Yep, you heard me right. Right off the bat, I'm gonna get dozens of responses about "get out of her frame, bro" just from this title.

And that's part of the problem. Too many people in here commenting and judging while only reading the surface of a post or comment.

Every time someone mentions their wife in their post or comment, the "frame brigade" jumps in and shits idiocy all over the place. This idiocy is usually (from reading people's comment history) based on being very new to TRP/MRP, or just being a fucking retard. At the root level, it's someone trying to make themselves look good by spewing a few words from the side bar, or regurgitating what someone said to them when they first got here.

When guys first get here, it's because their relationship pendulum is so far to her side they need help. This help starts by forcing the pendulum as far to the other side as possible: STFU, DGAF, dread, etc. These are meant to give immediate momentum to the pendulum in favor of the guy. It is an attempt at pushing toward the other extreme: ignore your wife, and worry about you.

It's hands down the best advice at this point of first swallowing the pill. You can't expect the pendulum to go from one extreme to a happy middle ground directly. You have to swing that fucker hard to the other side.

But at some point you can't keep ignoring her. Even later parts of dread expect you to evaluate HER, and make decisions on extending the level, moving on to the next level, or backing down. You have to recognize shit tests, understand what sort it is, and respond appropriately. If you're ignoring her, how the fuck are you going to pass it.

So you guys that want to to a drive-by-get-out-of-her-frame comment, stop and really understand what you are reading, or just keep fucking driving and stop clogging things up with you the 10th fucking comment like the one you're about to drop. You aren't adding anything and no one thinks you're cool for saying it.

 

Smooth sailing, fuckers