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Double Standards

Sm4llM01st

October 13, 2018
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Title Double Standards
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Sm4llM01st

Upvotes 1043
Comments 60
Date October 13, 2018 7:43 PM UTC
(7 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/9nwn30/double_standards/
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[–]haterator 112 points113 points114 points 7 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link

When I was 22 I met this girl online and we hit off pretty good and we decided to meet up.. when we meet we hit it right off the bat and I start getting real feelings for her and I thought she was feeling me too.. turns out I was too "fat" for her and she tried to hook me up with her fat friend.. was never so humiliated in my life... my height and weight?? 6'3 245lbs.. I was just a lil bit chubby... some women are cruel when it comes to overweight men.

[–]BelievesInGod 28 points29 points30 points 7 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

Lmao..... 245 at 6'3 is not even fat at all..... people seem to forget how much height affects things

[–]haterator 13 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yeah just slighty chubby.. I played high school football and was in reasonable shape.. she wanted some fucking adonis apparently.

[–]Ruri 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Apparently perceptions have become so skewed in America that being medically obese is still not “fat”. OP is definitely more than just “a little chubby” lmfao.

[–]BelievesInGod 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Good thing i'm not american! or your statement would be true!

[–]Ruri 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wherever you are, medically obese is still fat. End of discussion.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

he could have had little muscle and more fat

[–]jwinf843 20 points21 points22 points 7 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Not be a hater but 245lbs at 6'3 is actually in the obese range. OP may carry it well but if you want to check for yourself you can.

[–]iFapToEveryDownvote 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Not be a hater but 245lbs at 6'3 is actually in the obese range.

No it isn't.. Albert Pujols is around that size and not obese whatsoever.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

"no one is obese because super athletes are 300+lbs and not obese!".

[–]iFapToEveryDownvote 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

"no one is obese because super athletes are 300+lbs and not obese!".

I don't think you understand how height affects weight. Albert isn't the only person who is 6'3 and around 240 that is not obese... This is not abnormal or "rare".

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

The guy said he was chubby lmao. He isn't a athlete by his own words. So he is either chubby with a slightly muscular build or delusional about how fat he is. And ya it is fairly rare. Most people that are 6'3 240 do no look like Albert.

[–]iFapToEveryDownvote 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

And ya it is fairly rare

No it isn't, unless you like to make up assumptions about people and think they are obese just because of their weight. When you don't even take into account their height and possible muscular tone.

I see this everywhere on online forums too. Someone says their height and weight, and they get instantly put down. It's quite sad really

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Considering how many people are obese/overweight it's a safe bet. Considering how many people that call themselves "curvy" or "chubby" or "thick" and are actually just obese it makes it a safe bet.

[–]iFapToEveryDownvote 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Considering how many people that call themselves "curvy" or "chubby" or "thick" and are actually just obese it makes it a safe bet.

It's a safe bet, but it's also a negative assumption to make about people imo. Unless they said 6'3, 350+ lbs or something then yeah. But I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, as should you!

[–]Minsc_and_Boo_ 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

BMI does not take into account muscle mass and body fat percentile. it is a crass tool, used for large scale analysis only. 6`3 and 245lbs can be a very muscular guy with 12% fat and visible abs.

[+]BitsAndBobs3041 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah if you're as big as a guy who took a triple dose of Venom, like Bane, maybe

[–]Minsc_and_Boo_ 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Im 61, 220lbs, 16% body fat and I have average genetics, and I can see my abs. If I had the genetics and frame of an athlete, those 2 more inches would make those extra 10kgs no problem.

[–]ImALoneWolfBaby 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Man id love to be around 230-240. Im 6'3 and 181 and feel so small!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude I’m 5’10 and 280. You’re skinny compared to me. You may be a bit husky but that’s not fat. Fat is when you can’t see your own dick

[–][deleted] 35 points36 points37 points 7 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link

As a chubby person who used to be fat,this is true.

The rejection hurt so much,I decided to stop approaching girls and trying to impress them.After that,life has never been so great.😊

[+]Ijatsu1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (15 children) | Copy Link

This is coping mechanism, not problem solving.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Yeah,I know.But it works so well.Its is pretty good

[–]Ijatsu 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

No amount of cope would make me feel great alone. I don't know what sort of validation you were seeking in women, but average men opting out of dating and sexual life is exactly what feminists/society wants you to do.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Sure,Let them do that to me,I don't mind.They are helping me in the long term

Life without sex is great.You get to enjoy life for what it is and not worrying about whether a girl digs you or not

[–]Ijatsu 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

and not worrying about whether a girl digs you or not

That's probably the reason why it never worked.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

It's not that.I won't allow her to play me like a monkey with Hard to get even though she doesn't have a BF.Screw her

[–]Ijatsu 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

And I guess you were friendzoned a lot?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

😂😂 Yeas,A lot of times

Even she wouldn't respond to my texts. Ain't nobody got time 4 that.She busy playing hard to get and wanting me to play her monkey games?? I'm over that and those days.

