Shit Tests: Talking About Other Men

stonepimpletilists · 2016-12-11T18:22:05+00:00

Single moms, not even once. Ill bet money on her behaviour being a means to an end, and not desire for you

Harsh, but better you hear it now

IASGame · 2016-12-11T18:04:01+00:00

I think SampsonBrass has the right questions but he left one out.

Why is she marrying you? We are all going to die, but maybe not as soon as you are.

How much money do you have stashed, how much do you make while you can still work, and is there some insurance payout? Remember that women love opportunistically. She may not necessarily be just waiting for your inheritance, but it is something to consider.

Also, reiterating: why are you marrying this woman? If you want a nurse for your terminal state, you probably would be safer paying for one, as counting on her to continue loving you as you get weaker is a losing bet (she may stay with you out of pity etc.)

SampsonBrass · 2016-12-11T18:29:23+00:00

We need to know how sizable your estate is before we can advise.

smidevaek · 2016-12-11T18:49:46+00:00

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Persaeus · 2016-12-11T19:42:31+00:00

perhaps this is just women in general

Not even remotely true. Sure a lot of them think it, but her saying it indicates she is either low quality or doesn't respect you, or likely both.

Next time she does , ask her if she would like to fuck him. Her answer should be illustrative.

Never marry a woman that is not highly attracted to YOU. NEVER

fullyopen · 2016-12-11T19:17:33+00:00

No one else is gonna say it bluntly so I want to ask it...

Did she marry you because you'll be dead in 5 years and she'll get all your money and start over?

Girls date outside their typical all the time. Then it runs its course and ends. But instead of breaking up with you, does she have an eye on those juicy assets you have?

Pinelero · 2016-12-11T17:18:17+00:00

Bumping this post.

"Why would I care?" Well, clearly you know why YOU would care. The real question is "Why are you telling me this?" Which is rephrased as "Why does she still remember him?" Why does SHE care?

I think a lot of the best insights here are learned by trusting your observations and not what women say. What's your gut telling you here? What would you deduce from your observations that you're afraid to state out loud? Maybe you're a pasty cancer patient and she wants a tanned, ripped dude. Acknowledge that gut observation, the cancer situation is outside your control but you can make some adjustments on the margins. Frankly I wouldn't tolerate that comment ever. That's the equivalent of me saying I like a type of woman that my wife is not... can you understand the disrespect there? In front of your face? In front of company? Christ man...

If she's crushing over an effeminate actor, remember that isn't where she gets her tingles. She gets tingles from strong, consistent, providing behaviors which sounds like you're biggest shortcoming. Still, read up on "comfort tests"; they're opportunities to get her feeling considered and cared about.

But mostly it sounds like you need to figure out how to be stronger in her eyes despite the cancer. Logically you get a handicap for being so fucking strong and standing up to cancer right? But we're talking about subconscious attraction and that reptilian brain doesn't give a shit about your cancer handicap. I'd say frame up and start working on acing every shit test. You'll get your body back when you put this cancer in remission.

What else is going on?

Aaren_Augustine · 2016-12-11T17:36:19+00:00

Hey,

I'm a MRP lurker but wanted to write you.

I know about the cancer experience, it's hard. Not sure what type you have but it sounds like you are doing well.

Women have no remorse for mens weakness, even for something as bad as cancer, it gets worse with time. It's hard to accept. They almost pity you which is really tough for a man, esp a patriarch.

I'm leaning in here but she may be having a hard time with you having the disease, and comparing you to men she sees around her. She wants you be to strong again and a "top man". She might be telling you something covertly or subconsciously (unknowingly), that she misses the disease-free man you were. Despite doing well, you're not of normal looks or strength.

It's not an optimal time, as you have self esteem issues, but she's feeling that too I'm sure.

How to respond: This is definitely tough in your situation using dread, or removal of attention. I would not fuss about it, or let her see it gets to you.

Could you give her a quick smirk/chuckle, slap her ass and say "that's nice dear"?

470_2_700_nm · 2016-12-12T01:25:24+00:00

Why in fucks name would you marry a woman with kids. Sidebar fucker. Then lift.

Pull the plug on this bitch.

Title	Shit Tests: Talking About Other Men
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Date	December 11, 2016 4:25 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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