Have to say, after finding this sub and lurking here for the last week, I tried just some of the mindset adjustments alone and things are going a lot better.

  1. More sex in the last week with wife then previously sometimes in a 2 month stretch
  2. Work people staying a out of my way a little more
  3. More social
  4. Decisions coming easier and speaking my mind a lot more
  5. Kids listening more

Going out to shoot my gun for the first time in a year. Alone. Getting flack from the wife about it but ignoring it. I have a lot more reading to do and changes to make but I wish I had found this place sooner...Much to long in Beta mode.