How can we make MR practical?

pilotlet · 2023-08-21T12:33:44+00:00

We live in gynocentrism, where the pussy rules and there are pussy idolaters who will defend the immaculateness of this system of injustice and exploitation.

The problem is that for everyone, being MRM or championing MRM is a very fragmented issue. There are those who believe that MRM is for couple dynamics and problems; others who have an almost autistic obsession with tradcons and others that approach the problem from a pill or the purest evolutionary biology.

Nothing can be brought to real life and action when we leave a lot of bullshit behind and come together under a common manifesto. But, this is a war of interests, I repeat.

For example, a post about "sexual dynamics and female hypocrisy" will get a lot of views and interactions, but, that a has been divorceraped not so many. You know why? Because many live in the hope of finding the "ideal woman" while defending a masculinist order of relationships and do not want to get out of there. They only visit this subreddit for that only.

Ok-Yogurtcloset7394 · 2023-08-21T14:10:33+00:00

Back at the time when feminism was starting to evolve it was also just discussion and literature. with how things are looking right now thr situation will get more and more severe to the point at which enough men will speak for this. I think it just needs time and we should keep encouraging to openly speak up about this. we need to get rid of cancle culture though.

griii2 · 2023-08-21T18:30:13+00:00

I have started r/SystemicSexism and r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic to catalogue evidence. No emotions, just pure facts.

Feel free to contribute.

mohyo324 · 2023-08-21T14:02:55+00:00

yes we can don't listen to anybody who says we will never have a chance feminism was exactly like this at the beginning and then they became what you see today

Stairwayunicorn · 2023-08-21T12:23:42+00:00

promote being a father figure to children, and good posture.

walterwallcarpet · 2023-08-21T12:23:49+00:00

Men's sex drive isn't going away anytime soon. It's the bedrock of the female business model. The real power in any intimate relationship is held by the party less driven by a need for sex. Puts them firmly in charge, the ultimate power behind the facade of the patriarchal myth, the ones who make all the big decisions, the ones who spend the money, malleable workers who keep wage costs down, tax revenues up, and contribute to the spiral of rising asset prices. Generally, they're blind to how the system uses them, but they don't care, so long as they're secure and comfortable, propped up by welfare safety nets, and the concern of society at large. So - if we can break the system of the besotted led by the blind, we'll be making progress.

elebrin · 2023-08-21T14:38:39+00:00

We need to work to create and maintain resources for men.

First, we need lists and timelines for men's health. How often should you go to a doctor? How do you find a GP? Do you need a urologist? Men are also the most likely to end up with workplace injuries, so creating and maintaining resources to help with that in a way that isn't derogatory would be wonderful.

Second, we need legal resources for men: male-friendly divorce lawyers and even just lawyers generally.

Third, we need to spread info about male exclusive spaces. There are some that exist still but they are more historic artifacts rather than legit resources for men these days. We have the power to get involved and make them useful to us.

ERiC_693 · 2023-08-21T16:11:20+00:00

There are mens sheds and mens DV services forming.

What men need to do is set up reading/literacy classes for boys. Thats one of the biggest issues we face is women dominating university. Men issues are blocked from discussion on campuses and courses like psychology are filling with feminist doctrines. Even male psychs in APA can see it and are pointing it out. So boys' education is one of the main issues today imo.

throwaway0408800 · 2023-08-22T04:25:53+00:00

Stop framing it as 'anti-feminism'. Men's rights are not diametrically opposed to women's. Don't give opponents a pretense to demonize the MR cause.

1837-1980 · 2023-08-21T17:11:42+00:00

I have the perfect idea. Personally next year for men’s mental health awareness month in June I want to put together a group that is able to talk about issues they are struggling with. I want to hand out papers at my college and set this up. I think this is something that everybody could do, it’s just gonna take a lot of planning and figuring out how you are going to manage it. You might already know this, but men do not process normal therapy sessions the way women do. Woman do well with sitting down and talking, but if you observe men in confrontations they resolve emotions very physical ways. Creating a session where a everyone is able to talk about their struggles, but move at the same time would be ideal. Also, you want an objective that you’re trying to reach if you’re going to do this. That is why I am waiting so long to start this group. I need to study up more psychology and what best fits men in that area then figure out how I’m going to work it into the group. It is probably going to be easier for you guys if you do it because you guys are men so they’re gonna trust it more. I might struggle with it more just because of distrust since I’m a woman.

1837-1980 · 2023-08-21T17:13:37+00:00

Another huge thing is do not just talk to MRs about these issues. Go talk to people who don’t know. For example, I’m going to be taking a communications class at my college and they have assignments where you’re giving a speech. From what my friend told me when she went to that class you get to choose what you talk about. Things like that are perfect opportunities to bring awareness.

Aluto7 · 2023-08-21T18:07:33+00:00

It's crucial that we make our approach and communication palatable and appealing to the general public. How we come across is important, so how we deliver our message and present ourselves is important.

1837-1980 · 2023-08-21T17:27:12+00:00

Oh my gosh, you could have support days! You could pick out a day every month or maybe every week if you want to and gather with your friends. You can talk about each other’s struggles that you go through, but it could be everyone’s assignment to pick someone in the group and research to find ways to help them. You could say, “do you want comfort or solutions”. That way if the person just wants to be listened to your just able to comfort them, but if they say solutions then you can brainstorm ideas and do research. Now since I think about it, it’s kind of a normal hang out except for the research part!😃

😱😱😱EVEN BETTER! There was this guy that lived up in the mountains. He said a lot of men would go out alone and scream at the top of their lungs to get all the anger out. You guys could get a bro get together in the mountains and scream. It works I’ve done it.

Title_IX_For_All · 2023-08-21T15:02:50+00:00

We have found it helpful to assist people improve their individual lives or professionals in the trenches working on these issues. It's harder work and doesn't get the clicks/views of culture war stuff, but it's more directly impactful.

SpicyTigerPrawn · 2023-08-21T21:48:22+00:00

I was brought up as a feminist but eventually they went too far for me and their growing extremism was permanently exposed. I would imagine millions of other men are on a similar path or soon will be. I would like to see a bigger movement toward coordinated activism but I get the feeling this movement is still trying to figure out where to start.

Title	How can we make MR practical?
Author	SKWings007
Upvotes	35
Comments	16
Date	August 21, 2023 12:09 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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