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Don't bring rape into it. That's a different discussion. Simply ask them if they received any college loans. In New York, you can ask them if they have a valid driver's license. Check out this list for more fun ideas and discussion topics.
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[+]russlo [recovered] (15 children) | Copy Link
It may be an argument of similar form ("Why do you bring up X?/Have you been X?"), but it's not an argument of similar type. It's an emotional argument versus a factual argument ("Why do you bring up X?/Have you been X?" vs "Why do you bring up Y?/Have you been Y?").
Are you trying to tell me that registering with Selective Service is as emotionally damaging as being raped? I registered for it. I didn't like knowing that if they started a draft again my number could be called. So this, my emotional response as a male that registered with Selective Service, is not the same level of emotional response that they will bring to the table about rape, I can guarantee you. You're going to allow them to amp up the emotions when you're trying to talk about something reasonably.
Seriously, what happens the time you try that on someone that's been raped? Tactically, why set yourself up for that trap? You'll never win an argument with someone if you let them stop the reason and logic flowing out of your mouth so they can misdirect to emotional hysterics and slam the door as they stomp out of the room. Which they'll do, because they don't have an actual argument based on reality, they have an emotional argument based on trying to gain everything and lose nothing.
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