Some handy tips for preventing false rape accusations

MRSPArchiver · 2014-04-24T19:55:59+00:00

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TRPACC · 2014-04-24T20:02:51+00:00

this is a parody of the ubiquitous but stupid and insulting "handy tips for preventing rape" flyers

Which are a parody of traditional rape prevention tips which assume rape is normal enough for women to be on a constant rape prevention schedule.

iethatis · 2014-04-24T23:17:10+00:00

Great point. On a serious note, is it legal to secretly record your sexual encounters?

kragshot · 2014-04-25T07:03:14+00:00

On a serious tip...there are steps that you can take legally to help you before a situation can occur. Now and before I get started; realize that these are tips with the assumption that you may have had some genuine semi/intimate contact with the potential accuser. If you are being accused by a woman that you don't know, then all you can do is try your best to gather evidence that places you away from the scene of the crime.

It's an ugly reality, but any time you are alone in a semi-intimate location/setting with a woman that you haven't vetted as being reliably decent; you are risking your very freedom and gambling that she won't decide for whatever reason real (in her head) or contrived that you somehow raped or otherwise, sexually assaulted her. There are adherents in the feminist lobby who look at false rape accusations as a means to gain power over men in general or as a weapon against a specific man for whatever crimes (real or imaginary) he may have committed against her.

Anyway; on to the tips and realize that none of them are foolproof and some of them can be downright despicable; depending upon your motives and intentions toward the woman after your sexual encounter. None of these are illegal, but some of them may easily be considered "unethical." Shit happens...the "rape culture" lobby pushed us into a corner and made this bed...now they have to fuck in it.

On to the tips:

Random bar hookups...just say "no." You don't know this broad from Adam West. Just because she wants to fuck you doesn't mean you should.
Drunk sex- just say "no" to women who are not your SO or an established FWB. A large number of "gray rape" cases happen due to a random drunk bar hookup. She put her "beer goggles" on and thought you were "George Clooney" when you were actually closer to "Gerry Cooney" and when her FBBs saw you two together, rather than just owning up, you become a "rapist" so she can save face. Besides...is drunk pussy really worth the headache?
They call them "wingmen" for a reason. If you're the "designated driver," your job is to keep your boys safe from a night of drunken fun. But in today's "contrived rape culture" society, part of that protection is to make sure that your buds don't get involved in a drunk hookup with a chick who is too blasted to know any better. Your partner may be pissed at you at the moment, but he'll thank you the next day when that sorority bar fly isn't able to use her "Dear Colleague female privilege" to get you arrested or kicked out of college for rape.
If she isn't your SO or FWB, then make sure that tell your friends that a hook up is about to happen. Be discreet if you want to with a text, but make sure that people know that you are about to go off with this woman and possibly have sex. Sometimes, a text or verifiable communication that can place you at a specific place at a given time can be the lynchpin to unravel a contrived story.
Following the above item, make sure that more than a few people you know see you two together after the sex is over and even better; a several people you don't exactly know but can call upon if needed. The easiest way to do that is to go out for coffee or food after the sex. If a waiter/barista sees you two acting all cuddly/cozy after your sex happened, then they can be called upon as witnesses to help confirm that the sex was consensual. After all; if you "raped" her, then why would she be all up under your arm at the local Waffle House afterwards?
Paired selfies; if you are hooking up, then get a phone shot of the two of you together before and after the sex (no, you don't want them with her naked or anything like that); especially after the sex. Again, if something happens, you want to use the photo to establish that there was on coercion going on and that she was genuinely into you.
Morning after texts; another tip that can help establish that your hookup was consensual on her part. Text her about the evening's activities and make sure that she responds. Be warm and comforting in your communication. If you were truly into her, then it should be easy for you to do so. You don't have to be "graphic" about the encounter, but make sure that it can be clearly determined from the communication that the previous evening's sexual encounter was a positive one for her. Even if you genuinely intended to "pump and dump," make sure you get that morning after text back from her first. Many a "player" has been slapped with a false accusation because he didn't even attempt to give the girl the "boyfriend experience" during and just after the sex. A "hey, I hope you had a good time last night" text can save you a lot of headaches.

Those are just a few off of the top of my head. Some of these are just common sense illustrated and others are means to help you legally establish a context that will call substantial doubt if you are accused of a rape or sexual assault.

And for the AMR/SRS jack-holes who might be reading this; realize that most of these tips (especially the last three) can only work if the sex was genuinely consensual. My motivation in doing this is to save other men the singular hell I endured when I was falsely accused of rape. So save your vitriol and find something better to do with your time...perhaps go and molest some young male goats under a bridge or something like that....

avanteguard · 2014-04-25T21:21:41+00:00

wow, this is great!!

baskandpurr · 2014-04-25T00:51:07+00:00

I was hoping for some actual tips for preventing false rape accusations. Like a friendly message to any potential 'victim' the next day, before she decides to be a victim. Hopefully you get a friendly message as a reply, something like "Had a good time last night, see you soon, x x x" would be ideal.

UbuntuNerd · 2014-04-25T03:50:53+00:00

I use cameras. I have them all through out my house and 2 in my car. I figure ill always have accurate evidence of any crimes committed against me (not just limited to false accusations).

shitonmyass · 2014-04-25T04:39:51+00:00

Women are naturally opportunistic it's been scientifically proven. I won't let one near me unless I can pay her to keep her damn mouth shut. Would've loved to live in the 50s

Exactly_what_I_think · 2014-04-24T21:54:02+00:00

Some source links for the "handy tips" would make this more useful.

Title	Some handy tips for preventing false rape accusations
Author	outhouse_steakhouse
Upvotes	85
Comments	113
Date	April 24, 2014 7:55 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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