Red Flags

PtolemysChild · 2020-05-02T06:38:41+00:00

Scars from self-inflicted cut marks
Teenage eating disorders
Disney villain eyebrows
Memes about being a “good woman”
“I’m a survivor”
“I’m a fighter”
“Perfectly Imperfect”
“He didn’t treat me like you do”
Student debt for low brow career
“what’s a savings account?”
“isn’t stock for just like rich people?”

Morb357 · 2020-05-02T05:48:46+00:00

Cried when Hillary lost.

kriskros18 · 2020-05-02T05:36:13+00:00

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Speed_Junkie · 2020-05-02T06:25:21+00:00

Piercings other than 1 in each ear.

user_miki · 2020-05-02T07:13:26+00:00

This is continuation of the OP list.

-long nails(lazy ,this is good predictor she is doing nothing you must pay for everything)

- Fat( lazy,hide the fridge)

-No makeup(hidden feminist)

-Short hair(hidden feminist)

-hair color, lipstick color, nails color(red,blue,pink,black)

-too much makeup(slut)

-short skirts(slut)

-shit testing too much.

-nagging

-talk about past boyfriends( in order to compare you with them)

-cursing, foul language(not too much of a lady,lack of basic education)

-impolite with service personnel(waitresses,restaurant)

-Karen-ism - Entitlement(loud and obnoxious)

-flirting with other men in front of you.

-Degrading you in front of others(disrespect-major red flag)

-Interrupting you (too often) when you speak out.

-Asking too often about money(gold digging).

-Debts(huge red flag)

-Comparing you constantly with others.

-cheating on past boyfriends.

-Posting nudes on social media(past or actual)

- past abortions.

-any, any shady,questionable past(Past is not the past, past is the future, history repeats itself)

ThrowRA3455677 · 2020-05-02T05:43:00+00:00

Septum Piercing

2020-05-02T07:40:43+00:00

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allgreentome · 2020-05-02T06:30:57+00:00

“Curvy”

kayfab · 2020-05-02T09:38:43+00:00

It is now clear that i am DONE with dating hahahhah

Wisdom_of_a_Khan · 2020-05-02T05:49:04+00:00

Facial piercings that aren't in the ear lobe.

Butch Hair cuts.

Bisexual.

Messy to an extreme, i don't mean just pile organizing, I do that too. One of my past nightmares had ketchup on the ceiling of her apartment, when I asked what the fuck she played it off as her being an "adoreable Ditz."

Finally, in 2020, being a woman is its own red flag.

mrboombastic05 · 2020-05-02T09:28:34+00:00

- Colored Hair (Bright neon colors)
- Hating on capitalism
- Talking shit about their ex
- Mostly guy friends (big attention whore)
- Has more than 100 followers, unless you are a celebrity having too many followers means wanting attention

bamabeatsny · 2020-05-02T11:31:51+00:00

Female

2020-05-02T08:20:12+00:00

In addition to all of the above;

Mental issues No hobbies No life goals

Happiness9801 · 2020-05-02T10:37:48+00:00

Slept around with a black dude

hankoBreadCrumbs89 · 2020-05-02T09:03:38+00:00

If she doesn’t have her own money then everything about her will be red flags.

LkTahoeNV · 2020-05-02T11:21:07+00:00

owns a cat
has protective order(s) (either for or against)
takes lots of prescription meds
has “roommates”
eats only fast food
has lots of guy friends
been divorced multiple times
lack of a Y chromosome
lots of mirrors at her place

barkingtree25 · 2020-05-02T12:18:17+00:00

・Breathing

・Not breathing

Astaroth90 · 2020-05-02T11:36:26+00:00

"I'm a strong, independent woman, career oriented, Phd, can't cook shit, she's "chubby", puffy cheeks, no working out whatsoever, wears only jeans, tomboy like, deep baritone voice, smoker, high body fat, not feminine, without father/ or a simp for a father with 0 impact in her life, if she has dogs/cats and they are her "children", zero initiative all around, she has boy friends

pilotmgtow · 2020-05-02T05:42:55+00:00

Vegan, Pink hair or any weird hair, EDM or rock and roll kind of girls , Bisexual well they come under Feminism as well but still

Ziym · 2020-05-02T12:31:42+00:00

Unnatural hair colours, especially bleach blonde
Noticeably overweight
"Not like other girls"/"One of the guys" persona
The general attitude of "I'm here, what are you waiting for?"
Choice of clothing, a balance of modest and good looking is key
"Tough"/abrasive personality
Clinginess

Gravy_Gecko · 2020-05-02T16:25:45+00:00

- has vagina

TheLawandOrder · 2020-05-02T17:11:46+00:00

TLDR

Red flags: Female, Identifies as...

