So, I am the oppressor.

g1455ofwater · 2022-07-27T06:15:03+00:00

Society doesn't like the inconvenient male victim and will punish them for being a victim.

Strong-Menu-1852 · 2022-07-27T15:50:22+00:00

The men who committed 70% of suicides and the rest of us disabled and abused guys... the truth is they abuse us because they know we can't fight back. The courts and society's monkey pulpit are the same as the girl's boyfriends who just let the girl do whatever she wants. Idk what to tell you dude, cause the black pill on this one is 100% real

oflbtbs · 2022-07-27T06:06:40+00:00

I'd consider a concealed carry permit

Whateverhappens00 · 2022-07-27T11:08:50+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. How cruel these woman has been towards you. I had fir years struggling with fatigue, dizziness probably do to longterm stress. No woman in my life, really showed any real care, and not even my son's mom. I had just managed to keep fighting, also because I'm a father to an amazing son. The bottom line is, there is no real room for men's suffering. Daily I'm thinking of suicide, because of the suffering and loneliness, but I'm fighting to stay around for my son

UnconventionalXY · 2022-07-27T14:35:50+00:00

People are irrationally afraid of difference and if they don't reason the actual risk to themselves, will generally react with fight or flight, most commonly fight if society doesn't oppose them. Since women have difficulty reasoning instead of reacting to their emotions, and men are so different from themselves, they are the most likely to attack, or persuade a male to attack for them. On the other hand, men are not only more similar, but they likely reason that a disabled man is no threat, except when egged on by a woman who holds his sexuality hostage and forced to choose between losing sex with her or hurting another man who does not deserve it.

This doesn't justify or excuse their behaviour, just explains why it happens.

Life is still cruel for many humans because we are not as civilised as we like to believe and civilisation requires higher order reasoning, not emotional knee jerk reactions. It's why society is heading towards collapse if women are allowed to continue to get away with unreasoned emotional responses that have terrible consequences, when they will never take responsibility. In many respects, women are acting like children of permissive parents, allowed to get away with "it seemed like a good idea at the time" and blaming someone else for it. We should not be giving children power over others.

Having said that, the only defense available at the current state of civilisation is to grow a thick skin and learn to shed water off a ducks back: sticks and stones ...

You can't be demeaned, talked down to or otherwise oppressed by mere words if you don't interpret them in the way intended. Take what they say and interpret the words in terms of what they say about them: frightened, uncivilised creatures, kicking someone whilst they are down is not an endearing quality to anyone and far uglier and more dangerous on the inside than any external blemish.

Eliot_Sontar · 2022-07-27T15:27:24+00:00

i find it stupid that women can make fun of men endlessly for being a atom under 6ft but if a woman is so large she cant stand up and you refuse o date her for that your a "body shamer" even though in most cases people are fat cause they cant put down a cheese burger pickup a salad and eat that and then go run while being short is mostly genetics and like .1 percent diet and food.

NeuteredZeus · 2022-07-27T15:54:45+00:00

I am so sorry to hear about this. My heart goes out to you, seriously. It's not much but if you need someone to chat with please feel free to shoot me a message. Stay strong 💪

NovaSierra123 · 2022-07-27T07:07:25+00:00

Having had their pro-social, kind, intelligent boyfriends just kick me for the fun of it

Now I know much of the criticism in this sub goes towards toxic feminists, but I think OP reminded us that there are some selfish men out there who will take any opportunity they have to mistreat other men to thin out the herd. Toxic feminism works hand in hand with toxic masculinity.

glodde · 2022-07-27T16:12:57+00:00

This is awful that this is your life and day to day experience. No human being should experience this. I hope karma comes back to these people.

OnePieceFanBoi1 · 2022-07-27T19:12:38+00:00

Your chadness is just too much I guess.

mechajutaro · 2022-07-27T20:06:04+00:00

So, I am the oppressor

This reminds me of a recent interview with the incomparable Jon Rauch awhile back https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFVRRP-J9mI&t=1770s The situation men have been facing not just now, but for quite a long time is similar to what Rauch describes between 14:13-17:27 We've been taught by MRAs that society hates men because it's evil to it's core, and that feminists are the equivalent of The Klansmen who were hanging black people from lamp posts during The 1920s and Nazis who were gassing Jews and Gypsies during The Holocaust

It's becoming more and more apparent though than animosity towards men doesn't hail from mean-heartedness on behalf of those who are dishing out opprobrium towards us. Most self-identified feminists and those with misgivings about men have the same afflictions Rauch describes in the above video: They have beliefs that aren't so, and they've been immersed in orthodoxies which are stale. These folks really believe that men are genetically predisposed to rape and oppress women, and that we're all walking around on the hunt for any excuse to pummel a child within inches of his or her life. When a large number of our fellow citizens believe that men are a menace to their children and families, they'll inevitably be hostile towards us

Sadly, the leadership of The MRM has, since it's earliest days, chosen to NOT expose the fallaciousness of these ideas and beliefs about men, and mostly gone out of it's way to perpetuate all the negative stereotypes about us being a bunch of shiftless neckbeards who are a drag on society at best, and an inherent threat to our fellow citizens at the worst.

AChromaticHeavn · 2022-07-27T22:33:03+00:00

I'm so sorry this has been your experience.

ConsiderationOdd2929 · 2022-07-27T17:07:43+00:00

It is refreshing to learn that even a physically disabled man (such as yourself) can intimidate the average woman on-sight. Good for you, sir.

SpookieDookie483 · 2022-07-27T23:34:24+00:00

They are the oppressors.

YesYesYesVeryGood · 2022-07-28T03:10:46+00:00

The same beautiful young women who make fun of men end up being single mothers because they do not know how to treat a man. Beauty only goes so far.

The same misandrists refuse to acknowledge that the most financially successful men on this earth concentrate on their talents, trade, and businesses. Of these men, have you ever noticed that their downfall is always a woman or women?

HoldUpWaitWhatt · 2022-07-27T11:22:23+00:00

Who is calling you an oppressor?

Idkwhatoname72 · 2022-07-28T02:45:13+00:00

Slughtly unrelated but Ive seen ppl on tiktok say that its okay to judge men based on their height because theyve had it easy their whole lives.

Title	So, I am the oppressor.
Author	fivefold_
Upvotes	252
Comments	40
Date	July 27, 2022 4:43 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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