This is another thought I have been wondering about, why are so many women damaged today?

strongandhappy · 2019-10-19T01:10:55+00:00

Women wrestled free of male concern and protection and we have no real option but to let them destroy themselves. I tried to help, many times. Now I only help myself and it works much better.

DangZagnut · 2019-10-19T01:30:22+00:00

The future is bright, because pretty much everyone has internet access these days, and that means MGTOW exposure and ideas such that anyone “being lied to” has only themselves to blame.

I thought we were coming out of a period like when the 70s brought in the 80s and a neo-conservatism. Unfortunately we have a Trump instead of a Reagan, so that’s going to get all fucked up for another 20 years because that jack off is in. He hasn’t really done anything but the media keeps making it negative no matter what he does.

So they’ll stick some taco in 2020, she willl be praised for doing absolutely nothing, and some military action will intentionally occur so a taco can look “decisive”. By only in a weak sauce kind of way.

Are women damaged? I don’t think so. They certainly aren’t worth investing emotional energy in as they almost all disappoint and fuck up relationships.

It’s not going back to a fantasy time period of loyal, loving, submissive women, it’s just not happening. They weren’t that way before, and they aren’t that way now, the internet just makes it more obvious when you have a window into their lives because they broadcast it all online.

So it seems worse than it was, but it was just as worse before, they just covered up that part of history for political reasons.

laptopdragon · 2019-10-19T03:10:33+00:00

imo it goes both ways.

the only way I can describe how I see it is how I see it.

Ive had plenty of 'meh' days where all the basic stuff is done, in whatever context. I always had to work every day since I was like 5 or 6 but chores are chores. The girls I knew had chores too, but it was every other day or only on weekends.

Well, my point is, the more things I accomplished, the more I felt the day was good. The girls who didn't have anything to do sat idle until they found something to focus on and if they were unhappy, they blamed whatever their focus point was or near by with negativity. The less they accomplished, the more negative they became.

So, my theory is the more we do, (even fail at) the more content we become. The less we do, the more discontent we become.

Since modern technology allows us to live like royalty without any work involved will create a generation of people who didn't earn anything, and thereby unable to feel good about themselves, so their idle minds focus on anything they can shout down or challenge as a means to compensate.

it's a rough draft theory but the happiest women I knew were busy doing things like making their own dresses, cooking, whatever it was, I knew a super hot girl who fixed up an old 911 porsche and she was great to be around. While the most spoiled women I've met were the most intolerable.

If doctors prescribed manual labor instead of drugs I think society would be doubling the benefits, but instead doctors medicate the masses and they become dependents. Take those meds away and they become insufferable.

TheBrokenSigil · 2019-10-19T03:47:18+00:00

3rd wave feminism. lets break that down. first wave got the vote, second wave ended the sanctity of marriage and now we are dealing with the women raised by the men their mothers left their fathers for. their fathers could not do anything to rescue these daughters from the stepfathers that molested them. as men we are supposed to protect our daughters even from themselves. the law has stepped in and now men go to jail for protecting our daughters or the stepdads go to jail after they molest our children. the daughters end up getting chewed up and spit out either way.

now women go for ultra violent (so called alpha) men out of pure need for protection. they know these men do not care about their safety but are vigilant against trespassers on anything they believe to be their property.

in short women have chosen feminism to change the viewpoint that they are property and then latch on to the most violent men that consider them property to replace the protection of the fathers their mothers rejected and replaced with a monster.

NohoTwoPointOh · 2019-10-19T02:45:19+00:00

Weak or missing fathers.

NoCharism · 2019-10-19T05:48:24+00:00

absolutely agree, the death of the west is right around the corner

There were many high cultures in the past, who simply went extinct and nobody knows the reason behind it

If you watch the "mouse utopia" experiment on youtube, you will know how they went extinct, they simply stopped reproducing, because they became a bunch of degenerates and those who reproduced had offspring that was born into a degenerate world and because of that they lacked social skills and they were not interested (males)/ feard the opposite sex (females)

Kinda like where the world is heading right now.

BlackPillPusher · 2019-10-19T05:52:00+00:00

Because they have social media, instant messaging and a steady stream of chads going in an out of them at all times with thirsty orbiters to match, which also causes severe microchimerism before they even reach adulthood, they live a life of cheap thrills and a lot of them never seen a functional family in their life, it's merely a symptom of a crumbling and degenerate culture on the verge of another inquisition.

Gemjab · 2019-10-19T03:10:19+00:00

You know how many times a girl has told me shes been raped. It's a disgusting amount.

Unit614 · 2019-10-19T08:23:14+00:00

Two words : Social Media

FeedMeMore22778534 · 2019-10-19T01:12:05+00:00

Where you going? I’m coming with

bannerlord · 2019-10-19T04:37:04+00:00

theres an article called the paradox of declining female happiness

google it its a good read

ulgulanoth · 2019-10-19T05:00:41+00:00

Feminists where the OG sluts, and to avoid the social stigma that followed being a slut they made loyalty and marriage the social stigma.

thelookoutbelow · 2019-10-19T03:50:22+00:00

In the end, after the collapse, maybe there could be a return to the organic gender roles that are best for us, but also happen to be best for women. They could stop pitting men against each other, manipulating their sons, and husbands, and generally being less bitchy. They could also stop favoring actually-toxic men when they're given the choice

Dwight3469 · 2019-10-19T10:41:36+00:00

They don't have any men guiding them, considering the parents are always either divorced or with a beta husband who submits to his wife to not get divorce-raped. Society tells them to be a slut, that whatever they do they're right, that they're always beautiful even if they're a land whale, to hate the West and want to exterminate white men, and without a strong male presence around to prevent them from falling into it, they swallow it all.