[–]Ijatsu 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

The friendzone happens typically when the man is sexually inhibited and fails to form a bond based on seduction and sexual tension.

friendzone shouldn't happen, it should be hit or miss. And it'll miss a lot, but friendzone's success rate will always be 0.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You should try online dating. There is a surprising amount of women out there who dig chubby guys.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

😂😂 Online Dating is the same thing.

You should see what we see on tinder, There are girls as young as 18 looking for rich betaz.I never got a response even though I swiped right all of them.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tinder is not online dating. It's an app for fucking random strangers.

[+]Aivias1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

No there is not.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, then I guess I don't exist.

[–]DestinyWaits 58 points59 points60 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

But women have a natural predisposition to be fat, whereas men have no excuse!

/s

[–]ithinkoutloudtoo 27 points28 points29 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

She has a thyroid condition which makes it hard for her to lose weight. But in reality, she lives a very sedentary lifestyle filled with eating cake, ice cream, soda, chocolate, fast food, and hasn’t exercised since gym class in high school.

[–]maxcorrice 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Whereas he stopped eating most of the time because of self consciousness and has a metabolism so slow he could run a marathon and gain weight

[–]qtyapa 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have thyroid condition and it's very hard for me to lose my weight, that doesn't stop me from working out and trying to be in shape though. It took me a while to realize why my body changed that way.

[–]bubby963 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What they always for get with this one is women can get away with looking good with a higher fat ratio than men can. For men it builds rpund the stomach so it never look good

[–]xNOM 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women have a natural disposition to behave like emotional children.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points23 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Didn't you know all women are inherently worth of love and admiration? That's the difference, they deserve the best of us us, we have to earn the best of them.

/s

[–]RedCaio 10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Me: “this is especially gratifying since it’s coming from a woman” Me: [takes a closer look] “oh...”

[–]Ultramegasaurus 21 points22 points23 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women also claim men are supremely cruel when it comes to beauty standards because they do not prefer obese women. Meanwhile men are judged extremely harshly for random genetic flaws like height, baldness or chin/jaw structure by women and no one bats an eye.

[–]BUNGROB_SQUAREMAN 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The foundational concept of feminism if that they want to enjoy all of the same privileges that men do ( without any of the responsibilities) while still being treated as a delicate precious little flower.

[–]Bensonian170 45 points46 points47 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I rejected a hufflepuff today. God she was portly. No thanks.

[–]goodmod[M] 21 points22 points23 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Although this is a good post, its title does not say enough about its subject. This forces people to click and read before they can decide whether they are interested. It also makes searching impossible.

If everyone did this, the subreddit would become unusable.

So please don't do it in future. Take the time to describe your link, and save the time of hundreds of other people.

When making a title, it's best to assume the reader doesn't know what you're talking about - but don't go overboard with every detail. Then check if there are any words you can cut out without losing any important information.

[–]anillop 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well to be honest I know an awful lot of fat guys who think that women should love them for who they are rather than how they look as well.

[–]Tatithetatu 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Who cares? Fat women get rejected by men too. You can't force people to be attracted to you even though they aren't. You wanna bust some nut, lose weight.

[–]teerling17 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fat right activists and feminists are the female incels lmfao.

[–]vizz13 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Nothing says equality more than telling a “body positive” fat women to hit the gym

[–]xNOM 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's not even about the gym. It's just "stop eating crap." The gym has very little to do with your long-term weight.

[–]vizz13 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That too

[–]hussainc4s 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sure whatever can u bend over now 😈

[–]gaz96 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Eh, everybody loves some body

[–]redsenior 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fat guys are funny, fat girls are gross.

[–]sumfacilispuella -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

not sure what feminist utopia you guys all live in where fat women arent rejected by men

[–]Ultramegasaurus 11 points12 points13 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Fat women can easily find sex and relationships. Their main dating woe, like most women's, is finding a guy who's both richer and hotter than her and willing to commit.

[–]MasterDex 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They are but not in the same way. All you gotta look at is the amount of fat porn available to see that many men are perfectly ready to chow down on a bigger woman.

For references, see www.plumperpass.com and www.xlgirls.com

[–]bkrugby78 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I tend to agree. Even fat guys ( like myself, have standards). I'm not putting my dick into someone who weighs more than me.

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