Decentering women

Professional-You2968 · 2024-12-30T07:50:53+00:00

It means they will remove themselves from the dating market, it's a net positive.

TubularBrainRevolt · 2024-12-30T11:36:59+00:00

Isn’t this called MGTOW? It already exists.

lifemagiccat · 2024-12-30T09:02:27+00:00

When you're disillusioned with women, spirituality/meditation can be your center.

Embarrassed-Tune9038 · 2024-12-30T12:03:52+00:00

For men, it is MGTOW, men going their own way.

blackjustin · 2024-12-30T10:37:36+00:00

By “decentering” they mean to take men out of the middle or bring them down a peg. This could be a passive insult or simply not calling on male students with their hands raised.

And yes, we should focus on it and make it a part of our regular lives. Not only should we men focus on being our best selves but we should also not focus on sex so much that we can’t tell them the truth. How many times have you been listening to a woman say something wholly unimpressive and pretended to be interested in an effort to get laid? Or heard one of them rant about something absolutely asinine to keep the peace? For most of us, the answer is “too many”.

Quite honestly, there are a lot of women who think too highly of themselves simply based on the attention they received - which is something they didn’t earn and a skill they didn’t learn. I’m not saying we should knock them off a pedestal for accomplishments, but I am saying if they’re acting like their top dog because of their gender studies degree, we should let them know they’re over rated and it’s a turn off. If it’s gender studies or something along those lines, but they’re actually sane, rational human beings, I let it go.

If I have to sit through another haiku reading, a poorly written letter, or an amateur article that will never be published because the grammar is trash and the story doesn’t make sense while everyone applauds and tells the woman how brave she is, I’ll fucking vomit.

Someone has to be rational and tell these people they’re average if not under performing.

Salamadierha · 2024-12-30T13:39:58+00:00

That'd be MGTOW. Which iirc got banned for being a hate group somehow.

Mysterious-Citron875 · 2024-12-30T09:54:32+00:00

Hard to forget women when they hate, dehumanize, shame, and objectify you just for existing.

CauliflowerActual178 · 2024-12-30T14:22:14+00:00

I totally agree that is needed to decenter woman. But we need to talk what it means. Everyone here it's trying to not be crushed by the today society. For me decenter woman is to refuse my gender role of provider for women. I refuse to date a woman that doesn't bring something positive to my life besides her pussy... If sex is the only thing she can give me I'd rather prefer a real professional prostitute, not an overpriced rookie that wants a longlife payment in various benefits I can provide her.

walterwallcarpet · 2024-12-30T07:59:40+00:00

It's long overdue time for decenter women. There's no decent ones about.

SarcasticallyCandour · 2024-12-30T13:40:06+00:00

We need yo decenter white women in things like DV, child custody, divorce, biology, healthsci, teaching, psychology, etc as they have turned these fields into being all about themselves.

If you look at teaching sub on reddit its packed with feminist bigots asking how to decenter boys in school and how to focus on girls.

The media and academia is all centred on white females now non stop.

FineDingo3542 · 2024-12-30T08:56:50+00:00

This should not even be a question. You shoukd already be doing this

Nudist--Buddhist · 2024-12-30T15:12:25+00:00

MGTOW was a thing even before the decentering men talk

Argentarius1 · 2024-12-30T08:03:50+00:00

They mean it as an act of hostility so no I don't want to do the same.

Ego73 · 2024-12-30T16:14:05+00:00

Men shouldn't decenter women. Don't you know it means you're a misognynist if you attempt to not have your life revolve around them?

juuglaww · 2024-12-30T16:21:55+00:00

When women say “decenter men” they mean not obsessing over locking down the guys they want to be with.

The vast majority of men are already decentered in women’s lives.

valendenicola24 · 2024-12-30T08:25:31+00:00

I'm a woman. I've seen some answers in the comments and i don't agree.

Decentering men is a lifestyle that involves unlearning patriarchal norms and making choices for oneself, without being influenced by society. It does not mean that men are not important in life or in society, but it redirects the focus to one's own narratives, experiences and aspirations.

I have never wanted to get married or have children, but society always told me that this is what I had to do. Decentering men from my life allows me to focus on my goals and improving myself. It allows me to focus on my friendships and my family and my community. It allows me to put myself first.

Maybe i didn't need to decenter men to achieve those things, sure, but i think there're different ways of doing things.

Title	Decentering women
Author	EdgarStClair
Upvotes	94
Comments	30
Date	December 30, 2024 7:44 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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