What can we do?

Raining_Hope · 2022-09-11T14:20:59+00:00

Not in UK so I don't know if any orginizayions. But if you want to help in a way that will be accepted, you can try to help younger men and teens forge their futures. When people talk about men versus women a lot of the time they get the image of adults, not high schoolers who will start adulthood soon. Help them, and it might be both societally supported and help men in general.

It's my opinion that we often give the best we have to offer to our kids and those of the next generation. So with that in mind to help men's rights as a start it might help by putting those resources, talents, and resources to teens who will grow up in a society that says men have too much already. That support will last longer then just while they are teens. Might help a lot in just a few years of them growing into adults.

WingsofSky · 2022-09-12T01:35:01+00:00

We need to "Rebel"!

ggleblanc2 · 2022-09-11T14:13:23+00:00

This is 6 years old, so some groups may have changed.

UK charities that help men

Lalulale · 2022-09-11T15:07:39+00:00

I am in no organization. But every now and then (if the opportunity presents itself) I lead the conversation with my peers towards an issue that affects men negatively. For example when there are talks about deaths I would say as an aside that suicide is the leading cause for deaths of men under 45.

Or if there is a health campaign on going I say something like I whish there was some health awareness for men. About as many men die from prostate cancer as women die from breast cancer.

LagerHead · 2022-09-11T17:08:46+00:00

The first step is to stop viewing people as belonging to groups and view them as individuals. Ideally we wouldn't need men's rights, women's rights, black rights, etc if we called the rights of the individual. We will never achieve anything resembling equal rights until we do.

pearl_harbour1941 · 2022-09-11T18:36:27+00:00

https://youtube.com/channel/UCKhX1c3ow6BrzdzP3ydpeZQ

This is the youtube channel for the children and family party. They fight for men's rights.

user-and-abuser · 2022-09-12T15:20:59+00:00

Shrodedgers feminist

Its between victim hood and leadership.

They pick whatever is more convenient for the moment.

rahsoft · 2022-09-11T14:23:12+00:00

maybe start with the idea that injustices have nothing to with gender( eg dv).

Focus on the act and that it happens to people, otherwise nothing will ever get fixed.

we have a society that is more concerned with playing the victimhood, oppression Olympics and my god is bigger than your god( and by that I also include ideology).

if society wasn't using gender to be divisive,then they would be using race, religion, culture, sexuality etc ( well they already are). so again I believe some people are not interested in fixing issues, but rather in seeking attention, approval etc( including money, funding, status).

don't know of any organisation you can join, although I would be wary of any that claim to be MRA because we already have a few that turn out to be feminists, we have like the good men project or r/menslib..

you could give your support to the mankind initiative if you wish

https://www.mankind.org.uk/

Asatmaya · 2022-09-11T13:56:38+00:00

Nothing. We are inherently unequal, in several different aspects.

The best we can do is to acknowledge that it goes both ways, we each have our advantages, and to address those inequalities in a fair and respectful manner.

Brandwein · 2022-09-11T16:55:32+00:00

Men can not get empathy by society, no matter what is done. So men must discover different avenues to get rights. Those avenues are likely seen as dangerous by society too, there will be severe backlash. But enough people need to do something that is to big to ignore. So that society needs to compromise.

How did common working class men get the right to vote from the upper class? Entirely peacefully, saying they want to be equal? It was likely way more disruptive. (I am no history expert so feel free to correct)

traveller1976 · 2022-09-12T02:23:29+00:00

the concept that men and women can be equal in every dimension has been disproven scientifically; in the western world men do not matter anymore except to put their lives on the line for the common good; there is nothing to be done to improve the situation - men are going their own way - they do not need or want women anymore - they have found substitutes; posting on reddit isn't a joke or waste of time - real lives are saved here and real education is given;

heeroena · 2022-09-11T14:45:03+00:00

you can start by adopting a more masculine less emotional language. Stop things like "I feel". you are man ( I am assuming) so "you think" first then later on you can ponder how your thoughts make you feel. A great resource on this to listen to would be Rollo tomassi and his books. Check him out on youtube

AxidentalJeepBuilder · 2022-09-11T13:58:13+00:00

Nothing. Nature is nature, biology is biology. Men got physical superiority, women got longer lifetime. Women are not as strong as men and men don't live as long as women. Equality and forever peace is just a false dream of humanity. There is no equality. Or at least long lasting or total. You can be equal with your wife, daughter, sister, etc, but not with the rest of the world. One will be above all the others, and this cannot be changed.

buppyu · 2022-09-12T13:14:36+00:00

What can you do? You fight. You lobby.

Don't bother talking to women about men's issues. They will never discuss the issue in good faith. They don't have compassion. They don't care about what's fair of right. They care about themselves and that is all they will ever care about.

Smooth_Influenze · 2022-09-13T00:33:39+00:00

what can you do?

Assuming you are a man... Go the MGTOW route... when the birth rate falls to critical levels, the govt will change their unfair stance, Feminists will be more reasonable and world will be a better place. But yh MGTOW is not a route for all, not everyone can handle the loneliness and needs a partner and they have no choice but to gamble with their lives.

Assuming you are a woman... Thank you for acknowledging that men face issues... whenever and wherever I bring this up, the standard response is women has it worse, which I disagree with, Thereby indirectly saying that "your problems dont matter".

Regarding Organization, Idk any, but i am sure if you google you will find some in your area. But they have been rallying for this cause since before i was aware of men's issues and still have a hard time. So yh, you joining it, I don't think will make a difference.

Me personally follow the organizations in my local area to know that I should stick to the MGTOW route when I get the itch for a partner. To remember that if the partner sux, my life is ruined, so get the itch scratched from someone else.

Title	What can we do?
Author	equalRights111
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Date	September 11, 2022 1:46 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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