Text game.

whinemoreplease · 2015-04-03T13:17:59+00:00

This is one of those times when I know it's newbs leading newbs. The advice is so bad because it completely ignores fundamentals.

Unless your text game is solid and congruent, don't do it.

Rule of thumb is you can't build attraction through text, but you sure can kill it. Text messages can be interpreted however they want. That's why beta orbiters are satisfied by the smallest amount of effort from women. It's pretty much the lowest amount of effort that a person can put in. Typical advice for new guys is to keep it to logistics "hey, I'm coming home. wear something nice and be ready". If you really want to try, pick up and get numbers from random chicks to practice.

Man, imagine if instead of being completely available for 12 hours at a time, you were completely unavailable. You'd demonstrate value (hey look, you're busy and important at work with things to do), and soft dread (hey.. you're unavailable, who knows who's hitting on you at work). Nothing kills attraction like complete availability. Besides, you should be busy at work (you are a high value employee right?) and the time you do make for her should be a favor, which means she the things she's sending you damn well be better worth the time you're taking to read it.

Now, if you really wanted to maintain buying temperature while you're at work, get snapchat and exchange sexy pictures which silly captions. At the very least, sending some cleaving requires effort on her part. Sexual innuendo is pretty legit.

spexer · 2015-04-03T14:38:58+00:00

I tend to let the hamster do the work for me, so I follow the guideline of being aloof, mysterious and distant.

So maybe I would send one simple text like "Man I am so pumped right now - I could fuck the world! When I get done conquering today be ready for me to come knockin..."

The key thing is I am not praising her. I am not putting her on a pedestal that other suggested texts do. I am not complimenting her.

I am placing an expectation - giving an order even. i am painting myself in a very good light. I am also offering a bit of dread- so her hamster will want to comply and even text back all sexy (or else I might fuck the world).

Set the stage - not the pedestal.

theultmatecad · 2015-04-04T00:54:08+00:00

How about finishing the books, start lifting and not sending your wife any messages from work. Instead work hard and get ahead. Or at least make her believe you are getting ahead at work and are too busy to validate her all day.

I get the sense you are new and want to improve things via communication.

You won't be successful. All your gains will come from unspoken communications

CaptainWasHere · 2015-04-03T12:46:39+00:00

Know that while we think about sex 25/8, she has to be reminded about it. So don't just dive in until you know she's is a good place as opposed to slammed with work, kids, chores, etc.

Texting starts at home. Send her out the door with a slap on the ass, passionate kiss, etc. Something physical for her to remember.

Feel her out. Start with her day. Is she in a good mood?

If it's negative, then keep it neutral or test lightly.

If it's positive then start stronger. "I can't stop thinking about how great you felt last night." "Baby. Can't stop thinking about you and that sexy body."

Then escalate from there paralleling your actual sex life. Don't let your texts go too many levels more hardcore than reality. One step higher is great, bc it'll set the scene for a new adventure.

Remember, if your SMV is down and you text hard then you're coming off like an asshole. If your SMV is up, she wants you to dominate.

Everyones style is different. Here are some that I like:

You fucked me so good last night. We're doing more of that tonight. I'm going to ravage you.
Are you in a meeting? Imagine me next to you, sliding my hands across your skirt. My fingers slowly slip under your panties and caress your clit. Can you feel my fingers massage your tight pussy?
If I were there, I'd come up from behind you, pick you up by your throat, throw you on your desk and fuck you until you beg me to cum.
I can't stop thinking about how great your mouth feels. I wish you were at my desk right now, on your knees slowly sucking me. I'm hard just thinking about it.

TrainingTheBrain · 2015-04-03T14:37:59+00:00

I keep it to the point and brief. I don't have time to have a conversation via text or 'chit chat' about bullshit as I'm busy (and you should be too).

Sexual, funny, arrogant, teasing, and brief. Leave a lot to the imagination, give her enough to get the gears in motion.

Last night was wild, round 2 will be even better
I can't stop thinking of how crazy you were last night
I'm fucking you on the deck tonight
You me merlot bobs burgers and blowjobs tonight?

I won't reply for the rest of the day or only to direct questions that are time sensitive and need a response.

You're playing chess with the Hamster everyday. She is your opponent, you need to out maneuver and make her want to fuck your brains out.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-04-03T16:53:31+00:00

Text game primarily works when you have not lost attraction. Text game does not work well if you don't have attraction. For most of us this means text game is a very small part of our game because text game does NOT build attraction very well, if at all.

MgFeSi · 2015-04-03T20:04:33+00:00

How you actually are doing it.

http://www.reddit.com/r/AdviceAnimals/comments/31avvg/its_sad_but_true/

TheGreasyPole · 2015-04-03T12:21:45+00:00

I just try to keep them light and flirty. The idea is to keep pumping her with jolts of dopamine through the day, then by the evening she's "ripe" for whatever nefarious plan you have going on :)

I generally start with a simple "how YOU doin' Mrs TGP ?" And gauge her response from there.

If the reply is "the kids are a nightmare. X just smeared baked beans all over the dining room" type reply, then I sympathize by reply and basically just figure "today is not my day. Come back tomorrow"

If she gives me a reply that indicates a bit of interest in playing, say, "I'm good. What's going on at work ?" Then I start the flirting.

A bit of light teasing, or maybe pushing a boundary or two ("send me a pic of your tits"), just generally trying to have a bit of fun with it.

Sometimes it doesn't work, just be friendly and practice OI. It's cool. Don't want her to feel pressured to participate.

Sometimes she is clearly getting into it and enjoying it... Then ramp up, up, up.

You are better off thinking up your own style and jokes. Using others won't be as natural as using your own and may come across stilted. The good thing about texting is anyone can appear fun and witty.

Remember, she doesn't know you got her text an hour ago, and have been working out the perfect reply all that time, all she'll see is "oh, he finally just got my text. Lol, that's a funny reply. He really can snap back those one liners". This is an alpha display.... Eloquence and humour are alpha qualities.., she don't know you're "cheating" by having a damn good think before you write it.

Similarly, medium size gaps between texts are a good thing ... 1/2 hours or hours... Gives her time to anticipate a reply and get excited. Let's her hamster whirr a bit "why hasn't he replied yet ? Maybe he's busy. Maybe I offended him. Maybe I'm not being slutty enough. Better be nicer and sluttier in my next message"

Hope this helps. Just try stuff out and have fun. The best way to get this, or anything RP, working for you is to take actions and experiment with it. Do this enough and you'll find out what works for you and the Mrs.

RedCML · 2015-04-07T08:13:49+00:00

I advise you don't play the sexting game. If she starts it, then participate with leading questions. Things like:

M: ~~Wear the red panties.~~ What color panties will you wear for me?

Pretty much whatever she responds with, neg it.

F: The red ones with the lace. ;)

M: ~~You won't wear them for long!~~ Eh, those are old. What else is hidden in the drawer?

Sexting should be her fantasy, not yours.

Title	Text game.
Author	Ballzachs17
Upvotes	6
Comments	29
Date	April 3, 2015 11:45 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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