Palisos · 2020-05-02T08:13:41+00:00

Good info thanks

getalihfe · 2020-05-02T11:53:35+00:00

jfl at "career woman" never once seen someone labeled as this have an even remotely impressive work history

Ketsa · 2020-05-02T12:12:24+00:00

- FAT

AtikGuide · 2020-05-02T12:56:49+00:00

-- She "knows it all"

-- She is alway right / correct.

-- Her way or the highway.

NWAustinDude · 2020-05-02T16:39:06+00:00

Heavy Alcohol Consumption - compulsion toward lying/cheating

Overdone Makeup - insecurity/multiple personality

Any haircut where part of the head is shaved - feminist

Over the top and obnoxious laughing (maybe not a red flag - but personal preference)

Dependence on Social Media - reads their own FB posts aloud to you along with the responses others have sent them. (I can actually feel my blood pressure rise when this happens)

“Bi” - I’m convinced these newfound “all girls are bisexual” types (including my now ex-wife) are the epitome of shallow and they’re narcissistic attention vampires who will equally abuse both genders to suck all the attention from the room - along with any dicks pointed in their general direction.

sebas991 · 2020-05-02T17:03:51+00:00

Fat and doesn't show any concern about it.
Too far left or right, both are annoying as all hell.
Feminist. I can handle betterment for both male and female, but when they start with their feminazi bullshit, I'm out.
Can't handle a civilized discussion, either start crying or start screaming.
Being a slut on social media, and hiding it with "It's just a picture".
Too many male friends.
Too many female friends that are obvious hoes/rad-fems.
Poor mental health management, and not trying to get better.
Daddy issues.
Too religious.
Doesn't bother picking up a book or learning something.
Spending too much time talking with "friends" on social media.
Can't even manage to keep a conversation alive, while chatting or in person.

badaboomxx · 2020-05-02T17:52:19+00:00

- 10 thousand cock stare
- I am not like any other woman
- I read books, but I don't remember any title
- You pay for this date
- Tinder
- Cannot look away from her phone
- My family this, my family that.
- I need to meet my parents (in the first date)
- How much do you earn?

etc. etc. etc........

SlickRick941 · 2020-05-02T19:14:46+00:00

Fat Short hair Fluent in sarcasm Self proclaimed badass Claims to lift One of the boys Facial piercings Is a woman

BoxofMistakes · 2020-05-02T20:29:05+00:00

- Obesity

- Proud of being lazy

- Can't cook for herself

- Vegan or Vegetarian

- Poly

- If she uses any excessive term to talk about sex (demisexual, pansexual, etc)

- TDS

- Problem glasses

- If she calls herself 'Cis'

- If she says she is Strong and Independent she is just the opposite

- She constantly interrupts

- Anything false (hair extensions, tits)

- Clownish makeup

- Is only radical in acceptable ways (Atheist, Bernie Sanders, etc)

- Lives beyond her means

- Can't accurately describe how she earns her living/vague answers

BigBigPeter2471 · 2020-05-02T22:37:30+00:00

raised by single mother
weak relationship with father
parents divorced
mother had her young
no ambition (works a shitty job and doesn't study)
can't pay on dates
drugs
smokes
messy room
swears too much
really slutty outfits

And I know depending on age its hard to help, but coming from a poor family, only bad things can stem from that, such as her seeing as you her way out, which will likely lead to you getting baby trapped.

Edit:

Doesn't work out/ overweight

skippydammit · 2020-05-02T23:11:00+00:00

DEBT with multiple active credit cards

Ownedby4Labs · 2020-05-03T04:47:28+00:00

Any listing with the word “Queen”.

Imperial_Plastics · 2020-05-03T04:57:55+00:00

Degree in Women’s Studies

MarshallDillion · 2020-05-02T13:14:20+00:00

Pussy hair

Nero9214 · 2020-05-02T13:32:40+00:00

-Threesomes and coal burning in the past

WeirdoWizard · 2020-05-02T11:34:42+00:00

I’m a male with tattoos I’m not sure that I can say with confidence that a woman with tattoos is inherently bad product

Title	Red Flags
Author	adviceaccount03
Upvotes	427
Comments	77
Date	May 2, 2020 5:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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