Why choose to be single?

Raiden627 · 2016-10-26T15:43:44+00:00

I have a demanding job. I have demanding children, mostly because they're young. If you think having a girlfriend would make my life easier, she'd be just another one making demands and having expectations while providing little to nothing in return. No ma'am.

chronoic · 2016-10-26T16:01:56+00:00

I choose to be single because, while I was going to school and the first 2 years of being an accountant consume alot of my time all my brothers got marry. Two are divorce, two are being treated like dogs (wife says do this, they do it). I use to dream of having a family of my own but after my first GF and all the drama, and seeing my brothers. I enjoy the company of my money more than a woman, I seen more of the world, own cars I never thought I could, and fuck more woman than any of my brothers could dare, am I loney? No, I am more happy than I ever been. I wish all my fellow MGTOW could see how much better the world is when they give up the family dream and chase their real dream.

wildfireboat · 2016-10-26T17:41:35+00:00

No woman is worth my freedom. No woman.

palaceposy6706 · 2016-10-26T19:49:59+00:00

It's funny because I have a lot of those things: six pack, muscular, intelligent, good looking, have game. And dating still sucks. Women are ungrateful and flakey. And whenever one sticks around, she's either lazy af or she bores me to tears. Mgtow are the smartest men out there.

blue_magoo_62 · 2016-10-26T17:58:03+00:00

why I would want to hang out with the same person all the time.

Happen_On_A_Ciggy · 2016-10-26T16:19:01+00:00

I felt like i was being locked a cage.. ain't nobody got time for that.

RXRob · 2016-10-26T19:05:55+00:00

I choose to be single because I achieve more when I'm single.

During single times I've founded a successful metal night, karaoke night, and burlesque night. I became a scout leader and a wrestler.

During relationship times I managed to make myself poor so that "we" (I) could buy a slightly bigger TV.

3rt41 · 2016-10-26T21:04:03+00:00

I chose to be single because everytime i got involved with a woman all i got was some pussy in exchange with a big loss of money, physical and psychological healt.

I associate relationships to pain, maybe it's some post traumatic disorder of sorts, but for sure i am never looking back.

MustardNamtab · 2016-10-26T16:02:52+00:00

If that's who you are, that's great; however, I don't think the absence of a romantic partner or desire to acquire one should keep you from having goals regarding your physical, financial and general well being. Comparing yourselves to others isn't always a negative experience; it's a reasonable way to gauge your own progress - kind of like golf: You can play solo for your whole life, but still measure your improvement by comparing scores with par. You can also laugh at the over-competitive alpha male wannabes at the clubhouse who cry themselves to sleep at night because their wife is fucking her boss.

Mickey_One · 2016-10-26T19:15:34+00:00

Does anyone really "choose" to do anything? The Devil's Dictionary, by Ambrose Bierce, defines "decide" as:

To succumb to the strongest set of influences.

FoxIslander · 2016-10-26T21:08:12+00:00

...dating is pretty much like everything else we were taught by society...marriage, white picket fence in the suburbs, 2.2 kids, staying employed by the same company your entire career...it was all a bill of goods designed to keep you consuming. It has little meaning now.

TheSpiceMustAirflow · 2016-10-26T17:42:01+00:00

I hate having this fucking urge to fuck every time, I could be doing so much shit. nature fucked me good.

Club_dean69 · 2016-10-26T18:53:07+00:00

Going on dates is a waste of time

WilsonULTRA · 2016-10-26T19:15:19+00:00

When you have a leech attached to you, you perform some self surgery or you go to the hospital, it's just common sense. Some leeches wear skirts, some don't.

3G6A5W338E · 2016-10-26T22:11:40+00:00

I don't have to make a 6 figure salary to be good enough for somebody else.

I'd still recommend getting there, for your own sake.

Darth_Bicycle · 2016-10-26T18:37:55+00:00

I love this quote from Samuel Beckett's Molloy:

For in me there have always been two fools, among others, one asking nothing better than to stay where he is and the other imagining that life might be slightly less horrible a little further on.

That's kind of how it was with dating for me; When I was alone, the fool in me wanted to be with someone. When I was with some one, the other fool wanted to be alone again. Eventually the other fool just gave up.

ArthurVonL · 2016-10-26T21:10:21+00:00

Because I ain't no puppet for social status.

General_Fear · 2016-10-26T23:57:12+00:00

Life is to short to waste it being married.

Temperfuelmma · 2016-10-27T03:29:54+00:00

For me, women are useful for 3 things(Everything else I can manage) :

*Sex

*Cleaning

*Cooking

For sex, I can get a hooker, or go for a ONS.

For cooking and cleaning I can hire a maid.

So really, I fail to see why I shouldn't choose to be single.

IMO, people that do date are the one's that are lonely, have no meaningful friendships, nothing going for them or generally just a loser. Maybe it's the social status that they're aiming for or maybe it's the companionship but alas neither do I care nor do I give a fuck.

JStheHammer · 2016-10-27T12:04:06+00:00

My relationships were nothing more than more work. They never gave me any emotional support, so why bother?

Brizd00d · 2016-10-26T20:19:09+00:00

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batfish55 · 2016-10-26T23:09:00+00:00

Because I have standards and I'm not likely to find a unicorn.

