actively tell him he needs to rid himself of his parasite. This is something he'll have to figure out and decide on his own, like we all did.

"Never appeal to truth and reality unless you are prepared for the anger that comes from disenchantment."

S-Actualizing · 2017-03-24T00:41:49+00:00

I am only a year or two older than you, but I also took the red pill Jr year of high school. The best advice i can give you is to learn a skill/trade while you are in school (something like online coding). It will help take your mind off the bullshit and you can start building up the island that is yourself that much sooner. Everything that seems important now will literally seem like a joke not even a semester after you graduate. Brace yourself for the world, it's not easy being a man.

keltsbeard · 2017-03-24T00:53:36+00:00

Fuck their social circles. Circles with people like that are how slaves ARE returned to the plantation. Most everyone I know knows the way I see things, and they still try to shame/talk/whatever me into feeling bad about it. What do I do? I pop out my phone and show them pictures of my place on the river, all the fish I catch, hogs I kill....and the work I do to make the camp the place I will retire to and hopefully die of old age at. The place they will never set foot at. I ask them how they're doing with their shitty wife/kids/stepkids. Well, it's just such a shame I don't have to deal with all that....see ya later, I'm going to drink beer and watch the ducks fly over the swamps! Don't become complacent, that's when tragedy happens my young friend.

logophiliac · 2017-03-24T00:27:08+00:00

Admitting you're MGTOW is like farting up a storm in a Zombieland washroom stall.

newfalcon14 · 2017-03-24T00:40:16+00:00

Since you're young, realizing (((who))) is behind the degeneracy is an important tool to resisting it. Good luck to you on your journey.

mercwithamagicsword · 2017-03-23T19:09:18+00:00

First rule of Fight Club. But seriously, I can already see signs of this lifestyle manifesting elsewhere. Be careful because if we ever hit critical mass, (I personally don't think we will) but if we do the witch hunts will begin because people, especially women are always looking for someone to blame. You gay guys out there aren't safe either. I'm looking at you Tweak and Craig.

hipst · 2017-03-24T02:15:02+00:00

Who gives a shit about social circles?

The GTOW in MGTOW is "GOING THEIR OWN WAY"

hipst · 2017-03-24T02:15:56+00:00

Say just enough to be able to identify the snowflakes. Then ghost the snowflakes as best you can. To do otherwise can get one into trouble.

wawakaka · 2017-03-24T03:44:01+00:00

DO NOT TALK ABOUT MGTOW

YOU WILL MESS THIS UP.

kyledontcare · 2017-03-24T07:26:24+00:00

I'm a college English prof; you should see the degeneracy of the females in my class. Just today, less than 30-minutes ago in a writing class, my gosh what I could tell you from supposedly innocent 20-year -old women. They're already washed up. no joke. Only God himself could help them.

NonThinkingPeeOn · 2017-03-24T06:12:30+00:00

Do you your work quietly. When you are done let it go.

saganist91 · 2017-03-24T02:34:59+00:00

On the other hand you should always be telling the truth... but no need to bring up terms like MGTOW and the red pill... unless directly asked?

fantasmas05 · 2017-03-24T07:51:48+00:00

Act like the others, but think for yourself.

Smitty6 · 2017-03-24T15:18:25+00:00

I don't think you want to use a lot of the vocabulary that mgtow talks about. AWALT, Chad thundercock, mgtow, etc. What you want to do is talk about the laws that favor towards women and are biased against men.

It's usually met with one saying that "not all women are like that" which you can respond by saying "but they can." Or you can say "they are capable of it." Just simply saying that you are looking out for yourself in a society that is mostly looking out for women is just being smart and protective.

Surprisingly people including women agree with me. I've even had women say to me you don't want to date now days anyways because most women are overly entitled and want the world because they were promised that as young girls. The key is to let the others put the pieces together. You just lay it out for them.

Dave_the_Pigeon · 2017-03-24T02:34:58+00:00

Great that you're thinking about these things early in life, however, always remember to be humble. Seeing the world for what it really is can be a great advantage but it can also lead you to overthink and at times distract you from your goals if you're not careful. Experience it all but remember that you still have a lot to learn as a young man.

ChekkM8 · 2017-03-24T02:45:31+00:00

at least you learned early bud.

Solstus22 · 2017-03-24T04:51:34+00:00

I've told few people about me being MGTOW and they don't really care o.O, well they insult us, which is not as bad as going to lengths to ruin our lives. What really baffles me is: why the hell should they care about we think? They do their thing and we do ours.

A quick question for MGTOWs here; on a scale of 1-10 how much do they care about a guy who willingly chooses not to interact with women in your area?

DirtieHarry · 2017-03-29T19:31:46+00:00

Cognitive dissonance is a bitch. People who aren't ready and willing to hear the truth won't stand for it.

sadbasturd99 · 2017-03-23T19:17:46+00:00

they will end up most likely end up in failing marriages or get cheated on

I thought the same thing in High School. I never did drugs, never drank, had a moral compass.

The result: I am 42, unhealthy physically and mentally, and I am alone. The people I thought myself so superior too are healthy, wealthy, have beautiful wives, beautiful children, beautiful homes. One friend of mine did get cheated on but they somehow worked it all out. Who was the fool ?

Title	Never be vocal about MGTOW
Author	NonPasteurizedMilk
Upvotes	122
Comments	72
Date	March 23, 2017 6:58 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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