Can I expect it to work?

angels_fan · 2015-07-20T17:01:14+00:00

because it is against much of how I've learned to treat women

Which is exactly why it's called The Red Pill.

You've been lied to your entire life, and now you've awakened to the stark reality of life. Everything you've been told that women are attracted to is simply a lie. They are actually quite repulsed by it, although they don't typically even know it themselves.

Women are like children. They THINK they want candy for dinner and to stay up until 3am, but when they get what they want, they are tired, cranky and have a tummy ache. What they want rarely coincides with what they need, which is a strong alpha male that will lead them.

Watch what they do, not what they say. A woman will say she wants a sensitive man, who talks to her and understands her feeeeeeelz, but then is altogether dissatisfied and disgusted with this same man. A strong man is quite often called an asshole, but the attraction is undeniable.

So, yes, it can change. But it's hard fucking work on your part. You have a long road. Don't expect it to change overnight.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-07-20T16:26:27+00:00

Can I expect a better sex life if I swallow the red pill?

No, you can expect a better sex life when you swallow the red pill and work hard to become more attractive and less unattractive.

It looks weird to me, because it is against much of how I've learned to treat women.

Yes it is strange yet it works. Bitches be crazy....

I've always seen a relationship, marriage in this case, to be an adventure, balanced between two equal beings.

Because that is what they told you to think. Step out on your own and see reality. An "equal marriage" (which they all say they want) = /r/deadbedrooms. Women want you to lead the relationship from the first conversation to the last fuck. A relationship with the husband leading = lots of sex.

enfier · 2015-07-20T17:29:24+00:00

Yes, your sex life will change. If you actually do all the self improvement stuff, starting with lifting, then you will at some point in the future be having sex with a woman that is attracted to you. This is about changing you, not about changing your wife.

We can't promise that it's going to be your wife. Most women seem to come along with the plan and adapt, some will resist and give up power kicking and screaming but eventually yield but a few will just refuse to do anything.

If you've successfully run the plan, you'll have plenty of options by the time it gets to that point.

fasterpussycatdie · 2015-07-20T19:03:20+00:00

From your DB post:

she sometimes (I would say half of the time) feels pain with vaginal penetration.

If you do this right, you will be astounded at how this malady will magically without any medical intervention what-so-ever mysteriously clear itself up. Like it never happened.

Lurk. Read. Ask questions. Soon, you will be giving that woman the pounding of a life time. She will look at you like a god, and kneel at your feet. Because she's going to eagerly blow you.

theultmatecad · 2015-07-20T22:26:14+00:00

Somehow dead bedrooms became ALOT warmer to RP. I was banned from there with my first username

The_Litz · 2015-07-21T13:01:20+00:00

Welcome brother, you have come to the right place. I saw your post at Deadbedrooms the other day and thought....this guy needs MRP! But you get downvoted and banned if you suggest it over there, rather sit around the campfire and sing how shitty your life is.

I am newly unplugged and so far have found great benefits here. I was a bit sceptical at first, but it is a leap of faith to follow the advice blindly, but do it. I did and am not looking back.

Do the reading and listen to the MRP vetarans here.

stonepimpletilists · 2015-07-20T19:44:53+00:00

yeah, you shoudn't need a sales pitch. god knows every week is another DB guy who fixed his life... theres a lot of sidebar reading material

got anything better to do? no?

read, get in teh mindset, and be prepared to give a shit about yourself for once.

no_sex_last_night · 2015-07-20T20:20:50+00:00

Thanks all for the helpful comments. You convinced me and I'm ready to give this a go. I am too young to settle for bad sex. So, plan of action to start:

lift
read MMSLP
lift
read MMSLP
lift
read MMSLP
lift
read MMSLP

repeat repeat and repeat

Countpudyoola · 2015-07-20T20:43:07+00:00

So , hopefully you've started seeing why things are happening and can answer some of your own bullet point problems (at least in theory), but in case you haven't.

Yes, to the answer to your first question.

Your db points:

she has never initiated.

Feminine women hardly do and those with beta males will never. Even a year into mrp and a regular sex life , my wife gives me INVITATIONS, but I wouldn't necessarily call them initiations. Get over this. Expect to always initiate.

And she feels very uncomfortable when I show my desire. Actually, she even says that me showing my desire is a big turn down for her, so that for something to happen, I have to show a very little tiny interest and see if she is receptive to keep on, but no big fiesta; she almost never has caressed me, and my penis is toxic material, she has touched it on two occasions only;

Because she's currently not turned on by you. You may have to build value in other areas first (lifting, o.i. etc.) but also ... get in the habit of not listening to her words so much as actions. The only way this shit comes up is when you start TALKING about instead of INITIATING sex. At least stop talking about it.

she feels uncomfortable when tongue-kissing;

As in physically or mentally? Eh, who gives a shit. Maybe stop gagging her if you've got a Gene Simmons things going on.

oral sex: she gets upset if I talk about oral sex. For her, only dishonest women do such a thing. When I ask her why, she says it is disgusting. Then I point out that I always shower before going to bed, but it’s no use. Also, doing it with condoms is out of the question, it is also disgusting, even though the lube which covers the condom was thought for that too.

You see a theme going on here? TALK TALK TALK TALKING. You know when I get a bj? When I lead my wife's head down there.

It was a long road to get her to accept me going down on her. She enjoys it, orgasms from it. Still, she turns it down most of the time because it is disgusting (those are her words, of course), even though I tell her I enjoy it;

Right, so #1) you aren't getting head. Why are you running to the Y? You like it? Do it when you want. You don't? Stop doing it. Many women see it as emasculating and unmanly.

I was going to keep going on the bullets , but no. Really , you've got a lot to improve on and read. Start with yourself, the rest will follow.

How was things when you were dating? This sounds like it may have been an arranged marriage with some of her hang ups?

ford_contour · 2015-07-20T22:51:35+00:00

First, welcome. I came here from /r/deadbedrooms as well, and mine improved greatly after I started following what is now in the sidebar.

I want to address one specific question you implied:

I've always seen a relationship, marriage in this case, to be an adventure, balanced between two equal beings. And what I've read shows it is a power struggle.

It is a relationship between equal beings. Balance is a tricky word, and could be it's own post. I'm going to skip it for now.

It does not have to be a power struggle.

You need to become aware of power and femininity, and embrace power.

Roughly translated from 'The Way of the Superior Man':

Power and femininity are opposites. Any time you fail to step up to a power challenge, your wife probably steps up to pick up the slack. Any time you meet the challenge, your wife can relax into her feminine nature.

The pill teaches us that when the feminine lover accomplishes a masculine task, she is beautiful, powerful and successful, but probably not happy.

When the masculine lover accomplishes a feminine task, he is successful, satisfied and accomplished, but probably not getting laid for it.

There may be a struggle as you pick up power and learn to wield it in your masculine nature, but there also may not be.

Whether there is a struggle or not, you need to accept that the power is yours to take. This is why Thor is such an evocative story. A man may be born with power, but to truly claim it, he must learn to pick it up and wield it with wisdom and resolve. And to truly excel, he must learn to wield his power gently, even while increasing it daily.

spexer · 2015-07-21T20:41:55+00:00

I can tell you it has greatly increased my quantity. My wife is also bad in bed, and I am now working on the quality.

Look at it this way, MRP can get your wife to physically want you. That in itself will lead to better sex.

Title	Can I expect it to work?
Author	no_sex_last_night
Upvotes	5
Comments	37
Date	July 20, 2015 4:16 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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