Remember this gem? Husband Makes Spreadsheet Of Wife's Sexual Rejection

CpuDoc67 · 2019-10-16T13:24:05+00:00

Why die alone, when you can be married and die a little inside day by day.

I've experienced that b.s. when I was married less than a year.

DangZagnut · 2019-10-16T13:30:48+00:00

Women don't care about sex. Sex is entirely to transact for a relationship (money).

CeleritySteam · 2019-10-16T15:01:50+00:00

FakeNews

3 times in a roughly one month timeframe?

Wtf is this, pro marriage propoganda? You think that shit is real?

BaffyBob · 2019-10-16T13:44:05+00:00

Once they feel like they have you locked in, they have no desire to fuck you, or do anything you might enjoy. Cut them loose and they'll be doing anything in pants, except you.

CpuDoc67 · 2019-10-16T13:22:54+00:00

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guestere · 2019-10-16T13:38:41+00:00

twice a month, 24 times a year. Let's say that carries on for a decade (if lucky), then slow winds down to nothing. Avg cost of lifetime of marriage, according to some surveys is £250,000. That's about 1k per screw. You think she's worth 1k per screw??

TigPlaze · 2019-10-16T13:44:00+00:00

Some married men visit escorts. Gee, I wonder why.

DigitalScetis · 2019-10-16T15:53:23+00:00

Oh I remember that. Good times.

I also remember the copious amounts of reeee and salt offered up to Kek that day, with so many thots, white knights, manginas, and tradcucks doing mental gymnastics on a collective hamster wheel of faux outrage.

I learned much from that day, gentlemen. And the thing I learned, most of all, is that thots fear records. Records hold them accountable for things they don't care enough to remember. Records are resistant to shame or charm. Records turn isolated incidents that she passes off as nothing into a coherent pattern that speaks directly to her character. Records are a constant reminder that the thot that her mercurial moods and momentary whims are not the beginning and end of reality; she is a creature of time and space--just like the rest of us--who exist between past and future.

Thots think that all it will take is a massive outcry against "slut shaming" to absolve themselves of the judgement. But records don't shame, they define. And this is what they can neither control, nor bear.

Nathan_P_Charles · 2019-10-16T15:51:00+00:00

10% chance of sex in a marriage? No thanks. I'll just jack off and be on my way

Iqbal40862715 · 2019-10-16T13:34:56+00:00

that man has just cause to cheat and go out and hit some new ass

[deleted] · 2019-10-16T13:33:33+00:00

You don’t need no machine learning or data engineering to know that betas get none of that and lose all of that.

MrMagtow · 2019-10-16T14:44:21+00:00

Let me guess, this was posted in /r/DeadBedrooms?

I gotta throw something out here. In the past, marriage was an agreement of sex in exchange for protection/financial security. It doesn't work any more, these days because, women are strong and independent.

They decide if sex happens. Also, as men are not longer required to provide for women, men decide how to spend their money. Women have no say in how a man spends his money.

[deleted] · 2019-10-16T15:53:03+00:00

Don't get married and don't live together so when they fuck it up (and they always fuck it up) then you can be out of there in a heartbeat.

I told my last GF that I had so few things at her place that I could be out of there in 5 mins - that made her really uncomfortable.

ThrowawayGYOW · 2019-10-16T14:27:59+00:00

Wasn't around for this, but the reactions generally seem positive in the thread. It's more "man struggling" than it is "what an entitled child".

Wonder what the reactions would be like now in 2019

OilHaulerND · 2019-10-16T17:53:46+00:00

"I feel gross" (didn't shower until the next morning)

Bitch, you ARE gross. Get your nasty ass in the shower and get into bed! You got fifteen minutes. Leave your hair wet. Move it, bitch!

52-75-73-74-79 · 2019-10-16T16:26:57+00:00

Money on everytime “I feel gross” was because she already got plowed that day and doesn’t want sloppy seconds

BigBadBootyDaddy10 · 2019-10-16T16:43:01+00:00

It’s funny how women say men don’t communicate, but once we tell them how we feel...

esteban1337 · 2019-10-16T13:11:48+00:00

original thread

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/2b1f5a/my_husband_m26_sent_me_f26_an_immature/

bamabeatsny · 2019-10-16T14:48:59+00:00

This "poor" guy was getting sex more regularly than most in a "dead bedroom" scenario, that's for sure.

Odinson76914 · 2019-10-16T15:51:49+00:00

Twice in one month what are they rabbits?

JihadNinjaCowboy · 2019-10-16T18:33:59+00:00

This and millions of other anecdotes that show that women do bait and switch in marriage. They usually bring very little to the table other than their vagina, and then they withhold that. Deny sex is on par with cheating.

Then they hit the Wall and start losing their looks, cheat on you, and take half of your shit in a divorce, additionally getting child support (which is typically much more money than it takes to support a child) and/or alimony.

Marriage is a crap deal for men, even if the woman never cheats on you or divorces you.

Chronic_Messiah · 2019-10-16T16:46:20+00:00

Either his wife is asexual or is cheating. What other possibilities are there? If she doesn't want to be intimate, why did she marry him?

