Why are so many men brainwashed?

Njaulv · 2026-08-10T07:19:00+00:00

There is this thing called in group and out group bias. For decades it has been tested and shown women have an in group bias and men have an out group bias. In other words everyone is treating women better than men. The reasons behind this are evolutionary and social. Evolutionary men are disposable as it can take one man to impregnate a bunch of women, but one woman can only be impregnated at one point in time for so long and needs someone to help protect and provide for them during pregnancy. That is is the evolutionary biological aspect of it.

Socially people have been treating women with the benefit of the doubt and seen as meek frail creatures compared to men who are boorish and in charge for decades. Then comes feminism that overplays this into men are deliberately keeping women down and women are victims while men are perpetrators. Just look up the Duluth model for example.

In short, we are biologically wired to care more about women than other men, and socially have been programed to see women as soft and to be treated with baby gloves while treating men with hostility and immediate distrust.

Remote_Purpose_4323 · 2026-08-10T00:44:29+00:00

Cause they don’t give a f really, they don’t know all the details, so they assume standard thing, stereotypes, they assume you are just asshole and women are victims and weak standard narrative, also it’s a mom you know so for men it’s usually the sacred thing.

modsaretoddlers · 2026-08-10T03:27:50+00:00

Because it's in every facet of society. First, the conditions are created through brainwashing in the schools. Then it gets reinforced through media and, finally, it's just a matter of peer pressure.

And men want to get laid. That's the big one.

kidney-displacer · 2026-08-10T02:44:44+00:00

The "women are perfect" hypothesis in action

Abject-Ticket-6260 · 2026-08-10T13:10:31+00:00

Women are wonderful effect. Both men and women have a bias towards women.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect

Ok-Direction1155 · 2026-08-10T06:12:26+00:00

It feels like mind-control after awhile

Carbo-Raider · 2026-08-10T03:04:13+00:00

There's a lot of brainwashing in the world. And feminism has brainwashed men. But what you're talking about isn't just brainwashing. Men are WIRED by nature to care more about women. If you search your own feelings, can't you feel that wiring? You see this very clearly; back to the stone age; across the planet.

Curious-Resort4743 · 2026-08-10T09:25:38+00:00

The males in my family died in accents, and old age, I'm the most senior male in my family and I've had to mostly cut off my boomer mother and my aunties, they are all quite toxic, and my life is better without them.

Salt_Lie_1857 · 2026-08-12T04:25:01+00:00

I totally get it. Im from the Caribbean by the way.

frankenbadger · 2026-08-10T04:45:18+00:00

Wait, so you’re saying you cut contact with family members for gossiping, and smearing others… and you gossiped that to “some male friends and an uber driver before posting it on Reddit ?

Ericridge · 2026-08-10T23:41:49+00:00

They probably lack critical thinking. I cut through the bullshit with that and enjoy the life instead.

KneeDeepThought · 2026-08-10T13:08:33+00:00

We are now four generations deep in Feminism deliberately dismantling the nuclear family and putting all women on a pedestal in their quest for female supremacy. Most boys are raised with the incessant messaging that all women are perfect and all men are bad and wrong at all times. This is also why they get away with and benefit from the constant libel, slander, and defamation. Some guys wake up to the smell of constant bullshit like you, and some don't.

Prestigious_Floor155 · 2026-08-10T02:38:25+00:00

Probably because it was family. That's the deepest most peoples connections get really. They probably didn't listen deeply as to the reasons and just heard the big shocker- I've cut off my entire female family for their shit stirring ways.

And they totally do that by the way. I overhear it all the time. It's horrible the things you overhear on the phone. You can't tell them anything not even in jest. They'll spread it around, it'll lose the jest. Like a fish story where the fish not only gets bigger it turns into a damn bird and everyone is like "I heard about this are you ok?". You just look at them stupid like, oh God no. The gossip gang has done another media run of things. Tongues on fire going like that what's left to burn?

CJMorton91 · 2026-08-10T03:28:27+00:00

Men have been protecting women since we lived in caves. It's natural, especially since other men have always been possible threats or competition. It's not brainwashing, it's 100,000 years of habit.

Mistravels · 2026-08-10T00:52:09+00:00

A lot of my family is brainwashed by Trump and the GOP.

I stopped talking to them. They're by far a more existential concern over "feminists"

🤷

Pretend-Storm4566 · 2026-08-10T01:28:48+00:00

A long time ago, some guy commented on the internet, that the difference between the Left and the Right, was that the Left was composed of the conformists, people who believed what the Establishment told them and obeyed. In my analogy here, your male feminists are the Left.

skcuf2 · 2026-08-10T02:07:10+00:00

If you're cutting everyone then maybe they're not the one's that are brainwashed.

PassengerHefty8207 · 2026-08-10T03:35:52+00:00

How's your No Girlz Allowed clubhouse coming along?

ANewCleanSlate · 2026-08-10T03:57:20+00:00

I think most women are lazy, self-centred, entitled bitches, and I still wonder why you're being so harsh to the women. You're cutting off your mom and every other female family member? You're saying none of them are decent?

That's suspicious. It sounds like you are demonizing all women.

Title	Why are so many men brainwashed?
Author	Donnie607
Upvotes	260
Comments	55
Date	August 10, 2026 12:36 AM UTC (3 days ago)
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