Women mentally always are children, and just like them, if they only have bad influences they will turn bad. If they are spoiled they will become spoiled and entitled, and if throwing tantrums work, they will never stop throwing tantrums.

When I was a very young child, I could do some stupid shit like leaving my parents side and rushing in the street risking to be hit by cars. My father caught up to me and gave me a well deserved slap to the face. I don't even remember it, and it has taught me to not do dumb stuff.Now imagine what would have happened if my father was a pussy and didn't do that, if he let me do dumb shit over and over again? Maybe I would have become a beta crying for nothing and throwing tantrums because I saw it worked from a very young age.

There must be punishment for bad actions, women never get punished, they even get praised for their bad actions, but even with all the justification in the world, most people still know when they do something bad, and this cognitive dissonance fucks women's mind a lot. They are doing the exact opposite of what nature intended for them, and despite getting tons of justification they inherently know they're doing something bad, they're just too brainwashed and stupid to understand what it is.

[deleted] · 2019-10-19T12:28:13+00:00

They were led to believe in a narrative where things will always work out for them.

Since young age people would bend backward for them, they were free to ride the CC in high school, college, and post-college with the promise to have fun when you're young, and then when time comes, prince charming will come and sweet off your feet, and you'll leave happily ever after with a house in the suburbs, fancy cars, vacation, baby sitter, cleaning service and more.

Well, everything works out as promised except for prince charming; and that's upsetting, very upsetting.

Texian_Fusilier · 2019-10-19T01:17:49+00:00

Everyone attracts a type. Or did. Me? I attracted cute blondes who'd been abused by their stepfather's. You know, daddy's little princess. I believe those 1s. Post #metoo I'm more skeptical. That causes damage. They werent trying to #metoo anything. 1 just hinted at it, the other swore me to the strictest secrecy about it, and didnt want me to act on that knowledge in any way. Nothing for them to gain there. Plus I met the man, I'm disgusted that he liked me, even now. Plus. We had a dog back then, she was a flawless judge of character. She hated him. Growled a lot. Wasnt picking up on ANY cues from me as dogs sometimes do either. At no point were she🐕 he and I in the same place.

That shit causes damage, bet it's a common problem. 1 was 🇺🇸 the other was 🇳🇱, she only hinted at it, but all I know for sure was he was a deadbeat drunk, constantly trying to borrow large amounts of money from her. Dont know if there was sexual abuse there or not, but I'm 50/50 on that.

Just my 2 cents.

NotherThrowaway284 · 2019-10-19T02:26:49+00:00

People are damaged today.

"Why?" is still a good question, though.

since25jan2019 · 2019-10-19T03:01:08+00:00

Women are damaged? Meh.

edgysecularist · 2019-10-19T04:19:07+00:00

Amen, not sticking around either

Diogeneplz1 · 2019-10-19T11:24:31+00:00

Unchecked hypergamy.

artographic · 2019-10-19T13:10:20+00:00

I think we should let them sink into depression. They all will hit the wall and have to deal with loneliness. We will just do fine, we don't need their misery, they have only themselves to blame. They chose to embrace degenerate culture, we didn't.

Yonisensei18 · 2019-10-20T01:26:36+00:00

It doesn't matter, they sacrificed their security in the name of feminisim. To go on a crusade based in emotions and outrage while abandoning the security of a stable life. They're damaged because they have no stability, end of story.

I, however, have stability. I have a goal to achieve and a clear path to said goal. I will not stop, I will no bend, and I will not break. That keeps me going. What the fuck does feminism have?!

nhendren23 · 2019-10-19T03:07:00+00:00

https://www.goingyourownway.com/mgtow-mgtow-dictionary/regression-4037/#post130734

Bumblebus · 2019-10-19T16:35:03+00:00

Okay, so you title the post asking why women are "damaged". You start off the post saying that all the women you see are on anxiety meds because they've suffered great trauma, often at the hands of a man, as per your stepfather abuse example. Then you go onto say the reason these women have these psychological problems is because of first wave feminism and the fact that women have rejected their their "reproductive drive to settle down with one man". These women aren't miserable because they can now be promiscuous without ostracization, you already said the reason, it's because they've suffered trauma. It isn't women's fault that they suffer trauma either. Do you think, prior to the sexual revolution, women didn't suffer psychologically? They absolutely did, there just wasn't as much research into things like anxiety medication back then. FFS women used to get fucking lobotomized for having psychological problems.

Pyro111921 · 2019-10-19T17:26:10+00:00

I believe the saying goes "25% of women are on head meds. That's terrifying, as they didn't diagnose the other 75%!"

Title	This is another thought I have been wondering about, why are so many women damaged today?
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Date	October 19, 2019 1:07 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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