Docbear64 · 2019-10-16T17:59:49+00:00

It makes me laugh and simultaneously bums me out that I have more sex with women than many men who bought them a big ass rock , pay for their fucking house and cars, pumped babies into them, pay for their education and vacations, and told the world , God, and everyone that " She's mine" .

All that work for her to maybe begrudgingly spread her legs what once a week ? once a month ? .... once a year?

Whoever keeps pushing the lie that married men have more sex have clearly not met the vast majority of married or formerly married men that I have who say the exact opposite.

HidingFromGF5 · 2019-10-16T17:13:50+00:00

I think it's important to establish before marriage your partner's sex drive. If they have a lower sex drive and you want sex often, you may not want to engage in anything further and just break it off from there. Despite what anyone says, sex is important to maintaining a relationship (If you're getting in one).

Cyxios · 2019-10-16T17:30:46+00:00

Going to the gym and not showering after? Damn thats gross..

ReardenLife · 2019-10-16T19:02:29+00:00

You know she had each one of those excuses cocked, locked and ready by like 8am each of those days as to avoid even the slightest pause of hesitation as her brain spun through her Rolodex of bullshit.

rsaralaya · 2019-10-16T16:03:42+00:00

That’s like once a full moon. So periodic.

What a stable relationship!

Was the wife banging horses the other times? Or was it donkeys?

MarriedZombie · 2019-10-16T16:42:55+00:00

Sounds about right, 3 times in 2 months😂

roflcopt0rz_returns · 2019-10-16T18:40:26+00:00

It is a lie that women don't enjoy sex. Women do enjoy sex, almost as much as men. But the belief does become correct when you modify it as "Women don't enjoy sex *with you*". If she's not doing it with you, she's doing it with someone else. If she really was into you, she would not make excuses, she would make time in her day to do it.

Also, based on the original reddit topic, at the time the guy made this excel sheet, both of them were only TWENTY SIX years old. Fucking 26 and she's already drying up the sex to twice a month. Just imagine how bad it would be today if they were (are) still together.

thatMGTOWguy · 2019-10-16T16:24:53+00:00

She most probably cheated

linkinway · 2019-10-16T17:21:41+00:00

just look at the excuses — she was totally cheating. I can't believe that husband didn't see it through — one excuse was actually "I am too much drunk" WOW, who doesn't get it that alcohol significantly increases sexual desire? seems like fucking some co-worker I guess. she didn't want to have sex because she was already getting fucked. and I am really wondering with how many.

38yearsoffreefallin · 2019-10-16T17:41:13+00:00

3 times that month . I know a guy whose wife hasn’t laid him in close to a year

Electronic_Record · 2019-10-16T20:01:27+00:00

veritas

Nerdialismo · 2019-10-16T20:06:37+00:00

She doesn't shower before go to bed? Yikes...

WhateverIsLeftIsFine · 2019-10-16T16:28:41+00:00

Could be sleeping with someone else. They don't like sleeping with you within a few days after they sleep with someone else because they think you can tell. The pattern is a little concerning. Gives you pity fuck every couple weeks to make herself feel better, and banging chad between

Throwawayabdi_95 · 2019-10-16T17:40:38+00:00

If you're not getting sex on demand from your wife you're beta. Imagine being an incel and sleeping in the same bed as a woman at the same time. These modern bitches are completely useless compared to their grandmother's. The least they can do is atleast let him have sex but no even that's too much.

Cade_Connelly_13 · 2019-10-16T19:59:52+00:00

Wtf. This poor sap. I know a guy whose wife has freaking cerebral palsy and gets laid more than him.

nutsackninja · 2019-10-16T20:41:03+00:00

If he got a pvr it would remove half of her excuses.

Mortocrates · 2019-10-16T21:13:13+00:00

She's already got access to all his resources, so why would she give him sex? This is the fate of a married man. Go Your Own Way.

1manontherun52 · 2019-10-16T21:36:24+00:00

3 times in 6 weeks! Thats better than my Ex 🤣

fickle_fuck · 2019-10-16T21:42:24+00:00

I know married men who haven't had sex in YEARS...

Kid_Dragneel · 2019-10-16T22:10:02+00:00

Am I the only one that is more focused on the gross fact of her not showering after the gym? Ew.

Cairanmac1 · 2019-10-17T00:42:08+00:00

Wife: "Let's have sex"

Him: "I'm not really in the mood tonight"

Wife: "Are you having an affair? Are you gay? Am I ugly? Do you not love me anymore?"

BadDad01234 · 2019-10-17T00:46:55+00:00

This hits way too close to home. Except it was 30+ days in a row of rejection for years. This guy is like a baller compared to my marriage

tchannell · 2019-10-16T21:19:04+00:00

3 times in a month and half. That is a whole lot more than what I get.

youngblue78 · 2019-10-16T16:21:29+00:00

This is grounds for divorce

yooshio · 2019-10-16T17:10:43+00:00

lol @ the diary of the simp.

Not everyone needs to move to Arizona to experience the desert lifestyle.

On top of all that you still have to deal with precious.

[deleted] · 2019-10-16T17:25:12+00:00

The author Louis Ferdinand Celine labeled it "Death on the installment plan."

