Getting caught cheating is humiliating??

Grailums · 2013-11-27T16:50:47+00:00

"I was dating one of the guys for about 18 months but I thought the relationship was over, so I had started seeing the other guy."

So just "thinking" is grounds for going out and doing something like this huh?

"Well I thought she was 18. I mean look at her, doesn't she look 25 to you?"

This has never gotten a man out of a statutory rape charge.

slimydogs · 2013-11-27T11:54:01+00:00

Not directly talking about the video but getting caught cheating is humiliating - you've done something very, very wrong and now everyone else has seen it and can shun you for it.

Doesn't mean you get to take up the victim narrative however.

kurokabau · 2013-11-27T12:46:47+00:00

I have noticed that You tube has a double standard. If a man is humiliated they leave the video up. If a woman is humiliated they take the video down.

Liveleak has a link http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=448_1379983937

Bartab · 2013-11-27T11:15:45+00:00

It's just good sense to record a confrontation like this. Otherwise these two men would be up on abuse charges. With a video, no such claim can be made.

Steampunk_Moustache · 2013-11-27T15:06:21+00:00

Flip the genders and this article would be full of cheering and praise for two brave young women putting a filthy, lecherous man in his place.

chevalier_d_eon · 2013-11-27T10:29:01+00:00

I thought they all came out of the videos looking like douches. If the guys had approached her in a calmer manner and not been so abusive with their remarks then they could have taken the higher ground. As a result of this video, in my eyes, they all looked awful. It was a super cringe.

2013-11-27T11:58:09+00:00

I can imagine the pain felt by both the men to know they were betrayed like that. Also, she could've risked catching an STI and passed it on to her unaware boyfriend which pisses me off. Perhaps they could have dealt with it better though.

Edit: Word

2013-11-27T12:37:05+00:00

Teenager drama.

The men accuse her of cheating on them and she is repeatedly called a "slut" and a "b****" by one

Why is one censored, but not the other? Or none.

mrwhibbley · 2013-11-27T17:04:41+00:00

What I dont get is that this video was posted 2 months ago and is just now resurging. As for being humiliated, I do not believe she should recieve threats, but she is the one that cheated. She is the one that got caught. I think it is funny that people that get caught cheating try to make the person they cheated on look like an asshole just ebcuase they caught them. If I was suspecting a girlfriend or wife or cheating you bet your ass I would be searching her things, reviewing her phone records and so on. My personal, financial and emotional well being depends on it. Now if I find nothing after a couple days of searching, then move on. This is not a carte blanche order to invade privacy forever. But go with your instincts people. I have been cheated on in the past and this is how you catch them. The cheater is the one who lied, broke the agreement and violated your trust. Remember that. Regardless of which gender you are. And I am tired of women that cheat using excuses to justify their cheating. Men cheat, women cheat. They are all scumbags in my view.

2013-11-27T23:37:43+00:00

I don't disagree with what the guys did, but they shouldn't have made a video and posted it on youtube. That has the potential to cause a lot of damage to someones life. Go confront someone, some people deserve. Just don't air your dirty laundry like that.

tjmburns · 2013-11-27T15:20:59+00:00

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Title	Getting caught cheating is humiliating??
Author	zoidalicious
Upvotes	31
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Date	November 27, 2013 10:07 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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