How do you talk to a feminist and make them listen? For example, they kinda just put their fingers in their ears and yell "lalalalalala" (metaphorically) and you can't always walk away from them. So how do you say something that will make them listen? Like for example a specific phrase that will make them listen like "the wage gap is real" or others. Also, how do you respectfully talk to a feminist in a debate, in public, related to feminism? And how do you deal with some false accusations that sometimes just happen out of nowhere because the feminist got destroyed so hard that she accuses of rape or something?

If you can't tell, I'm basically trying to ask how do you deal with different things that can happen in a debate against feminists? If you think something else might happen that I did not list, feel free to put it in the comments. Also dropping out of the debate is not an option, and since this is an imaginary debate, you can spend as much time planning on what to say and writing a speech or whatever.