I'm trying to make a case to someone about why DV and emotional abuse against men is trivialised. Once again on said (for now anon) blog, I'm finding that it's OK for women and especially young women) to say what the hell they like about men, and have some hug box around them. For the most part men are scared to share their own experience and if they say anything male-centric, will only say something vague like "this issue hurts both men and women". They feel uncomfortable sharing their own personal experience. The men also get praise for not talking about the problem but saying something like "this keeps happening to me so it's obviously my fault I need to change" or "I should have got out sooner"

I understand that the Duluth Model operates off patriarchy theory, which assumes as first premise that all men are oppressors and all women are victims (lol), but beyond the implications of this assumption I don't have specific details of how it could be used against him. Thanks :)