[deleted] · 2019-10-16T19:56:06+00:00

What's the point of that?Waste of time. Either get an escort or move on..Dont see a point being married or even have a gf if you're not having sex with her 3-4 times a week at least

[deleted] · 2019-10-16T20:27:06+00:00

Wow. I am sure she was still getting a ton of attention, gifts, etc. (which is what women value). While he was getting no sex (what men value). Also I am sure Tyrone, Pookie, Yang, or Jose (maybe all of them!) were banging her at the gym.

ValhallaBoundBoy · 2019-10-16T21:13:50+00:00

Honestly I don't blame the woman per se. Twice a month is pretty regular for a married couple. Not saying the guy shouldn't get more, but its something that needs to be talked about at length. It's sad though that the husband is very clearly interested in it and goes for it but gets rejected.

SpaceCowboyBop · 2019-10-16T21:32:31+00:00

I dumped an ex for not having much sex. We were early 20s in her new house. Was like a snapshot of being married and 50. I'm too tired and such. I had more sex single than next to her.

U-94 · 2019-10-16T21:55:48+00:00

After I've fucked someone a few dozen times, I'm over it. Thankfully this built-in operating system prevents me from getting into a situation like this.

chakamaki · 2019-10-16T22:46:48+00:00

This is still good stats.. believe me I have experienced worse.. where excuse was replaced by fights and “Yes” was replaced by “Deal”....

eightgaydiamonds · 2019-10-16T22:52:22+00:00

This guy is a legend

[deleted] · 2019-10-16T23:23:50+00:00

When I clean something it's clean until I make it dirty. When I put something somewhere it's because it put it there. When there is noise, I create it. When there is no food anymore, it's because I ate it.

Now cohabitate and see what that does to your peace of mind... If have a nice gf, but I just can't imagine living together.

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-10-16T23:37:44+00:00

It's the effect of the wedding ring.

Zombocom1911 · 2019-10-17T01:11:40+00:00

he's trying too hard, should have hired an actual prostitute after the 2nd NO, it is his noble right.

PeterPansSyndrome · 2019-10-17T01:58:02+00:00

I've internalized the red pill for a long time. But it is still unfathomable to me that married couples aren't fucking regularly. Deadbeadrooms is still amazing to me. Glad I'll never experience that.

EndlessPatriotism · 2019-10-17T02:46:17+00:00

Imagine saving half of you money by just using your fucking hand. You can do so much more.

CerebralAbrasion · 2019-10-17T10:33:41+00:00

This old guy I work with told me "I divorced my first wife because I wasn't getting laid. Then I got a new wife because I thought she would put out... I still don't get any." Sounds like he finally learned.

MrBluePill · 2019-10-17T11:26:09+00:00

He's averaging about twice a month. That's about the same as my marriage.

There's gonna be guys out there thinking it's sex on tap. It is, for a couple of months. She'll pretend she likes your interests too. A double whammy of sex and ego massage.

Next thing you know you've got two kids and a wife with 28 day periods and a constant stream of excuses - let's not get started on the 15kg married weight injection that'll take care of you wanting daily sex.

It's a bill of goods, guys. The reality doesn't match expectation.

I'm here right now to tell you that if you're getting into a relationship for sex, good company or even a pretty face in the morning, you're headed for disappointment.

mgthro66 · 2019-11-27T05:24:22+00:00

Saw this on a feminist site. All the women were shitting on the man. Talking about how she should divorce him.

Three times in one month? What a fucking cunt.

My wife would reject me basically every fucking time I initiated, but the three times I wasn't up for it when she really wanted it she threw fits like a child.

uni3993 · 2019-10-16T23:54:25+00:00

Probabbly is fucking another guy

ancientalien999 · 2019-10-17T08:59:25+00:00

Reminder to never get married

junkiebiologist · 2019-10-17T15:11:03+00:00

Whoah. Didn't expect to see consecutive days of asking for sex. I think once a week is just as good. I, for one, had better results that way.

full_control · 2019-10-17T04:26:04+00:00

This is not productive IMO, no offense intended but this is blue pill.

ptrgrfn · 2019-10-16T15:55:42+00:00

Unfortunately, girls don't like sex as we do. Because not all of them can experience orgasm, only few percent. Don't you think that we should feel sorry for them?

[deleted] · 2019-10-16T18:18:21+00:00

Isn't the expectation of the transaction/service of sex confessing a necessity? Doesn't this suggest that the ultimate value is fem worship/sex?-- I see no sense in outrage of the behavior when you have control over yourself and not another. I see no sense in outrage given biology either. Male value default = female worship, female value default = self worship. Who would expect an entity/group with no consequences for complaining to have the same output/quality of output when the monopoly desired for the monopoly's sake is once had?

Title	Remember this gem? Husband Makes Spreadsheet Of Wife's Sexual Rejection
Author	esteban1337
Upvotes	626
Comments	173
Date	October 16, 2019 1:11 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/dip4cb/remember_this_gem_husband_makes_spreadsheet_of/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/remember-this-gem-husband-makes-spreadsheet-of.393884 https://theredarchive.com/post/393884

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