Altho...frame and game can and should be applied in all aspects of your life, not just getting laid, my friend. And there's plenty to be said about RP's self-improvement. The only place I take issue with RPT is playing the mating game.

RaziJ · 2016-10-27T00:26:30+00:00

Because I want to save money and not be a broke ass ghetto yo yo yo diggity yo yo, by the time I'm 35. No seriously, saving money and living a minimalist lifestyle goes a long way. Dating obviously causes issues, you know..because most chicks want a dude with a fancy car and nice house and stuff. Yeah the good stuff, that she can show off an boost her own social status while shitting on the hubby (me)

cashmoney_x · 2016-10-27T14:30:13+00:00

It's great, isn't it? I can't say it was hell living with chicks. There were obvious upsides, but the freedom and peace of living alone is fantastic. People ask "but isn't it lonely?" Yep, absolutely. I get lonely at times. If I am not able to hang out with a friend that night I definitely feel it. It's never a fun feeling. But guess what? I felt that when I was married! Ever hear the saying "lonely in a crowd?" Well, I was sometimes lonely in the marriage and I know she was as well. What I never felt in the marriage was complete and utter freedom and now that I do I can say that it just might be the best feeling on earth. I should have done this to begin with.

Play my drums without worrying about the noise? Yep! Survival horror game in Dolby Surround at 3am with not a care in the world? Yes sir! Don't ever have to "check in" when out? Nope, not once! Don't have to check with somebody/ask for permission to do anything, ever? Nope. Don't have to spend chunks of some of your nights and weekends being nagged, whined to or yelled at? Hell ya!

They treat it like it's this sad thing when in reality it's a fucking blast half the time.

Ponopa · 2016-10-26T19:41:05+00:00

Go your own way from women, general society's expectations, the State, and the Church = freedom.

Handjobsolo1 · 2016-10-26T23:02:46+00:00

I choose to be single because dating is exhausting. I enjoy my time to myself.

This pretty much sums it all up. Dating isn't fun to me, its a pain in the ass and exhausting. I would much rather spend my free time doing stuff on my own or with friends. The returns are not worth the work. I miss sex sometimes but jerking off is just as good to me.

PaulH23 · 2016-10-27T00:29:01+00:00

I choose to be single for the same reason along with solitude because being friends with blue-pill manginas suck. It's like they also have to see how far YOU bend in order for them to accept you as their friend.

iAMTinman_Dealwithit · 2016-10-26T21:59:45+00:00

Don't get me wrong I still go out with girls and screw, but that is where it ends. I chose to be single because of the freedom. If I want to go out at 3am to a diner - no questions. If I want to go to a club and dance with several different women - no questions. If I want to lay on my floor nude and drink gin with music blasting - no questions. If I want to buy something - no questions. Travel where the hell I want with no questions.

I've found that being upfront with who you are actually makes them more attracted to you. Some will try to pin you down - don't let them.

RaziJ · 2016-10-27T00:27:33+00:00

Oh an make sure she doesn't bust your balls, if you date I say go to starbucks or something. But dont' take them on 100 dollar fancy dinners

2016-10-27T01:34:59+00:00

This may sound off. But

GaryRidgeway · 2016-10-27T06:28:34+00:00

I can see why some go monk, I really can. But it's not practical. Social conditioning is hard to break, and many of us need that female validation.

Furthermore even without societal factors, it's a perfectly natural impulse to desire companionship. Not sex, companionship. We didn't get this far by being dindus. I don't think women are just evil to the core, I think they were raised that way and their biological flaws are amplified by a toxic culture. I've mentioned in the past the differences between gynocentrism and hypergamy.

My advise would be look for foreign women, younger women, or autistic women. Something others would call exploitive. Put it this way; the more upset and offended other normal women are that you're with them, the more likely you found a unicorn.

Do not be shamed, and groom these bitches. It's the only way you're ever going to be happy. I advocate bullying the normie cunts as you can tell from my post history, but I'm saying as one man to another this is the strategy I try to undertake as I don't wake up and just enjoy being hateful and tormenting people. I'm not a sociopath. I'm just tired of the bullshit.

MajorRobotnik · 2016-10-27T09:06:12+00:00

I've always been single, the only difference is that I stopped trying and decided I'm fine with that now.

WilsonULTRA · 2016-10-27T11:14:08+00:00

http://simplyoloni.com/the-hoe-stories-everyone-on-twitter-was-talking-about/

vitalsign0 · 2016-10-27T15:42:58+00:00

I"m 6'4" and make 6 figures, can I date a hot woman?

justj6sh · 2016-10-27T16:03:20+00:00

I choose to be single because I value my passions, education, and hobbies. This has never once been considered an attractive/desired trait, and thus, I walk alone. I'll carve out my own path in life whether or not you're coming along.

vlodia · 2016-11-01T14:36:41+00:00

This is true but being single is not an excuse to not improve yourself and be at the top 20% of men, maintaining that DGAF attitude to women. It's nice to be single so you can go monk mode and become a new man, maximizing your potential and be the best of what you can can be.

Wallstreet3 · 2016-10-26T17:30:14+00:00

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TumaHaileSelassie · 2016-10-26T22:13:50+00:00

Great, another public statement of intent. This MGTOW is becoming like a queer parade.

Title	Why choose to be single?
Author	Smitty6
Upvotes	170
Comments	98
Date	October 26, 2016 3:36 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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