I heard earlier that /r/femradebates was moderated with a feminist angle so never really bothered with it. But recently I had a look and now that I've been subbed for a month or two I must say it feels like a great place. The discussion is always polite and constructive from what I can see (don't know if this is due to good moderation or good userbase) and you'll find lots of feminists who accept the MRM and don't spew vitriol at it. In fact I don't see a lot of controversy at all in the sub. MRA's and feminists seem to get along and agree on many things, and constructively debate the things they don't.

After being so used to this uber-polarized vitriolic "battle" between the MRM and feminism this feels like a breath of fresh air. We all know it can be tiring in the long run to expose yourself to all the vitriol. So my advice is: go check out /r/femradebates, get some hope, and feel a bit less depressed about the world. Go on!