Strip clubs

TheSnesLord · 2022-08-18T00:50:19+00:00

She got a little peeved and started telling me how wrong that is and how men just go there to see women's tits and ass!

Tell her that there are male strip clubs and that the female audience that go to them are allowed to touch, molest the male strippers and perform fellatio on them. However in a female strip club, the male audience can only look and are not allowed to touch, otherwise he gets kicked out immediately or reported to Police for sexual assault.

I'm willing to bet that your girlfriend is a hypocrite and she herself has been to a male strip club with her female friends and did the things mentioned above to male strippers.

2022-08-17T22:55:25+00:00

I think you're kind of missing the point here it was for the most part A humorous observation

pasta4u · 2022-08-18T12:42:10+00:00

don't go to strip clubs because its a waste of money and only transfers your wealth to a random woman. Save your money and invest in yourself

Brazen-Capybara · 2022-08-18T14:31:00+00:00

When I was younger I visited some strippers, I never saw what was wrong with it. It is just a mutual exchange between two consenting adults. I would give them money and they would give me love and very intense affection. Some of them have given me the best sensual experience in my life and it wasn't just all about the physical aspect, if you have the right person they can also talk with you. It is basically therapy for the body and mind, more effective than a lot of clinical crap.

What I find most odd is that no matter the girlfriend I have been with and now with my wife, I have never received that strong affection. Other than hormones doing the work I have never been with a SO that would just jump on me given the occasion and I wouldn't say I am unattractive. I work out, have a degree, work a decent job and wouldn't consider myself a pushover.

With my wife I'm not only giving her a share of my money (also visa-versa of course), but also my love, affection, care, time... but the sheer level of sensuality and intense desire is not there. I do not understand why I would be so foolish to marry at this point. And I am far from alone from that. From what I heard about a lot of guys wives at both my job and the gym I go to they will simply not give them an intense level of affection that a hooker would provide for just 100 bucks. I just cannot fathom why some wives have every need taken care off but simply do not care to please their significant other or do not enjoy making them feel good want wanted. Even a blowjob is bothersome but she would be happy to receive oral herself. It isn't because she is being particularly selfish in regards to others, it seems to be very wide spread phenomena that a lot of women somehow stopped trying.

IanHawkess · 2022-08-18T06:06:51+00:00

Men are visual. Tbh I don’t get much from these sorts of places but whatever, I’m a live and let live sort of person. I used to know a few girls who worked as dancers in these sorts of places (paying student tuition fees and the like). They did it on autopilot - half the time they’re thinking about something else.

Give me a girl that’s actually hot for you, dancing and stripping just for you any day of the week over someone who’s thinking about what to make for dinner as they slip out of their thong 😂

However, you can bet if women were as visual as men, the social stigma around these establishments would be half of what it is. Think the ‘empowering’ discourse around vibrators etc.

Marc123123 · 2022-08-18T11:06:10+00:00

What the fuck are "women only" zones and what the fuck are "spaced reserved for men"?

Last time I heard something like that it was when I was on holiday in a Muslim country and they had these in some places.

a-aron1112 · 2022-08-18T01:49:17+00:00

That’s somebody’s daughter up there!

GrandSupremeCommandr · 2022-08-17T23:01:51+00:00

There are women anywhere I go to. But it doesn't bother me because I don't have any issues with women.

maryhartman000 · 2022-08-18T03:33:18+00:00

God, I hope she dumped you. Gross.

mouthpeace · 2022-08-17T22:28:30+00:00

But I don't understand why you get to decide who goes anywhere?

Is it a forces thing? "There's a time a place for everything" kind of mentality?

I mean, it's almost like you're suggesting men should be banned from shopping malls or something, just to keep their bad manners private.

Ziigii · 2022-08-18T08:34:21+00:00

I meet with my boys online to play some games. You can do the same if you like a sport like my dad does. There are men only spaces. The thing is that you have to create them because society won't do it these days.

blackdahlialady · 2022-08-18T14:47:04+00:00

I don't understand why women are upset about their men going to strip clubs. The way I see it, I agree with you. It's one of the only places you can go to escape women and honestly escape life for a while. The way I always saw that was as long as he's coming home to me, that's all I care about.

My ex-boyfriend that I was with for several years could come home and tell me that he had gone to a strip club with his friends and I was like oh, okay. Moving on.

I don't care about that kind of stuff. Different but similar topic, I don't understand women who think that porn is cheating. I can understand being upset if your partner is addicted to it and you have discussed them stopping and you figure out that they're still doing it behind your back.

Other than that, I don't understand what the big deal is. The way I look at it is this, would you rather he look at some woman on a screen or would you rather he go out and stick his dick in an actual woman? There you go.

ExampleMajor · 2022-08-18T15:22:01+00:00

And here my wife want to go to a strip club. And bunny ranch type thing when we go to Vegas.

hmm-3- · 2022-08-18T19:45:52+00:00

She's mad that guys are going there to see that, but it is quite literally what the girls signed up for. Either everyone remotely involved in the industry is bad, or we can just agree it's not for everyone.

Title	Strip clubs
Author	Intelligent-Ideal153
Upvotes	100
Comments	101
Date	August 17, 2022 9:26 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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